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Your Solar Return chart—cast for your birthday each year—can offer deep insight into the main themes of the coming year. One of the most exciting potentials it can reveal? Love commitments like engagement or marriage. Here are the most telling placements that may point toward a year of deep emotional union or even a wedding:

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💍 ☀️ Sun in the 7th House: Your focus this year shifts toward relationships and partnerships. This placement often highlights a desire for companionship, commitment, and sometimes legal unions. Marriage becomes a central theme.

💖 ♀️ Venus in the 7th House: Venus rules love, beauty, and harmony. In the house of partnerships, it brings a desire to commit and deepens romantic connections. This often suggests a year of taking things to the next level romantically—like getting engaged or moving in together.

🌟 ♃ Jupiter in the 4th / 5th / 7th House: Jupiter expands whatever it touches. • In the 7th → Relationships blossom. Commitment and emotional growth are favored. • In the 4th → Desire to build a home or start a family grows stronger. • In the 5th → Love feels lucky, joyful, and fertile. Romance and possible pregnancy themes arise.

🌙 ☽ Moon in the 4th or 7th House: The Moon governs emotions and needs. • In the 4th → There’s a longing for a stable home and emotional security. • In the 7th → You may feel more emotionally available and eager to bond with a significant other.

💫 Venus-Jupiter Conjunction or Harmonious Aspects: The combination of love (Venus) and expansion (Jupiter) is astrological magic. Together, they can mark a year of abundance in love and opportunities for meaningful commitment or marriage.

🌓 Nodes on the 1st/7th Axis: When the Lunar Nodes align with your Ascendant-Descendant axis, fated partnerships may appear. A karmic connection or destined relationship could begin, or a major relationship may evolve toward something more permanent.

🪐 Saturn’s Supportive Aspect to the 7th House: Saturn brings structure and longevity. If it makes supportive aspects (trine, sextile) to planets in or ruling the 7th house, you may enter a serious, long-term relationship that has the potential for lasting commitment—especially if marriage is on your radar.

🌙 Progressed Moon Entering the 7th House: In your progressed chart, the Moon’s move into the 7th house often signals the beginning of a relationship era. Many people experience deepening partnerships, proposals, or marriage under this shift.

🏠 Venus or Jupiter on the IC/MC Axis: The IC (home) and MC (public life/status) are key angles in the natal chart. When Venus or Jupiter activates these points in a Solar Return, you may feel ready to build a home, get married, or announce your relationship publicly.

💘 Transiting Venus & Jupiter Conjunction or Passing Through the 7th House: This rare and lucky transit can align with engagements, wedding planning, or joyous new relationships. If you're already with someone, this could be the year you make it official.

🌟 Reminder: While these placements are powerful on their own, always consider your natal chart context and how transits or progressions interact with it. But if you’ve got several of these showing up at once—don't be surprised if you're gettina a ring by year's end 💍

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In astrology, marriage is primarily linked to the 7th House of your birth chart, which rules partnerships, relationships, and commitments. But predicting when marriage might happen isn’t just about looking at one thing—it’s about analyzing a combination of factors in your chart and transits.

The 7th House and Its Ruler

The 7th House is the area of your chart that governs marriage, serious relationships, and even business partnerships. The planet that rules your 7th House (its ruler) is also super important. For example, if your 7th House is in Libra, Venus is its ruler; if it’s in Aries, Mars is the ruler. When benefic planets (like Jupiter or Venus) transit your 7th House or make positive aspects to its ruler, it can indicate a time of increased opportunities for marriage or serious relationships.

Jupiter: The Planet of Expansion and Luck

Jupiter is one of the most significant planets when it comes to marriage timing. It’s known as the planet of expansion, luck, and blessings. When Jupiter transits your 7th House or aspects its ruler, it can bring opportunities for meeting someone special, deepening a relationship, or even getting married. However, Jupiter takes 12 years to complete its cycle through the zodiac, so these moments are rare but powerful.

Venus: The Planet of Love and Harmony

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and harmony, also plays a key role in marriage timing. When Venus transits your 7th House or aspects its ruler, it can bring a period of romantic opportunities, attraction, and harmony in relationships. Venus moves much faster than Jupiter, so its transits are more frequent. However, its influence is often more about short-term romantic opportunities rather than long-term commitments like marriage. Still, if Venus is working alongside other supportive transits (like Jupiter or Saturn), it can definitely contribute to marriage timing.

Saturn: The Planet of Commitment and Responsibility

Saturn is often misunderstood as a “bad” planet, but when it comes to marriage, it’s actually one of the most important indicators. Saturn represents commitment, responsibility, and long-term structures. When Saturn transits your 7th House or aspects its ruler, it can bring a time of serious commitment, like marriage. This is especially true during your Saturn Return (around ages 28-30 and again around 58-60), which is a major life milestone. Many people get married or make long-term commitments (or divorce... but we are not talking about it in this post, hehe) during this time because Saturn pushes us to grow up and take responsibility in our relationships.

i was thinking a lot about which aspects i should talk about first, then i remembered the moon squaring the rising sign. i’ve met a lot of people with this aspect in real life and they all have this look on their face, like their appearance shows something they’re hiding inside, and if you pay attention it’s always a surprise. for example, take someone with an aquarius rising and a scorpio moon, you would never guess what’s going on underneath all that detachment you see on the surface. if that person ever speaks up about how they feel inside and actually talks about their emotions, everyone would be shocked.

every time i want to figure out someone’s rising sign and i don’t know their exact birth time, i look at the whole chart and focus on what makes sense as the chart ruler. people don’t really talk enough about chart rulers even though they can tell you a lot about someone. i use it since to me it shows physical appearance more clearly than the rising sign alone. the rising sign gives the general energy, but the ascendant ruler points to more specific physical traits that help narrow things down. for example i met someone who gave off a leo vibe, but there was also something a bit intense, almost scorpio-like. when i looked at his chart, i noticed he had mercury in leo, and that made me think mercury was important, so he had to be either a gemini or virgo rising. based on his overall energy, virgo fit more. he was tall, had strong hair and presence, matching the leo influence through mercury. he also had his rising square pluto, which explained the intensity. it wasn’t obvious or in your face like a scorpio rising, but you could still sense it in a more subtle way. this is honestly the part i enjoy doing the most. i love astrology on god loll

what’s worse than meeting someone with a water moon that has hard aspects to jupiter or saturn honestly nothing. dealing with that level of sensitivity can be exhausting, the crying, the constant emotional overload, the victim mindset, it gets to a point where it feels suffocating. i’m not talking about a healthy moon or balanced water moon aspects at all, i mean the really tough ones. it’s hard to even explain how draining it can be, and if you want proof don’t ask me, ask anyone who’s actually had to deal with it. and the problem they be saying no i'm not sensitive while crying like wtf

I don’t know, people don’t understand how Lilith really has a huge impact in a man’s chart. Like, Lilith is just… actually, even in a woman’s chart, it has a lot of effect. If you’re looking at it in a woman’s chart, it represents the part of her that she doesn’t show to people, to the public. Not a lot of people know this about her. It’s something she’s ashamed of. Maybe some people know about it, but it’s like… her dark side. not like “I’m dangerous,” no, no. It’s more like something she’s ashamed of, something that if anyone knew, it would destabilize the image she presents to the world. In a man’s chart, it’s kind of the same, but it shows the type of woman he’s ashamed to admit he likes or wants. There’s something about it that makes him feel like if he says it out loud, people would judge him or think it doesn’t fit who he is. And this is really interesting, the topic of Lilith. I’m actually thinking about opening a paid reading just about Lilith in a man and woman’s chart.

there’s something about cancer people, especially when it’s tied to saturn or the 10th house. they love (especially women) they love to mother people, not just because they love them, but it’s also kind of a control thing. it’s like, “i want to care for you so i can control you.” they wouldn’t really think about it consciously, it just comes together naturally. if i care for you, then you should listen to me, because i know what’s better for you than you do. it’s a mothering-authority type of dynamic. people with this placement often mix care and control in one, and there’s a thin line between genuinely caring and trapping someone in an emotional space.for example, imagine them as parents(their worst state if not mature enough)but even just in general, they can be scared for the people they love. they might not let someone go out for days just because they’re worried. it’s like, “do what i want,” not even really about the other person, it’s about controlling the situation for their emotional safety . even with older people or their own parents, they can feel like something bad might happen, so they need to control it before it slips away. it’s this kind of thing. and let’s not even start on the fear of abandonment. we won’t get into that.

(synastry) you would never, if you were a girl, want to meet another girl and make her your friend when her moon falls in your 10th house. never. never. you will never really enjoy that friendship. i’m saying this again and again just to make it clear that it’s going to be the worst. this is the kind of person who will copy you from head to toe, your tone, the way you speak, the way you feel, the way you enjoy yourself, the way you show up in public. they will copy the shit out of you. the way you talk, your hair, if you do something, they will do it too. it gets dangerous because at some point it becomes unconscious. it goes into the subconscious and they start doing it like crazy. it’s honestly insane.and i can tell you, you would feel like you’re being harassed in your own energy, in your own space, in your own authority, especially if you have a 10th house stellium. you would never enjoy it. never. it feels like your public image is being taken from you. she takes everything you show to other people and makes it her own.

(synastry) if a man has his moon in your fourth house, you are similar to his mom. you remind him of her, a lot. he feels safe with you because you have certain traits that remind him of her.

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It’s common to move homes if you have your solar return Saturn, Uranus or Moon conjunct the IC in the solar return chart.

When your Solar Return Sun is in your 6th house you may begin a new exercise regimen or start to take your health very seriously this year. Weight loss is often accompanied by this placement. (Unless you have your Solar Return Jupiter conjunct the Ascendant or 6th house cusp)

If your Solar Return Midheaven is in the same sign as your Natal Midheaven. Something significant is likely to happen in relation to your career, worldly status or your reputation. You may reach a new career height (major promotion)or perhaps you go from being engaged to married etc…

When your Solar Return Jupiter is in your Solar Return 2nd house, you are likely going to make more money this year. Please note, that the change is not always this extreme change in finances (that’s Pluto). It’s most often a subtle increase in finances.

When your Solar Return Midheaven is in Leo, you will often become more well known in your career field. Alternatively, something significant may occur in your life that becomes public knowledge with this placement.

If your Solar Return Jupiter is in your 3rd house, and you own your own business, you will likely see an increase in sales unless Jupiter is afflicted.

If Your Solar Return Venus is conjunct you Solar Return Sun in the 8th house of your Solar Return chart. You will likely see an increase in your finances or your sexual experiences.

The year in which your Solar Return sun is in your 12th house, is likely the year in which you will become very interested in astrology, spiritually etc.. This can also be a year in which you become more introspective and reclusive.

When you have your Solar Return Venus or Sun in the 5th house, you may begin casually dating this year or going out more/investing in your hobbies.

When your Solar Return Sun is in your 3rd house, you may find that your day to day life becomes very busy. You may feel as if you are always “on the go” during this solar return year. This is also a good time to enroll in a short course, start a blog, or work on growing your social media. (Venus or Jupiter here will also increase this effect)

The year you have your solar return Neptune making a conjunction to your Solar Return Midheaven, may be a year in which you feel lost, in terms of your career or life’s direction. Alternatively, this may be a year in which you pursue a career in the arts or anything related to spirituality or healing.

When your Solar Return Neptune is in your 1st house or making a conjunction to your Ascendant, you may find yourself taking more pictures of yourself that year.

An 11th house stellium in your Solar Return will likely be a year in which you work really hard towards achieving your goals. You are likely to be reaping the benefits for all your hard work (career-related) . This is especially true if you have a benefic (Jupiter or Venus) in your Solar Return 2nd house.

Welcome back to our astrology series. In this second episode, we're building on the foundation from our last video, where we explored the houses and zodiac signs. Today, we're diving into the key elements that bring your birth chart to life:

The Planets – the who in your story

Aspects – the how they interact

Degrees – the precision behind it all

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