#relationshipastrology

A quick note for you guys. You can really tell what someone is into if you look at the planets conjunct or simply aspecting darakaraka. Like if Venus is your darakaraka, then you love a spouse who has fine taste, dresses well and looks extremely good. And if it is conjunct Sun, then yep, you need a highly confident person, like a godly person. With conjunction it is very intense because it is not something you like but something you need in a partner.

I have found conjunctions are the strongest with this to see likeness. Oppositions will be something you hate about them but cannot help but also admire that trait. Like if Saturn is opposite Venus, then you love how they feel so secure and dependable and mature, but also hate the fact that they are too strict or aloof with you. With sextiles and trines, it would be complimenting traits that just makes them very desirable to your soul. And squares will be you simply hate those things about them. So it is a very basic, foolproof, sure and efficient way to recognize your future spouse as well. Also applicable to western astrology just take 7th lord in that case and also d9 chart. For Vedic I recommend to focus on darakarka for this method rather than 7th lord for both d1 and d9 charts.

Sun

Highly confident, authoritative, radiant, natural leader, proud, deeply focused on self expression and vitality. They have a main character energy. They are likely very ambitious, protective, and want to be admired.

Moon

Nurturing, deeply emotional, intuitive, empathetic, adaptable, heavily tied to family, home, or comfort. They are a caretaker. They wear their heart on their sleeve, tune into your emotional needs instinctively, and prioritize emotional security and coziness.

Mercury

Highly intellectual, communicative, witty, youthful, curious, restless, and analytical. They are a talker and a thinker. You will have endless conversations, lots of banter, and they likely have a very playful, almost mischievous sense of humor. They need mental stimulation.

Venus

Beautiful, diplomatic, artistic, romantic, pleasure seeking, and focused on aesthetics. They have fine taste, prioritize harmony, dress well, and know how to enjoy the finer things in life. They are natural charmers and peacemakers.

Mars

Energetic, athletic, passionate, assertive, protective, impulsive, and sometimes aggressive or highly competitive. They are a doer. They have a lot of physical energy, are likely very direct with their desires, and fiercely protect what is theirs. They bring heat and action to the relationship.

Jupiter

Wise, optimistic, philosophical, generous, expansive, spiritual, and sometimes dogmatic or preachy. They are the eternal student or teacher. They likely love traveling, learning, and discussing big picture concepts. They bring luck, abundance, and a very positive, everything will work out attitude.

Saturn

Mature, disciplined, secure, hardworking, traditional, serious, dependable, but can be aloof or overly strict. As you mentioned, they are the rock. They offer unparalleled stability, loyalty, and practical support, though they might struggle to be spontaneously affectionate or emotionally raw.

Rahu (North Node)

Unconventional, ambitious, obsessive, rule breaking, glamorous, deeply attached to material success or worldly experiences. They might be from a completely different cultural background or foreign land. They are likely magnetic, intense, and highly driven to achieve, sometimes breaking societal norms to get what they want. They bring an element of unpredictability and excitement.

Ketu (South Node)

Spiritual, detached, highly intuitive, mystical, private, introspective, and unbothered by material success. They are an old soul. They might be incredibly hard to read, preferring solitude or spiritual pursuits over climbing the corporate ladder or socializing. They offer a deep, almost psychic connection, but can also suddenly isolate themselves or seem entirely detached from the physical world.

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∝ Venus in Aries will fall fast, and lose interest just as fast if it stops feeling real

∝ Venus in Taurus will stay, as long as things feel stable, even when they’re not perfect

∝ Venus in Gemini will lose interest if there’s nothing left to talk about

∝ Venus in Cancer will hold on, even after they’ve already been hurt.

∝ Venus in Leo will give a lot, but quietly pull back if they don’t feel appreciated.

∝ Venus in Virgo will overthink everything and still try to show love in small, practical ways.

∝ Venus in Libra will try to keep the peace, even when something doesn’t feel right.

∝ Venus in Scorpio will test you a lot before trusting you completely.

∝ Venus in Sagittarius will pull away if they start feeling restricted.

∝ Venus in Capricorn will take their time, but once they commit, they don’t take it lightly.

∝ Venus in Aquarius will create distance if things start feeling too intense.

∝ Venus in Pisces will see the best in you, even when it’s not fully there.

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i was thinking a lot about which aspects i should talk about first, then i remembered the moon squaring the rising sign. i’ve met a lot of people with this aspect in real life and they all have this look on their face, like their appearance shows something they’re hiding inside, and if you pay attention it’s always a surprise. for example, take someone with an aquarius rising and a scorpio moon, you would never guess what’s going on underneath all that detachment you see on the surface. if that person ever speaks up about how they feel inside and actually talks about their emotions, everyone would be shocked.

every time i want to figure out someone’s rising sign and i don’t know their exact birth time, i look at the whole chart and focus on what makes sense as the chart ruler. people don’t really talk enough about chart rulers even though they can tell you a lot about someone. i use it since to me it shows physical appearance more clearly than the rising sign alone. the rising sign gives the general energy, but the ascendant ruler points to more specific physical traits that help narrow things down. for example i met someone who gave off a leo vibe, but there was also something a bit intense, almost scorpio-like. when i looked at his chart, i noticed he had mercury in leo, and that made me think mercury was important, so he had to be either a gemini or virgo rising. based on his overall energy, virgo fit more. he was tall, had strong hair and presence, matching the leo influence through mercury. he also had his rising square pluto, which explained the intensity. it wasn’t obvious or in your face like a scorpio rising, but you could still sense it in a more subtle way. this is honestly the part i enjoy doing the most. i love astrology on god loll

what’s worse than meeting someone with a water moon that has hard aspects to jupiter or saturn honestly nothing. dealing with that level of sensitivity can be exhausting, the crying, the constant emotional overload, the victim mindset, it gets to a point where it feels suffocating. i’m not talking about a healthy moon or balanced water moon aspects at all, i mean the really tough ones. it’s hard to even explain how draining it can be, and if you want proof don’t ask me, ask anyone who’s actually had to deal with it. and the problem they be saying no i'm not sensitive while crying like wtf

I don’t know, people don’t understand how Lilith really has a huge impact in a man’s chart. Like, Lilith is just… actually, even in a woman’s chart, it has a lot of effect. If you’re looking at it in a woman’s chart, it represents the part of her that she doesn’t show to people, to the public. Not a lot of people know this about her. It’s something she’s ashamed of. Maybe some people know about it, but it’s like… her dark side. not like “I’m dangerous,” no, no. It’s more like something she’s ashamed of, something that if anyone knew, it would destabilize the image she presents to the world. In a man’s chart, it’s kind of the same, but it shows the type of woman he’s ashamed to admit he likes or wants. There’s something about it that makes him feel like if he says it out loud, people would judge him or think it doesn’t fit who he is. And this is really interesting, the topic of Lilith. I’m actually thinking about opening a paid reading just about Lilith in a man and woman’s chart.

there’s something about cancer people, especially when it’s tied to saturn or the 10th house. they love (especially women) they love to mother people, not just because they love them, but it’s also kind of a control thing. it’s like, “i want to care for you so i can control you.” they wouldn’t really think about it consciously, it just comes together naturally. if i care for you, then you should listen to me, because i know what’s better for you than you do. it’s a mothering-authority type of dynamic. people with this placement often mix care and control in one, and there’s a thin line between genuinely caring and trapping someone in an emotional space.for example, imagine them as parents(their worst state if not mature enough)but even just in general, they can be scared for the people they love. they might not let someone go out for days just because they’re worried. it’s like, “do what i want,” not even really about the other person, it’s about controlling the situation for their emotional safety . even with older people or their own parents, they can feel like something bad might happen, so they need to control it before it slips away. it’s this kind of thing. and let’s not even start on the fear of abandonment. we won’t get into that.

(synastry) you would never, if you were a girl, want to meet another girl and make her your friend when her moon falls in your 10th house. never. never. you will never really enjoy that friendship. i’m saying this again and again just to make it clear that it’s going to be the worst. this is the kind of person who will copy you from head to toe, your tone, the way you speak, the way you feel, the way you enjoy yourself, the way you show up in public. they will copy the shit out of you. the way you talk, your hair, if you do something, they will do it too. it gets dangerous because at some point it becomes unconscious. it goes into the subconscious and they start doing it like crazy. it’s honestly insane.and i can tell you, you would feel like you’re being harassed in your own energy, in your own space, in your own authority, especially if you have a 10th house stellium. you would never enjoy it. never. it feels like your public image is being taken from you. she takes everything you show to other people and makes it her own.

(synastry) if a man has his moon in your fourth house, you are similar to his mom. you remind him of her, a lot. he feels safe with you because you have certain traits that remind him of her.

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If you have Venus in Aquarius in your natal chart, you don’t always react right away. You might need a bit of space first to figure out what you’re actually feeling, even if from the outside it looks like you’ve already pulled back.

With Mars in Libra in your natal chart, you can show interest in quiet ways. You’re there, you pay attention, but there’s often a pause before you act, like you’re making sure it feels right for both sides.

If you have Moon sextile Saturn in your natal chart, you probably don’t show everything as it comes up. You take it in, sit with it, and by the time you speak about it, you’ve already processed more than people think.

With Mercury in Virgo in your natal chart, you might come back to what you said, rephrase it, and adjust it. Not because you’re unsure, but because you want it to actually reflect what you mean.

If you have Venus opposite Pluto in your natal chart, attraction doesn’t always show up clearly at first. It builds, shifts, and becomes more obvious through how things change over time rather than all at once.

With Jupiter in the 5th house in your natal chart, there’s something open and expressive about you. People tend to feel it, even when you’re not trying to stand out.

If you have Sun square Neptune in your natal chart, you’re not always easy to read. There’s a part of you that stays a bit undefined, and that’s often what makes people keep trying to understand you.

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With Venus opposite Pluto in your natal chart, people can become emotionally competitive around you without even realizing it. Your energy tends to effortlessly bring out possessiveness, comparison, obsession, or insecurity in others.

If you have Mercury conjunct Saturn in your natal chart, people usually take your words VERY seriously. Even when you think you’re just making a normal observation, others may hear it as criticism or feel intimidated by your intelligence.

With Mars trine Pluto in your natal chart, your energy can feel naturally intense or powerful to other people, especially in competitive or professional environments. Some people instantly feel challenged by you.

If your Moon squares your Saturn, other people may see you as emotionally controlled, distant, or harder to read than you actually are. That energy can make insecure people feel uncomfortable around you very fast.

With Lilith trine your Ascendant in your natal chart, people tend to project a LOT onto you. Jealousy, fascination, insecurity, attraction… sometimes all at once.

If Pluto conjuncts your Ascendant in your natal chart, people usually notice your presence immediately, even when you’re literally just existing quietly. Some people become weirdly intimidated by you without understanding why.

With Sun square Uranus in your natal chart, people may secretly admire how unapologetically different, unpredictable, or independent you are, but at the same time feel deeply uncomfortable because they can’t control or fully understand your energy.

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🐚 Venus in Aries 

Some people can develop feelings almost immediately, and that doesn’t always make those feelings less genuine or less serious.

🐚 Venus in Taurus

Over time, emotional consistency matters more than occasional intensity or grand romantic gestures.

🐚 Venus in Gemini

A relationship can start feeling emotionally flat once conversation, curiosity, or mental stimulation disappears.

🐚 Venus in Cancer

People may love much more openly once they stop feeling emotionally unsafe or guarded.

🐚 Venus in Leo

Countless people need visible affection, reassurance, and emotional responsiveness more than they openly admit.

🐚 Venus in Virgo

Care can show up in practical ways: paying attention, helping, remembering details, and checking in consistently.

🐚 Venus in Libra

Wanting harmony in a relationship can be easier than maintaining balance once conflict and real emotions appear.

🐚 Venus in Scorpio

Some people may experience emotional attachment very intensely, even when they seem detached on the surface.

🐚 Venus in Sagittarius

Some people may experience emotional attachment very intensely, even when they seem detached on the surface.

🐚Venus in Capricorn

Someone can be dependable, loyal, and present while still struggling with emotional openness or vulnerability (!!!!!!!)

🐚 Venus in Aquarius

Some people may express love more through presence, understanding, and consistency than obvious emotional intensity.

🐚 Venus in Pisces

Certain connections can remain emotionally meaningful long after they end, even when both people know they realistically couldn’t last.

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