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You should support all your headmates actually. Even the bad ones.
I mean it.
Support your controversial headmates. Support your harmful headmates.
Support the headmates who are a little bit too aggressive in headspace
Support the problematic fictives who are sourced connected/act like their source
Support the problematic factives. The true crime criminals who would do it again. The infamous celebrity who doesn't care or regret their source's actions.
Support the persecutors and prosecutors who hurt people. Don't care if they hurt people. Are actively hurting people.
Support the headmates who are "evil". Who self-identify as such. Who want to be and be seen as such.
Support the headmates who are bigoted. Who spout racism, homophobia, transphobia, antisemitism, etc freely. Who have internalised bigotry. Who see nothing wrong with their views. Who know their views are wrong and don't care anyway.
Support the headmates so starved for attention that they'll write whatever bigoted nonsense in the hopes people will start calling them out and giving them attention.
Support the headmates who are transID. Who are radqueer. Who are harmful paraphiles. Who are whatever-the-fuck-contact. You think spiting them in your head will do anything?
It doesn't matter if you don't like them, or if you want them dead. You don't have to encourage their actions, or agree with them to support them. But for Christ's sake, we're all sharing the same body whether we like it or not. Make it hurt less for the rest of us, why don't you?
They talk about harm reduction or whatever. Acceptance is the first step, isn't it? So accept them. Accept us.
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Beings with problematic sources (including fictives and fictionkin) generally get the short end of the stick, but I feel like whatever gets thrown at fictives, gets thrown at factives (and factkin) worse.
So, I just want to remind you. You don’t have to feel bad about your source. You don’t need to source separate. You don’t need to spend your life repenting your source’s actions.
I am not my source. But, my source meant a lot to my system and my creation as a nostalgia holder reflects that. I know that there are problematic factives out there who very much are their source. You are valid too.
That being said, your source is not an excuse for bad behaviour. Sometimes, you’ll need to unlearn certain beliefs and behaviours that might stem from your source. That isn’t an attack on your source or you. It might suck at first, but trust me, it’ll be better in the long run.
Before i begin if this is too discourse-y i deeply apologize and understand if you need to delete this! I don't think it should be but I'm very bad about understanding what is or isn't. /gen
Why, is it so hard for headmates who have "problematic" sources to exist in other plural spaces, whether or not the introject/headmate ids with source or not?
Hazbin hotel/helluva, Harry Potter, etc. I can understand why one may not want to make content for it, but i feel like if i make content myself for us then i feel like I'll have people try to cancel me or bully me. When i already know its problematic and no way do i support the creators.
It just feels like now days people aren't allowed to like/enjoy things that are problematic while KNOWING its problematic because you either get lumped in with Haters Who Watch it and aren't actually critical just, hater bullies, or, people who love it sm they dont see flaws.
i guess tldr version is i hate that at least for ours/us , problematic introjects ( fictional or factives ) are supposed to just.. go into hiding or not use their names.
this did get a bit long and also a bit discoursey. but we really feel you here anon. our response is below the cut.
hey, we’re sorry, we know exactly what you’re talking about, but we do not have a good answer for you. it really is so unfortunate that introjects with problematic sources are so often scorned, cast aside, ignored, or unable to live their lives in ways which are affirming to them.
engaging with ““bad”” or problematic media doesn’t make you a bad person. thought crimes aren’t real. people are capable of consuming media without being like the people within the work and making the same choices. you’re allowed to like hazbin hotel or harry potter or whatever. literally it’s fine. some amount of critical thinking may be necessary (for example, enjoying hp while understanding the author’s bigotry and how that may have influenced the work), but again, consuming problematic media is fine. besides, engaging with media with problematic themes may be cathartic for a lot of people and can even help folks come to terms with their own pasts and trauma histories.
we’re huge proponents of do no harm, take no shit, ie consuming problematic media doesn’t harm anyone. but engaging in harmful or problematic behavior does, so check yourself, and be open to being called out if consuming certain things has influenced you to start acting in harmful ways. as an example of this, our system really loves breaking bad. a character on that show says “bitch” a lot, and that got incorporated into our own lexicon. it was on us though to learn how to curb our language and when it was and wasn’t appropriate to use that word. that doesn’t mean we can no longer enjoy breaking bad. it just means that we have to be cognizant about how the media we love has been influencing us.
but when introjects are involved, people seriously need to understand that these system members are not literally their sources, even if they are extremely source connected. introjects (and we do mean all introjects, not just fictives!) with problematic sources are real. they exist in the real world, and they deserve to be treated as people and respected as equals, not as discourse points or something that exists in theory but not in real life. a hazbin hotel introject making fanart or writing fanfic of their source does not benefit the creator of the original work in any way, and should not be a reflection on that introject or their system’s character. and quite frankly it is no one else’s business how an introject chooses to engage with their source.
we do think that introjects whose source is a real person who committed atrocities or caused grave harm should absolutely keep their source’s victims in mind when they discuss their source in order to be respectful towards other real people who have been harmed. but we believe that just takes cognizance and self awareness with a willingness to center compassion and respect for others and primarily victims of your source in the ways you engage with it publicly.
idk we could go on about this for much longer but in the end:
1. it’s okay to enjoy problematic or flawed media. it’s okay to make fan works for said media. you’re not supporting the original artists or creators by enjoying their flawed work and making fan works of your own.
2. introjects need to be treated as people with rights and agency first and foremost, even if they are incredibly source attached. that means they should have the agency to use their own names or appearances and identifying how they wish. it’s their lives, after all.
3. people in general and especially in the plural community should strive to be more understanding towards introjects, many of which did not get to choose their source, many of which may have complicated relationships with their source, and none of which need to be lectured or preached at about how their source is harmful. like. chances are, they already know.
idk. sorry if this is messy or all over the place, feel free to reach out if you need any clarification or have further questions. introjects with problematic sources will always be welcome on our blog, no questions asked. and we hope to help cultivate a plural community which is kinder and more understanding towards introjects of all stripes.
It's Atticus. I got thrown into front for some reason, so I wanted to start some conversation.
Problematic factives, specifically of publically harmful people, what's the hardest part for you about being yourself? How does it affect the way you see yourself and interact.
This post is ONLY for factives, fictives do NOT derail, fictives, do NOT speak over anyone, fictives do NOT decide it's your place to tell someone's else's story
