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Dysphoric culture is!

Also, yes the struggle is real! During the heatwave mod would come home, remove the dysphoria hoodie, and just sit on the floor like a pile of slime.

1. As an old/older man or women

2. Transitioning and ending up not being conveniently attractive

Most of the time if both of those end up being appealing/better than your current situation, it points towards gender dysphoria/if you should transition. Primarily the “if you should transition” part because a lot of detransitioners say that they realized it was a mistake was when they didn’t end up looking perfect or suddenly were faced with the idea of growing old as that gender.

(Meant for afab but could work for amab. I wouldn’t know)

So I noticed that singing songs that are sung deeper or just singing way lower than the actual singer helps lower your voice over time which is pretty rad. I don’t sing but when I’m home alone I try to as low as I can and my voice.

I found that the best songs are a lot from Panic! at the Disco (Northern Downpour and House of Memories are good) and songs from the Lemon Boy by Cavetown. Especially Boys Will Be Bus bc mate it’s about being a boy yeehaw. I’ve heard YMCA is too.

I have noticed that voice is significantly lower than it was 2-3 years ago when I came out as nonbinary, especially on the last six months since I’ve been training myself to speak power than usual. My speaking voice to strangers, is no longer super high pitched from anxiety because I’ve reminded myself enough to speak lower to pass as a dude when I’m in public so remember to do that as well!!

Chrysalis sells underwear and linger for trans women http://www.chrysalislingerie.com/store.html

Booty shorts or hip huggers are also great options if you cannot afford those products. A little make up also goes a long way! Have fun this summer!!

I would defiantly search for some good tucking videos.