#placio

Observing ambi-favrep

The name is a combi of ambivalent, favorable and repulsed. Observing ambi-favrep is a subset of observing ambivalent where you are observing repulsed regarding people looking at you but observing favorable for you looking at people.

Also alternatively:

Placioaesthetic

The aesthetic equivalent to placiosexual.

followers of this blog, what acespec labels do you identify with?

i got the list by going through this blog's common identity tags. there weren't enough options in the poll to fit everything, so i grouped together some of the more similar ones, but i apologize if it seems reductive.

couple things:

if multiple apply to you, choose either the one you feel the most attached to or the one that's more specific. you can elaborate in the tags or comments if u want to give me the full picture.

if you fall under the "other" category, elaborate in the tags or comments also.

if you're one of like 2 allos that follow, just scroll past, i couldn't afford to include that option lol

IF YOU DON'T FOLLOW THIS BLOG AT ALL SCROLL PAST

Demibiplaciosexual and Genderfluid combo flag! ^^ For an anon! Hope you like this~~

[Image description: A placio pride flag shaped like a peace sign on a gray background]

lions >:3

have you ever felt like you almost nearly had yourself figured out, and you were searching endlessly for the right words to describe what you felt, the right ones just barely out of reach? that’s what i’ve been feeling a lot of recently. i’ve known that with regards to who i’m attracted to, gender does not and has never really mattered to me. sure, there’s some benefits for certain genders, but that in no way inhibits my ability to be attracted to people. what’s always been a bit more confusing to me is the sexual part of sexuality. it almost feels like when i tell someone i’m bi, i have to put a “but” on the end of it. i’ve been doing a lot of research recently after something happened with a person i was seeing, and today i finally found the right words to describe me. in the broadest terms, i’m bi/pansexual. more specifically, i’m asexual. even more specifically, i’m on the ace spectrum. finally, the most specific and most accurate label is placiosexual, deriving from the prefix “placio-” meaning “to please.” check out this link if you want to read more about it https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Placiosexual

so, in summary, hi! my name is wildflower, and i’m panromantic and pansexual/placiosexual. most importantly, however, i am comfortable in my sexuality. obviously, i’m probably going to continue just saying i’m bi because that’s a term most people know, but that’s a-okay with me. plus, i wouldn’t want anyone besides my partner or others in the community to need to know that level of detail.

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Placio Gamzee Makara from Homestuck lockscreens for anon!