our system really struggles with wanting everything to be Theirs. the wardrobe and the room mostly. we don't share anything except what's necessary. so we decided we're going to have our gatekeeper set everything up for us so we have to stick to one particular decor and dress style to make it simple and so we are discouraged from buying more things we don't need or have room for. tldr he is making us all share

the style is monochrome, very simplistic and clean but not minimal. acubi on pinterest is very similar. the issue with that is that our littles, who as u know from our permakid posting are very important to us, don't like it and want a colorful room - which the adults also don't like. so we're stuck between letting the littles decor and fashion rule us, or locking them up in a grey black and white box of destimulation

what are some ways we can make this work for them? we don't want to just get kids stuff in black and white, we want them to be able to have color and cute clothes. but something important and crucial to us is that we have our kids stuff out on display, it makes us feel safe. but it would clash with the look of the rest of the room.

Transage Tip: if you’re a transbaby/transtoddler or just think this sounds like something that would be fun and euphoria inducing for you, get a diaper bag!! It doesn’t HAVE to be an actual diaper bag or have diapers in it but it’s a nice thing to have, you can put lots of stuff in it to keep you feeling tiny even in public!! I bought a duffle bag for mine, I plan on getting a wipe holder, a paci pouch, a bottle holder, and a whole bunch of other stuff to go with it!! You can do whatever you want with yours tho :3

This is the bag I ordered! It should be here Friday, I’ll make a post about everything in it once I have the bag and I’ll post updates when I get the wipe holder and other stuff >w<

someone else on tumblr was selling vamp babies so i had to nab her