I just wanna take the time to appreciate how complicated gender can be. Cuz I think people forget that there's people in the lgbt community with gender expressions so complex that it doesn't neatly fit into any current term
I think everyone's self expression is awesome and cool and you don't have to follow any of the rules/categories that society as a whole have set to try and make gender make sense, or even what the queer community have done to expand those ideas for people who sit outside.
Gender doesn't make sense and it never will. I'm a living example of that as someone who doesn't even have a gender and just dresses and looks how they want, because fuck it! I don't need to follow any unspoken rules to fit into a given category. I dress in such a specific way that it can't even be neatly categorised into masculine, feminine OR androgynous. Or sometimes I dress to present as any or a mix of them. I dont care, clothes don't have gender to me.
I like my womanly figure yet I prefer people not call me a girl, and I like looking flat. But I also like dresses and think they're pretty, but I get dysphoria when i wear one because its too feminine. I include myself in discussions about being a woman but I don't even consider myself as a woman. I go by they/them but i like it when people mix it with he/him or neopronouns. I dont make any sense and thats exactly how i like it. Do whatever the fuck you want to, literally nothing is stopping you. You don't have to have a specific word to describe how you like to dress or how you want to look, or even how you percieve yourself.
You can just be a human being (or even something else) that is just existing and living life.
