#nsts

1. You gave yourself away as a shipper or shipper sympathizer by using the term “antis.” NO ONE who is a non-shipper or neutral uses that term. So, anything you say after this will be taken as coming from someone who is already biased against this side. We’re not “anti” anything other than LIES. 

2. Extreme Shippers and Non-Shippers may have a similar level of interest and time invested in the Outlander fandom, but for us, it’s because we are here to post the TRUTH and counter Extreme Shippers’ continuous LIES. Last time I checked, the TRUTH was important and worth spending time on. 

Happy Pride everyone! 

(@cryptidsally made mountain man’s Worm Baby pride flag)

Hey guys 😁👋🏻

So I’ve noticed that I’ve been getting a few more followers and a number of them appear to be shippers. I usually look into someone’s blog activity and block undesirables straight off the bat but I’m giving people the benefit of the doubt for now. 🤷🏼‍♀️😊👍🏼

They might simply be wishful shippers who love the Sam/Cait relationship but would never cross the fourth wall or send hateful messages to their friends and SO’s. Maybe they want more than miserable ES posts day-in and day-out, to actually hear about Outlander, the show, the books, the cast. That’s totally cool with me. No one is getting hurt in that scenario. 📚📺 😊👍🏼

If however, you like nasty ES posts frequently, comment shipper-minded things on my blog, say hateful things on your own blog and just generally appear to me to be an asshole then you sir are blocked. I have no interest in you whatsoever. You are irrelevant, kindly go fuck yourself 😂🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️😒🙄

Peace and Love ✌🏻😁❤️

I don't post shit, I post FACTS. Because THE TRUTH is important. Can you handle the truth, Anon?

*big long sigh*

So, as you’ve seen the last few days, there’s been a back and forth between @contemplatingoutlander and other Non-Shippers. CO said she was “done,” with the tit for tat, but of course she wasn’t, and it seems she’s decided take on each NST she feels has wronged her. 

I don’t want to get into a back and forth with her because it will never end, and also because, at this point, the details are beside the point. It’s all ancient history. Whenever I feel myself getting bogged down by the minutiae of a situation, I take a step back, and try to look at the complete picture--not each individual part, but the WHOLE of a situation. It’s only when we step back and out that we can see things more clearly. Seeing the forest, and not just the trees. Sadly, I’ve said all this before months ago. So, I’m going to copy and paste some of what I posted in a previous blog with some additions and edits.

CO this is for you directly. And I want to make it clear that I’m not posting this to incite others to “pile” on you (I tried to find a turn off comments option but I don’t see one, or I would have used it). I’m posting this because it’s the truth and gets at the crux of the matter, the bigger picture, the forest, if you will. And I hope that THIS time you actually take it to heart.

Here is the FOREST: People don’t care if everything someone says is completely accurate, and that person is right, and there is even proof to back it up, people care about how they are treated. That’s where you lost sight of human nature. It doesn’t matter whether everything you said about others is true, it doesn’t matter whether everything you said about me is true, none of that matters if in the process you treat people like sh*t. A person can prove to people that the Earth is round, but if that person is a b*tch while doing so, people won’t care. And that’s the bottom line… all your proof, your dissertations, your pleading for NST to take the higher moral ground, your crusade to show people certain negative things about me, and other NSTs, all ultimately fell on deaf ears because you, YOU, ContemplatingOutlander, and no one else, treated your fellow NST badly. Read that again. It’s really that simple. That’s the TRUTH you should be concerning yourself with. No one wants to be treated like sh*t, especially by a friend. THAT’S why you are blocked by so many. 

So, it’s not that NST were blind to my sins, and if only you, CO could prove to them what a “terrible” person I am, that they would then turn against me and align with you, it’s that they didn’t care about my “sins” because I didn’t treat them the way you did. You supposedly had all the “info,” all the “proof,” all the “ethics” and “morals,” yet you treated people badly. THAT'S why you are blocked and I am not. Simple as that.

I know you don’t believe me, but I don’t wish you any harm, CO, I truly don’t. I would hope the finger pointing, attacks, and unnecessary drama, which  no one WANTS, would stop, and we could all go back to having fun on here the way each of us individually see fit…like grown adults. There’s room here for ALL of us. 

One would think if THIS many people who were your friends at one time are telling you that you need to self-reflect and reevaluate YOUR behavior, that you would. You’re a smart lady, it can’t be that we’re ALL wrong, and you’re just “misunderstood.” Life doesn’t work that way. It’s like that analogy “If you walk down the street and you run into an a*shole, he’s an a*shole. If the next day, you walk down the street and you run into an a*shole, he’s probably an a*shole. If the day after that, you walked down the street and you run into another a*shole, he’s most likely an a*shole. If you walk down the street again and you run into another a*shole, YOU’RE the a*shole. Forgive the indelicate analogy, but hey, I’m me. :-)