I want to go on T but still be a dyke lesbian is that allowed? I know this sounds silly to ask but I really really love being a dyke and I’m afraid if I go on T somehow that’ll be taken away from me or I won’t be “allowed” to be a lesbian anymore
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I want to go on T but still be a dyke lesbian is that allowed? I know this sounds silly to ask but I really really love being a dyke and I’m afraid if I go on T somehow that’ll be taken away from me or I won’t be “allowed” to be a lesbian anymore

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Soooooooooooooo..... I'm going to the gender clinic tomorrow and I want to know what to wear. I know it's not something I should worry about, but I really want to make sure the people at the gender clinic understand that I am serious about going on T.
I'm really scared of biases towards me being nonbinary and that they will refuse T, which might be a weird fear. I had to wait for 13 months for my first appointment, which they continued to delay by moving the date to the point of placing it in the middle of Easter, which then forced me to cancel the appointment.
And with the added factor of this being the exam season, I need to make everything count. Funny enough, the secretary asked if I could "just cancel the appointment and come to us in another time" as if I did not have to wait for over a year to simply get an appointment to talk.
I swear, if I have to deal with waiting for another year for simply talking about going on T, I will fucking kill myself (jk). I'm just really mad at the system, and the fact that I am not dealing with the worst part of this is also really bad.
i need advice.
i find myself romantically and sexually attracted to this nonbinary person. it's a first for me i think. i'm a gay trans man and i didn't think i could like an enby like this. the thing is, they're amab and they haven't physically transitioned in any way. and i'm pretty sure that if they were to feminise their body, i wouldn't be attracted to them. i'm attracted to their body bcs the body is the type of a body i normally like, a stereotypically male looking body. (sorry if this sounds offensive, i have no idea how to word it). my question is, is this okay? i wonder if that means i see them as a man, but i don't think so, i think i do see them as nonbinary. i mean, i'm trying my best and i respect nb ppl fully.
is it transphobic to be attracted to them because they have this """male""" body (again, sorry for the language)? is this normal?
(also i'm not saying that their body is the only reason for being attracted to them, they have a great personality, but i haven't really gotten to know them yet since i saw them today for the first time.)
Gender tip: The type and smell of hair product you use can create some great gender euphoria and (with a few possible exceptions) isn't something that'll out you if you're closeted
For all my non-binary friends and fashion people I guess? I need advice : )
OK so my ideal gender presentation is plant.Like if I had a choice I just would be a tree, but I can’t physically do that, and the fact that I can’t do that makes me physically uncomfortable
(I think it’s gender dysphoria? I don’t know I’m scared)
So do you guys have any ideas for things I could do or outfits I could wear. I don’t have a lot of money, but I can figure things out. I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin, and I am not sure how to do that. So the least I could do is reach out to people who might know.
Thank you

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I just cleaned out my closet to get rid of all the clothes that no longer fit me, and unfortunately all my masc and androgynous looking clothes got the axe (my arms got thicker, I can't get them in the sleeves). I've gotten significantly curvier, so just buying small mens shirts won't really work well for me anymore.
If anyone has suggestions for a place that I can buy fun or cute button ups that are suitable for a curvy afab body that sometimes wants to go genderless, I'd really appreciate it. I've considered just sewing some of my own but I'm such a nervous wreck on my sewing machine. I own plenty of cute femme tops, but I really need to fill in the masc side of my wardrobe.
Hi Mars! So... I’m an enby who’s trying to pick a name and I’m ✨struggling✨ How did you pick yours? And if you have any advice for name picking, please share 👉👈
Well hi! I’m flattered that you thought to ask me, that’s honestly really sweet!
The story behind my name is kinda funny because I didn’t really choose it; it just kind of happened by chance. So way back in like 2017? I opened a FFN account and tried to figure out a username (I was still very egg at this time). I just decided on “MusingsFromMars” because I like alliteration and I thought it was catchy. The “Mars” in there wasn’t referring to myself, but to the planet. I liked the insinuation that I was just sitting on the planet Mars beaming out gay fanfiction back to Earth.
I eventually opened an AO3 and Tumblr with the same username, and when I put together my profiles, I decided to list my name as “Mars” since that’s what my username implied. But this was the only capacity that I used my name in at the time - as a screen name.
But the more people referred to me as Mars, the more I started to love the name and began to identify with it. In turn, I figured out my enbyness and decided that Mars would be my new name!
With that said...yeah, I didn’t really choose my name as much as I used it in a limited circumstance and grew to identify with it far more than I first intended.
As far as choosing a name for yourself, my best advice would be to be creative, ignore naming customs, and follow your heart! You don’t have to pick a gender neutral name just because you’re nonbinary, because no matter what the cis say, names are genderless and there are no rules. You could also just make something up that sounds nice, name yourself after your favorite, idk, Roman god, candy bar, or planet, name yourself after something that interests you or symbolizes your personality, the options are boundless!
I know this may not help you narrow down your options. Just know that nothing is off limits! Also, there’s no rule that says you can’t have more than one name, too. I have enby friends who have multiple names. So if there is more than one name that you really like, use both! And if you get tired of a name you’ve picked, start using another one!
So yeah, there are no rules! Go enby crazy!
I think I might have chest dysphoria but I wanna got to a doctor just to make sure. Are there ways to bind my chest without a binder my mom won’t let me buy one she thinks a binder is going to mess with my intestines or some weird shit she can be annoying. But what can I use to bind my chest especially since I have pretty big boobs I’m currently wearing a sports bra but it doesn’t really do much for me personally?
I understand your hesitation to self-diagnose, as it can be risky in some cases, but please believe me when I tell you that most doctors are not only unequipped to properly diagnose dysphoria, they’re often so biased against transgender people that they will outrightly deny any symptoms of dysphoria.
best case scenario: your doctor listens to you and agrees, giving you no more information than what you already know
worst case scenario: your doctor tries to convince you that you’re a cis girl with internalized misogyny, you don’t have dysphoria, and actively uses their bias to intimidate you out of ever considering any type of transitioning (unfortunately, I’ve experienced this one firsthand)
currently, binders are one of the safest and most effective modern methods of chest flattening, and your mom would know that most alternatives to wearing a binder are much riskier if she did her research properly (e.g. ace bandages, which can permanently damage your lungs and/or the structure of your ribcage). the only reason I can think of that a binder would hurt or leave marks is if it’s too small on you, but that holds true for any other article of clothing.
here are some resources that might help you convince your mom that using a binder is safe, or at least provide you with enough information to find a good temporary alternative:
chest binding: tips and tricks for trans men, nonbinary, and genderfluid people
"my breasts left me anxious and embarrassed": chest binding and how to do it safely
your guide to chest binding properly and safely
how to bind your chest safely and healthily