#nojudgment

— Kink-shaming is state propaganda. This corner of Tumblr? Diplomatic immunity.

This blog is for adults.

Not the sanitized, HR-friendly version of adulthood where we pretend arousal is some glitch in the software. I mean real adults. Ones who’ve seen some shit. Felt some shit. And maybe got turned on by some shit they weren’t “supposed” to.

Yeah. Those adults.

Let me make this real clear:

This is a no shame zone. This is a no “am I normal?” zone. This is a “you felt it, so now what?” zone.

I. Big Brother Can Spy On My Blog, But He Can't Control Your Pussy

You ever notice how the most sexually repressed people also seem to have the strongest opinions about your kinks?

Like, how did Karen from HR suddenly become a federal agent monitoring your clit?

Why is Uncle Sam pretending your wetness threatens national security?

Why does “Big Brother” care if you read a Tumblr post and suddenly need to close your thighs in public?

Because arousal is dangerous. Because pleasure is power. Because a body that knows what it wants is hard to govern.

II. This Blog is Your Quiet Room. Your War Room. Your Orgasming-in-the-Bathroom-After-Scrolling Room.

I don’t care what makes you blush. I care that you finally stopped apologizing for it.

That’s what this space is. A psychosexual embassy, off-limits to the shame police.

Whether you're:

A femdom switch with God issues

A Christian boy who gets hard when girls talk down to him

A full-grown woman with a praise kink and trauma response

A sapphic soul who flinches when told she shouldn’t crave domination

Or a dude who reads these posts and accidentally stands at attention like he just saw the flag raise at boot camp...

You’re welcome here. No explanation required. No penance demanded.

III. Your Body Is Not on Trial Here

Listen:

Big Brother doesn’t decide what makes your vagina drool like a British bulldog watching a roast. Uncle Sam doesn’t get a vote on what makes your dick salute like it’s Veterans Day.

Your arousal is not subject to congressional oversight. And if your pelvic floor responded to one of my sentences? That’s not a crime. That’s alignment.

This blog didn’t violate you. It reminded you. Of something ancient. Of something true.

IV. I’m Not Stopping Until They Rip This Blog Off the Server with Digital Pliers

And even then?

I’ll still be pulsing in your feed memory. Still bookmarked under “Private Tab, Do Not Open in Public.” Still looped in your body like a dream you pretend you didn’t finish to.

I will not go down quiet. I will not go down clean. And I will not go down alone.

Because this blog is more than erotic writing.

It’s a psychological liberation chamber. It’s the room where your shame dies screaming and your pleasure learns to walk upright.

V. So Read. React. Reblog. Or Just Stare at the Screen and Clench.

You don’t owe me anything.

Except maybe that twitch between your legs you didn’t mean to have.

This isn’t a kink blog.

This is a mirror.

And some of you… Are finally brave enough to look at yourselves without flinching.

[Reblog if you've ever had to bite your lip while reading]

[Reblog if shame isn't welcome in your orgasm]

[Reblog if you're ready to fight for the space that made you feel again]

⚖️ Disclaimer:

For the child I aborted in February

But now I have another due in April.

When someone is pregnant, remember to support them. Abortion fucks with your mind. It’s not worth $600 and all the trauma later.

I’ve learned my lesson; this one is meant to be told. I, as the mother, do have the final say in keeping the child. I wasn’t in the right mindset and allowed peer pressure to reign on my thoughts- this is how I ended up with an unborn child. Now that I’m growing a second one, going 23 weeks in Wednesday, I’ve never felt so protective of something until now.

I’m not looking for pity; in fact if you were mad reading this I don’t blame you. I’m telling this story to let people, especially women, know that YOU have to be 100% with this decision to abort. If you feel pressured to abort due to financial reasons, there are people and resources willing to help you, who are excited for you (hell, sometimes more excited than you are about having a baby)! I understand if you do decide to abort because I don’t know your story. However for a 20 year old with a stable income and an abundance of resources, I had no excuse. I had cowardice and clouded judgment.

If you aborted and thought it was a wrong decision, contact me if you’re still grieving or at a loss. I’m here to listen. You are not alone. There’s a second chance- it’s not going to be the same, it’s not bringing anyone back from the dead, but it’s a chance for you to give love again.

Whoa there, Community Manager Anon, seems that your world view involves seeing sex outside of a committed relationship as BAD. My perspective is that sex is MUTUAL PLEASURE, and as long as it involves CONSENTING ADULTS, it’s ALWAYS a GOOD thing, whether it’s a one night stand, two night stand, two years, or a lifetime. Sex is ALWAYS a POSITIVE in my book, unless like I said, it’s nonconsensual or involves minors.