#safespace

polyamory is valid. there is nothing wrong about polyamory. polyamory is not cheating, gross, evil, or unnatural. it's okay to love multiple people and it's okay to be in a relationship with multiple people if everybody consents to it. the more love that you can spread amongst people, platonic or otherwise, the better.

lesboys, turigirls, gaybians, gayhets, straightbians, straightcians, trisgender individuals, transmasculine girls, transfeminine boys, multisexual monosexuals, and other contradictory identities are deserving of love and respect. you are not bigoted or a bad person because of your contradictory identity. your identity is valid.

contradictory labels are valid. queer identities are extremely diverse and can be very complex, and sometimes that means they are contradictory in nature. there are many different reasons why someone may identify in a contradictory manner, and their identity deserves respect. you do not have to listen to exclusionists or other individuals who don't understand your identity. you do not need to suppress your identity for anyone, nor do you have to explain it or make it more palatable.

bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, omnisexual, and other multisexual spectrum individuals are valid and deserving of respect. you are not gross, dirty, or a cheater just because of your sexual orientation. there is nothing wrong with liking multiple genders. you do not have to suppress your identity or change your label for the sake of other people's comfort. you are not biphobic or transphobic for identifying with a different m-spec term besides bisexual. you do not have to listen to exclusionists.

it's okay to do meaningless things for fun. it's important that you do things that feel good and feel fun for you. having fun and relieving stress is a form of self-care. not everything you do needs to have some important or serious meaning attached to it. it's good to relax.

love and kindness are more important than hatred. you must love things more than you hate things if you want to be happy. you must be kind to other people if you want other people to be happy. there is so much more to life and the world than constant hatred and anger. treat others how you wish to be treated.