#empathymatters

Brampton

All my life, I have watched how society celebrates intelligence. From the time we are children, we are given grades, scores, and labels that are supposed to determine our potential. IQ - the Intelligence Quotient - has always been treated as the golden standard of success. It measures how quickly we can solve problems, how well we can remember information, how sharp our logic is. The narrative was set to believe that intelligence alone was the foundation of success. We were led to believe that intelligence alone was the foundation of success. And yes, IQ is important. It can open doors, it can help us achieve academically, and it can set us up in careers that demand intellect and skill.

But as I have walked through my own journey, I have realised something powerful, IQ alone is not enough. Being “smart” in the traditional sense doesn’t teach us how to calm our hearts when life feels heavy, or how to stay grounded when the world is shaking. It doesn’t show us how to forgive, how to inspire, or how to truly connect with others. That’s where EQ - Emotional Intelligence - steps in.

EQ is not about grades or certificates, it is about wisdom of the heart. It’s the ability to recognize your own emotions and not let them control you. It’s the courage to manage your reactions in moments of anger or stress. It’s empathy, the simple but powerful act of understanding someone else’s pain or joy. It’s the way we build relationships, nurture trust, and uplift those around us.

The older I get, the more I see how EQ often matters more than IQ. At workplace, in friendships, in family life, what people remember is not how fast you solved a problem, but how you made them feel. A leader with EQ can move hearts and bring people together, while a leader with only intellect may struggle to inspire. A parent with EQ teaches more than lessons, they teach compassion, patience, and resilience. Even in the hardest times of life, it’s EQ that helps us endure, reminding us to breathe, to rise again, and to hold on to kindness when it would be easier to let bitterness win.

Still, it’s not about choosing between one or the other. Life is not EQ versus IQ. It’s EQ and IQ. Both walk hand in hand. The most extraordinary people I know combine their intellect with empathy, their knowledge with compassion. IQ may get you opportunities, but EQ helps you keep them. IQ can win debates, but EQ wins trust. IQ might create inventions, but EQ ensures they serve humanity. Together, they create a balance that transforms not just careers, but lives.

So if you have ever felt “not smart enough” because the numbers didn’t reflect your potential, please remember this, your heart, your resilience, your ability to love, forgive, and connect, these are forms of intelligence too. And if you are blessed with a sharp mind, let your emotional wisdom guide it, so that your brilliance doesn’t only shine for yourself, but lights the way for others.

1. Respect other people. 2. Help people and animals if you have the opportunity (nobody knows what will happen tomorrow). 3. If you are sure that a person is bad, then help at your own discretion. 4. Try to never lie. 5. Always keep your promises. 6. Be stress-resistant (emotions will not help solve the problem, you need to act). 7. Never give up (the whole world cannot be against you, there will always be someone who will support your ideas). 8. Admit that not everything depends on us, but persistence can increase the likelihood of success. 9. Make communism great again.

The Power of Being "Woke"

In a world riddled with racism, bigotry, misogyny, and intolerance, the term "woke" has emerged as a beacon of hope, inspiring individuals to confront social injustices head-on. However, this powerful term has not been without its controversies. In this blog post, we'll explore the essence of being "woke" and the necessity of embracing consciousness to combat the negative forces that plague our society.

The Dark Side of "Wokeness"

As with any movement, the "woke" culture has faced its fair share of criticisms. Some argue that it breeds self-righteousness and performative activism. Indeed, the pursuit of virtue signaling and the desire to outdo each other in the Wokeness Olympics can divert attention from the very issues it seeks to address. However, let us not forget that the core of being "woke" lies in awareness and empathy, not in empty gestures or hollow statements.

The Real Enemy: Ignorance and Intolerance

On the other side of the coin lie the true adversaries - ignorance and intolerance. Racism, bigotry, misogyny, and other forms of discrimination thrive when people turn a blind eye to systemic inequalities and perpetuate harmful beliefs and behaviors. Being "woke" represents an awakening, an acknowledgment of these issues, and a determination to challenge the status quo.

Fostering Empathy and Understanding

At the heart of being "woke" lies the cultivation of empathy and understanding. By embracing the experiences of others and actively listening to their stories, we gain invaluable insights into the struggles they face. Only through empathy can we break down the barriers that divide us and build a more united and compassionate society.

Education as a Catalyst for Change

Being "woke" is not about flaunting buzzwords or empty rhetoric; it's about educating ourselves on the intricacies of social issues. Delving deep into the roots of racism, sexism, and discrimination allows us to develop a nuanced understanding of these complex problems. Armed with knowledge, we can challenge misconceptions and advocate for informed solutions.

Turning Awareness into Action

Awareness alone is not enough to dismantle the structures of injustice. To make a real difference, we must translate our consciousness into meaningful action. Support for marginalized communities, participation in grassroots movements, and collaboration with like-minded individuals can lead to tangible progress. Being "woke" demands proactive engagement, not passive indifference.

Uniting for a Common Cause

As the world becomes increasingly polarized, it's crucial to remember that the struggle against discrimination is a collective battle. Rather than letting the term "woke" divide us, let us unite under the banner of compassion and equity. By seeking common ground and acknowledging the humanity in each other, we can bridge the gaps that separate us and work towards a brighter future.

Équilibrer Passion, Parentalité et Entrepreneurship : Mon Voyage dans l'Entrepreunariat

Chers tous,

J'inaugure ce Tumblr comme un journal de bord de mes hauts et bas de ma vie d'entrepreneure, comment je gère ma vie perso de maman et d'aidante avec mes multiples projets de créatrice de business 😊

Je m'appelle Nhu Lan, et ma vie est une mosaïque colorée d'aventures, de défis et de réalisations. Permettez-moi de vous présenter la personne derrière les multiples chapeaux que je porte au quotidien.

👩‍👧‍👦 Une Maman de Cœur et d'Âme 🌼

Être maman de deux enfants (12 ans et 7 ans) est une aventure inestimable qui façonne chacune de mes journées. Etre maman signifie patience, compassion et l'art de jongler entre les rires et les larmes. Chaque moment partagé avec mes petits garçons est une source de joie et d'inspiration inépuisable et me rappelle que j'ai commencé cette nouvelle vie d'entrepreneure principalement pour eux. Leur prouver que malgré les épreuves de la vie, nous pouvons rebondir et réaliser nos rêves ✨