#label-searcher

As for my gender I’ve been identifying as a nonbinary, trans, genderqueer individual. I don’t resonate with the male nor female binary - however, I think there’s a lot of neat presentation and lessons attached to femininity and masculinity which is different than binary gender assigned at birth no? As womanhood and manhood in its essence form instead of binary form can be very fluid??

Idk, sometimes I feel outside of binary retractions but also love some aspects of their vibes!! It’s confusing :/

I also want to truly understand if I’m both asexual and aromantic ! I wish there was a blueprint out there to explain something you’ve never felt before…like I either feel repulsed, absolutely nothing, or happy for the people but NOT applied to me, with romance/intimacy. I’ve been considering Queerplatonic and relationship anarchy labels for myself as that’s a way to define my expirence however I see fit, but it also makes me feel lost with nobody being this way around me. It makes me doubt and want to conform… yet I also want to firmly believe I can find someone who will partner with me in this way.

Thank you for your time and sorry about how long this was!! <3

Oooh this one is very interesting

At first when I read this, I thought you were genderfluid but when you said you sometimes feel outside of the binary and other times you love the aspects, I got a bit confused and then I thought this would be Genderflux or Enbyflux.

But I think you really are a nonbinary person that likes the binary aspects. I should make a flag for you.

Now, for your sexuality… (when you say partner you mean you want a partner? I got hella confused on that part)

At first I thought this was either bellusaroace (someone that is okay with traditionally romantic/sexual stuff but doesn’t want a relationship) THEN I thought it was apothiaroace (romance/sexual repulsed) BUT

I THINK YOU’RE CUPIOAROACE!!!!

YOU DON’T FEEL ROMANTIC OR SEXUAL ATTRACTION BUT YOU WANT A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP!!!!

I’m sorry, I got a little excited

Or, if you want an intimate, non-romantic relationship, QPR or QueerPlatonic Relationship!

I had to make some research on what a nonbinary transmasc is before answering this question

The difference between demiboy and a Nonbinary Transmasc individual is that demiboy is a person that is half nonbinary and half boy, like 50/50.

So basically when I look for the "feeling of gender'' I feel something but that something feels like nothing, not fem, not masc, not in-between, just nothing......... Someone told me this is called airgender but I can't find anything about that.

You might be getting more asks from me cuz I'm confused AF about who I am 🫪

Agender. What is airgender??

Nevermind, it actually exists

Airgender is a gender identity in which one feels mostly genderless. It can be described as air seeming to lack anything, similar to this gender.

Agender is someone that lacks a gender. Nothing, nada. 0% gender.

Honestly I think this might be bigenderfluid or bigender + genderfluid. If you feel like sometimes you’re a girl and other days you’re a boy, that means your gender is fluid, specifically on these two binary genders.

If you still think not, then you’re bigender, both a boy and a girl.

Again, tumblr is not working for me so here is a link to the flag and info.

When I look for the "feeling of gender'' I feel something but I cannot pinpoint what it feels like, it's just indescribable, the best way to describe it is that it feels like everything and nothing at the same time.

(I am comfortable with all pronouns aswell)

Hello! What gender feels like is hard to explain for most people, I think, even those who know exactly which one(s) they are, so it’s totally normal!

Here are some labels that might resonate with you:

Omnianihilix (link) — “a gender that feels like everything and nothing at the same time”

Uingender (link) — undefined, unknown, indescribable, unsure, unidentified, unexplainable, undetermined, etc. gender

Pxngender (link) — both or between pangender (all possible genders) and agender; mostly pangender but connected to genderlessness; pangender but also agender or null at the same time; agender and connected to all possible genders

Paradoxigender (link) — gender that has paradoxical qualities or contradicts itself. ex. feeling like everything but nothing at once

Paradoxgender (link) — feeling like you’re all possible genders but none at the same time, impossible to explain, paradoxical

Schrodigender (link) — a gender that you both can and can’t feel, at the same time

Panadox (link) — feeling like you’re all possible genders and none at the same time. it feels like an unsolvable paradox. both pangender & agender labels feel simultaneously right & wrong

Panzerogender (link) — all possible genders are nullified/canceled out, becoming neutral or null

Omninixic (link) — having both genderless and pangender/multigender-aligned aspects to your gender. you might feel partially pangender, feel both at once, or switch between them. feeling both connected to and detached from being pangender

Genderdox (link) — having multiple genders but none or a feeling of emptiness at the same time

Pangenderdox (link) — having all possible genders but none or a feeling of emptiness at the same time; being pangender and not at the same time, feels paradoxical

Genderblank (link) — when thinking of your gender, all you can describe it as is a blank space

Quoigender (link) — many meanings, but for you: finding your gender experience confusing, questioning for a long time, feeling frustrated with searching for a gender label

Neutrois (link) — neutral, null, or genderless. ex. neither man nor woman, not feeling pulled towards any genders, balanced between different genders, feeling like your gender has been neutralized, nullified, or canceled out, having a blank or empty gender, no gender, etc.

Null (link) — blank, empty, cancelled out, nullified

Gendernull (link) — undefinable, absent, empty, nonexistent but present, void, nullified

Apologies for answering this late,

Since you rarely feel masculine or feminine, you might be nonbinary.

Also, I researched on the LGBTQIA Wiki and Fandom but surprisingly, I didn’t find anything about the attraction to mainly male and nonbinary people. We should make a flag for that

What I did find was enby’s that love men, that being called toric.

Pretty much almondsexual/almondromantic!

When someone likes and is more leaning towards men and enby rather than women

Another definition is having attraction towards male/masculine people and adrogynous/non-binary people but very rarely having attraction towards feminine/female people