#bellusaroace

As for my gender I’ve been identifying as a nonbinary, trans, genderqueer individual. I don’t resonate with the male nor female binary - however, I think there’s a lot of neat presentation and lessons attached to femininity and masculinity which is different than binary gender assigned at birth no? As womanhood and manhood in its essence form instead of binary form can be very fluid??

Idk, sometimes I feel outside of binary retractions but also love some aspects of their vibes!! It’s confusing :/

I also want to truly understand if I’m both asexual and aromantic ! I wish there was a blueprint out there to explain something you’ve never felt before…like I either feel repulsed, absolutely nothing, or happy for the people but NOT applied to me, with romance/intimacy. I’ve been considering Queerplatonic and relationship anarchy labels for myself as that’s a way to define my expirence however I see fit, but it also makes me feel lost with nobody being this way around me. It makes me doubt and want to conform… yet I also want to firmly believe I can find someone who will partner with me in this way.

Thank you for your time and sorry about how long this was!! <3

Oooh this one is very interesting

At first when I read this, I thought you were genderfluid but when you said you sometimes feel outside of the binary and other times you love the aspects, I got a bit confused and then I thought this would be Genderflux or Enbyflux.

But I think you really are a nonbinary person that likes the binary aspects. I should make a flag for you.

Now, for your sexuality… (when you say partner you mean you want a partner? I got hella confused on that part)

At first I thought this was either bellusaroace (someone that is okay with traditionally romantic/sexual stuff but doesn’t want a relationship) THEN I thought it was apothiaroace (romance/sexual repulsed) BUT

I THINK YOU’RE CUPIOAROACE!!!!

YOU DON’T FEEL ROMANTIC OR SEXUAL ATTRACTION BUT YOU WANT A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP!!!!

I’m sorry, I got a little excited

Or, if you want an intimate, non-romantic relationship, QPR or QueerPlatonic Relationship!

A flag under the aroace spectrum. It describes an individual who has an interest in, is okay with or enjoys traditionally romantic/sexual things, such as kissing, cuddling or aspects in sexual relationships but does not want a romantic/sexual relationship.

A bellusaroace individual might enjoy and be favorable towards participating in some acts typically seen as sexual or romantic and might like the idea of a sexual/romantic relationship and/or be intrigued by how it’s portrayed in media etc, but are repulsed by or averse towards being in a sexual/romantic relationship.

Greysexual, Greyaroace/Greyrose, Greyromantic

Nebularomantic, Nebularose/Nebulaaroace, Nebulasexual

Bellussexual, Bellusaroace/Bellusrose, Bellusromantic

Ft. Aloeian/nullic/xlnone with...

Bellusromantic × bellusexual × bellusrose

Winkte × hijra × bear

Muxe × fa'fafine × ambiamorus

specifically bellusaroace. interested in the aesthetic for her, and finds it pretty and awesomesauce, but doesn't want a relationship or find any of that attraction in those relationships