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is it a "womans space" or is it a reproductive health clinic?
is it a "womans space" or is it a domestic violence shelter?
is it a "womans space" or is it a queer pride event?
is it a "womans space" or do you just exclude people who arent women from spaces that they belong in because you think people who arent women are "evil"?
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“masculinity (rather than gender conformity) is universally rewarded for everyone in general including women (and people perceived as women)” okay great. now please point me in the direction of this huge majority of successful rich famous unabashedly hairy hypermasculine butch women that should surely exist in the mainstream public eye if this is the case.
i know we hear this a lot with gender, "don't date someone who doesn't accept your gender", but this goes for you too intersex people.
don't date someone who isn't okay with your body.
• if you have atypical genitalia and they don't like it/wanna push you to get surgery/you can't have non painful sex and they push anyways/etc, dump them. you don't deserve that
• if you have hormonal intersex traits and they want you to go onto hormones because it'd "be better for you" or "make you look more normal", dump them. that's your decision not theirs.
• if they're pushy about how you label yourself/your experiences, dump them.
etc etc etc
you don't deserve to be in a relationship where someone wants to forcibly push you into a sex binary or erase your intersexuality. i promise you there are better people out there. you aren't lucky they are dating you 'in spite of' your intersex traits, there are people out there who will love you FOR your intersex traits. FOR your identity, FOR WHO YOU ARE. Don't accept mediocrity because you are just trying to make the relationship last or just want to be loved or whatever it is. you are intersex, and if they cannot accept that, are disgusted by that, want to hide that, etc, leave them. you will only harm yourself by being with someone who doesn't care about your best intersests.
if the only time you talk about trans men and their issues is a gotcha statement for bathroom bills, you're not the ally/activist you think you are.
if the only time you talk about intersex people and their issues is a gotcha for the sex is binary argument, you're not the ally/activist you think you are.
trans men and intersex people are more than just your token and deserve to be treated better.
To this day, many intersex people are mutilated as infants or toddlers.
From malevolent attempts to make their bodies more visually appealing to completely forcing them into a male/female binary.
Please do not just use our suffering as a 'gotcha' moment to own TERFS and other fascists. Please do not forget about us.
Edit: Also, not all parents know what is done to their child. Sometimes, they are lied to, and they are told that the surgery is necessary or even life-saving. Sometimes they are left completely oblivious, like in my case.
Having your child under the care of female staff/doctors does NOT matter. The surgeon who decided to operate on me was female.
For better readability:
Sometimes they can't wait to clip your wings.
I was two days old.
I was supposed to be a moth.
Instead I had to be pretty.
I seek healing.
I denied the false cocoon.
I'd rather be a clipped moth than a forced butterfly.
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A lot of you genuinely believe intersex liberatuon comes second hand to trans liberation and that trans people matter more. Intersex oppression is just an additive to trans oppression and shouldn't be a main focus. And I'm getting sick of it. I am sick of intersex people trying to make ignorant peritrans people listen just to be met with a bs analysis of oppression about how we "all suffer" so it [intersex oppression] doesn't really matter.
Perisex trans people need to realize intersex people are a minority in their own right and the oppression we face is not transphobia misdirected.
There needs to be a real discussion about how y'all cannot help but dequeer intersex people. It's not intersex kids being forced into/pressured into SRS, its lucky cis kids. it's not a trans woman, its someone who's birth sex is "too close" to being female so they are "basically cis". Some of you queers are allergic to acknowledging intersex people are their own group, with their own diverse experiences, and their own struggles that deserve conversations that do not centre you.
Overemphasizing someone as cis (even if they tell you otherwise) as a way to undermine their voice as an intersex person is erasure. Barring us from queerness is erasure of our struggles. How can you call yourself someone who is a supoorter of the LGBT when you only care about yourself? Your voice matters as much as that of a white feminist's.
Me not being allowed to call myself transfem in any way because I was afab, despite the fact that in order to Be a Woman I would need bottom surgery, breast implants, and voice training.
This is the result of rampant intersexism & transgynephobia within the community forcing people to believe there is One True Way to be trans.
