#hypergamous mindset

privileged few.

if you’re into hypergamy, curious about the lives of the rich and wealthy, or you just like hearing advice from someone who genuinely lives inside that world, her channel is worth checking out. (she comes from rich parents). she understands dynamics most people only speculate about — because she’s not standing outside the club trying to get in.

turns out i need to work on receiving and accepting support better.

oh the irony.

this is probably the result of being hyper-independent and living in survival mode for years.

nevertheless, if i want to fully embody the woman i envision in my head, i must learn to be comfortable, open and receptive to receiving from provider men.

Hey girlies,

I think we all know this situation: we write down our goals and how we’re gonna achieve them.

We start working out, do our skincare religiously for a week, eat clean…but after two weeks that feel like years we don’t see much progress.

We don’t have ABs, our skin is not crystal clear and cooking three meals a day annoys us.

We get mad because we did everything we could but can’t really see a difference.

Well, I have bad news for us all. It’s not possible to change your life in a few weeks.

We have to be patient, no matter how hard it is.

We can’t expect our body to completly transform in a few weeks after we neglected it for the last years.

We can’t expect our skin to clear up in a week after we did nothing for the last few months.

It is painful, I know. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, I know. But we have to stay strong and patient.

You cannot convince me otherwise.

Ask yourself how far being the nice girl has got you?

Not very far? Well it’s time to switch it up, love.

No matter what, they will always choose the woman with boundaries that stands firm in her beliefs.

If you compromise in the beginning stages of the relationship, he’ll walk you like a dog.

Choose violence, choose being the villain. Villains ALWAYS get what they want.

Keeping romance alive once children are born

Losing weight which becomes harder the older you are

Navigating real life issues such as financial burdens or tragedies

Birthing children who require round-the-clock care, which can include medication, colostomy bag change, etc.