#hypergamous heaux

I know for some the biggest takeaway from this is the “it takes the same amount of energy to think small as it does to think big”

And while that is important, that’s not my biggest takeaway.

It’s the “I encouraged my husband in subtle, fun ways to become a billionaire by expanding his mindset.”

This is what some men know and why they don’t care about the “what do you bring to the table?” question. They know that with the right woman by their side she can elevate them to levels they never even imagined.

It’s YOU.

That’s what you bring to the table.

Not your job. Or degrees. Or savings account.

Anna Delvey is a literal inspiration to me. Other than her literally scamming the people around her, she had a goal. She had a clear vision of what her life was going to look like, and she achieved it. She had an altar ego, built up herself, and learned a lot so that when she was in these spaces, no one batted an eye. She had no money and a dream and MADE IT WORK.

Inspiring in a “i can achieve my goals at any cost” way. Making me want to rethink my whole plan 😂

( to be still updated )

Physical / appearance

Surgery this year (2026)

Composite bonding (2026)

Health:

Health being my lifestyle and priority.

Wholefoods have to be mainly my diet.

Be disciplined and stick to workout routine regardless of season.

Social

Start a new hobby, horse riding / tennis.

Join a wellness club (goal is an expensive membership club)

Join a social club

Be confident and have more solo dates.

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

I would ask for stuff like jewelry, clothes, makeup, gift cards (best to go for luxury brands of these) and expenses like concert and travel tickets, restaurant reservations, vacations. I mean, you can really ask for whatever you want — but those are a few examples.