#hypergamous heaux

I know for some the biggest takeaway from this is the “it takes the same amount of energy to think small as it does to think big”

And while that is important, that’s not my biggest takeaway.

It’s the “I encouraged my husband in subtle, fun ways to become a billionaire by expanding his mindset.”

This is what some men know and why they don’t care about the “what do you bring to the table?” question. They know that with the right woman by their side she can elevate them to levels they never even imagined.

It’s YOU.

That’s what you bring to the table.

Not your job. Or degrees. Or savings account.

Anna Delvey is a literal inspiration to me. Other than her literally scamming the people around her, she had a goal. She had a clear vision of what her life was going to look like, and she achieved it. She had an altar ego, built up herself, and learned a lot so that when she was in these spaces, no one batted an eye. She had no money and a dream and MADE IT WORK.

Inspiring in a “i can achieve my goals at any cost” way. Making me want to rethink my whole plan 😂

( to be still updated )

Physical / appearance

Surgery this year (2026)

Composite bonding (2026)

Health:

Health being my lifestyle and priority.

Wholefoods have to be mainly my diet.

Be disciplined and stick to workout routine regardless of season.

Social

Start a new hobby, horse riding / tennis.

Join a wellness club (goal is an expensive membership club)

Join a social club

Be confident and have more solo dates.

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

I would ask for stuff like jewelry, clothes, makeup, gift cards (best to go for luxury brands of these) and expenses like concert and travel tickets, restaurant reservations, vacations. I mean, you can really ask for whatever you want — but those are a few examples.

Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them

Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.

Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.

Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.

Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.

Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.

Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.