the fact that adhd (et. al) makes certain tasks innately harder just adds another layer of complexity when it comes to building skills. like am i bad at [ thing ] because it requires a skill that's impacted by my literal actual disability, or am i just regular-flavor Bad At This because im out of practice?
is it worth putting time and effort into [ skill ] knowing that said effort might not be worth as much here (read: not make as much of a difference) as it might be somewhere else?
This is probably applicable to a lot of things like learning disabilities or other brain-related developmental things (and probably the not-neurodevelopmental ones too but i dont have any of them so i cant confirm). I expect that most if not all of them have at least some skills that are "only partially" impacted.
