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Parents don't give up. This lockdown has been tough on everyone, Parents, kids alike. These few months have proven to be mentally most taxing. Literally, every single day is a task that we try to accomplish. Our kids testing us in worse possible ways. Every day I feel I am on the verge of a mental break down but then I remember I am a parent and I have Lil humans to care for. It's not a very motivating thought but their smiles are. I remember the old younger days without kids where living carefree was the only way I knew. Now I have learnt to respect my parents more than ever.  They did the same things and did an even better job than us. Didn't complain, didn't have mental break downs, provided the best for us. I wonder How did they do it I wonder is it that they were better at it than us and we are the weaker generation or maybe Parenting in this era is actually a feat in itself. Whichever be the case I have understood one thing That looking back at this time I am going to pat myself on the back and pamper myself for having done it amidst this pandemic.  I think parents are superhumans n moms, rank higher in that hierarchy I sometimes sit and think at bedtime that did I really get through today.  The day that seemed like it wouldn't end! Thankyou COVID 19 for making me realise how great -a job parenting is…. Period. . . . #raisingkids #raisingdaughters #raisingboys #howtoparent #parentingishard #parentingdoneright #parentingmoments #raisingsuccessfulchildren #parentproblems #parentingtips #tiredasamother #momtruths #realmoms #marriedwithchildren #doctormommyspeaks #doctorsofinstagram #doctormomlife #tiredmom #exhaustedmommy #indianmomblogger (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCYKneMF91M/?igshid=b8retlctvrm1

How to make sure your child loves what he's doing and succeed in it? Help him develop skills that he's passionate about !!!! #raisingkids #raisingdaughters #raisingboys #howtoparent #parentingishard #parentingdoneright #parentingmoments #raisingsuccessfulchildren #parentproblems #parentingtips #tiredasamother #momtruths #realmoms #realtalk #marriedwithchildren #doctormommyspeaks #doctorsofinstagram #doctormomlife #indianmomblogger (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CB-R-RllWQZ/?igshid=14i757ss45if8

Aggression in a child is a call for help. An aggressive child is a scared child. When he lashes out, he literally can't think. He doesn't want to hurt you or his siblings and, even if you don't know, he feels even worse each time he does it. He wants you to intervene, stop the behavior, and stay with him and calm him down. This behaviour isn't going to gt corrected in a day or week. But gradually it wil reduce if you learn to handle it well. Here are some techniques which I found useful: ✔️Don't raise your voice. Don't get physical. Rough handling of the child in a fit if anger is going to be of no use. ✔️His limbic system is tuned into the nonverbal clues you're sending his way and if you're angry he'll know it, even if you don't say a word. Just by the way you handle him. ✔️If you're in the right frame of mind stay with him. If not, don't. Find some other way through. Holding him when you're angry, in such a way that he feels restricted, will likely make things worse. ✔️Staylistening. This is a simple technique for toddlers. When the child is in the midst of a tantrum u help him by just staying around him.and listening to what he has to say. ✔️Practice the same behaviour every time you see him aggressive & hitting. I.e. talk softly, Hold him gently, Explain to him that its wrong to hit, Its ok to be angry or frustrated. Then when he calms a bit down then you can address the cause. Hope these help you too. Share your own ways which have helped you tackle these situations 😊. . #raisingkids #raising daughters #raisingboys #howtoparent #parentingishard #siblingrivalry #parentingdoneright #toddlertantrums #parentingmoments #raisingsuccessfulchildren #parentproblems #parentingtips #tiredasamother #momtruths #realmoms #marriedwithchildren #doctormommyspeaks #doctorsofinstagram #doctormomlife #tiredmom #exhaustedmommy #indianmomblogger (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBu2muWl4Qq/?igshid=17v10fi1kknie

HOW TO RAISE INDEPENDENT ADULTS. 1. Stop Doing Everything for Them Although it may be easier to just do things yourself, this teaches your child nothing about the task at hand. Show them, teach them, and then let them handles things on their own. If they need help, they’ll ask for it. Confidence builds with independently created tasks. 2. Give them age appropriate chores.  The best way to raise independent adults is to give them tasks. On completing the task, the child gets a feelings of accomplishment and pride. Also giving incentives can be an add on. As they learn that hardwork pays off 3. Let them make less consequential decisions in their own without any intervention. It could be simple choices between breakfast. Or choosing a dress for the day. Or even which story he wants. Subtle changes in our parenting style, have a Huge impact on the lives of our kids and go a long way in creating well adjusted, independent humans. What do u practice so as to make your child independent ? I would love to know. #raisingkids #raising daughters #raisingboys #howtoparent #parentingishard #parentingdoneright #parentingmoments #raisingsuccessfulchildren #parentproblems #parentingtips #tiredasamother #momtruths #realmoms #marriedwithchildren #doctormommyspeaks #doctorsofinstagram #doctormomlife #tiredmom #exhaustedmommy #indianmomblogger (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBlGWlLFYVZ/?igshid=lhnf51y0dzsm

#parentsdontunderstand Don't mean to offend anyone, but Don't we all do this.... What is your opinion on this? #raisingkids #raisingdaughters #raisingboys #howtoparent #parentingishard #parentingdoneright #parentingmoments #spiritualjourney #spiritualawareness #raisingsuccessfulchildren #parentproblems #parentingtips #tiredasamother #momtruths #realmoms #realtalk #marriedwithchildren #doctormommyspeaks #doctorsofinstagram #doctormomlife #indianmomblogger (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBVMPDfFmxx/?igshid=12g48c18muyob

I wish I knew this when I was young. Financial literacy should be initiated at an early age. Do you agree? . . . . #raisingkids #raisingdaughters #raisingboys #howtoparent #parentingishard #parentingdoneright #parentingmoments #raisingsuccessfulchildren #parentproblems #parentingtips #tiredasamother #momtruths #realmoms #realtalk #marriedwithchildren #doctormommyspeaks #doctorsofinstagram  #doctormomlife #indianmomblogger (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBNRUK2FqBg/?igshid=hpcp3lngtxdb

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