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Being a Student With A Mental Illness: A Masterpost
Hey! As some of you may recall, I made a masterpost a little while ago about helping your mentally ill friends through exam periods. I thought Iād make a follow-up masterpost of sorts about helping yourself as well as your friends, because self-care is incredibly important! I hope these tips help!
1: Track your food and water
Thereās no point in me going into much detail with this, but itās always a brilliant place to start. Put simply, your body functions best when itās well fed and watered, but if youāre ill then that can be hard to do, let alone remember. There are millions of methods out there to help you remember to eat and drink, many of which Iāve experimented with, but here are my favourites:
-Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Logging it in a bullet journal habits tracker- when Iāve been struggling I find it helpful to write down my tasks and activities because my memory tends to be the first thing to go. Using a habit tracker in my weekly spreads meant that I was able to tick or colour a box once Iād had at least one bottle of water, and do the same once Iād eaten a solid meal or two in a day. It means you know if youāve looked after the basics that day at a glance and can be a gentle reminder if you use your bullet journal a lot.
-Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā An app, such as Aloe Bud- by no means is this the only app to do this, but @aloebud is definitely one of the cutest. It works by you setting up different little tasks to accomplish and you can add in little reminders periodically as well, which works great if you want to set up a slightly more rigid eating pattern or forget to drink water during the day! This postĀ explains it pretty well but if youād like a more detailed guide then drop me an ask! (Disclaimer: I believe this app is only available on iOS at the moment but hopefully an Android one will be released soon, too!)
2: Set out time for yourself
This is one I have yet to implement fully, but I intend to! Itās great if you already have your self-care routines nailed, but if you end up running out of time to do said routine then youāre inevitably going to feel rushed off of your feet and stressed, procrastinating on looking after yourself. A solution to this is scheduling that routine in: if your head to toe self-care routine takes two hours, then put it on your timetable, in your iCalendar, or wherever else you stay organised, as if it were a two hour class. The same also goes for hobbies you want to pick up or skills you want to learn- if you have time specifically set out for those things, then it means that youāre more likely to do them, and less likely to procrastinate on your final paper by racking up the highest daily score DuoLingo has ever seen.
3: Set earlier deadlines
I started doing this in my first semester of university and itās changed my life. Luckily, with some self-discipline, itās not too hard to pull off, either! Letās say the deadline for your Super Important Terrifying Paper is March 18th. Note that deadline down somewhere, but when youāre writing down the deadline in a bullet journal or a note on your phone, write the date 5 days earlier- for example, March 13th. This gives you time to finish the assignment earlier and get it proofread, and youāre considerably less likely to be submitting it on 11:59PM if the deadline is 12:00AM. Plus, anyone with any type of mental illness is likely to agree that working under pressure absolutely sucks and can worsen your symptoms. Just make sure you also keep a note of the real deadline so you submit it!
4: Plan out work in detail
This is actually just a good tip for life, but itās especially applicable to mentally ill students. Once you have your assignment brief, itās pretty good practice to map out what you need to do to complete the assignment within the first week or two. But instead of jotting down āwrite section Aā, āwrite section Bā, āwrite bibliographyā, try to break it down even further. Try and do it as small as possible, or as small as is helpful: in my worst moments, itās helpful to look at my to do list for an assignment and find it broken down into the six or seven things I need to do to write section A. The to-do list may be longer, but it stops me from being confused and makes me feel like Iāve accomplished even more than I already have!
5: Make a study timetable
This tip is, by far, the scariest, but I found that it really helped during my A Levels! Itās all too easy to fall into the trap of saying youāll study for an exam tomorrow, and by the time tomorrow comes itās the day before the exam. Thatās the worst, even if youāre completely mentally healthy, and itās so common because exam seasons are overwhelming. However, if you divide your subject content up into smaller sections and set out a plan to study a little bit every day, with some time to review in the last few days before the exam, then it can feel a lot less terrifying. Be warned that if youāre doing this for more than a month or two it can be easy to burn out, but if you take it at your own pace and give yourself three or four weeks then you should be okay!
6: Talk to your institutionās mental health team
Throughout my academic career Iāve been incredibly lucky to get some really great support from my school/college etcās mental health team. This does not necessarily mean a referral to counselling or psychiatric help (but those are both brilliant options if you want to try them!), but for me at least it has meant that I was able to get some leeway surrounding exams and assessed work. For both GCSE and A Level I sat in a smaller room to do my exams due to anxiety, and if I am unable to meet a deadline for reasons related to my mental health, I can email my universityās mental health team who can help me to officially ask for an extension, and appeal if my application is overturned. Even if you are not as lucky as Iāve been, there is absolutely no harm in you asking your institution for some help. This is especially true in larger places like universities! Your lecturers are likely to not know you as well as previous teachers may have and will not be able to tell that you are struggling unless you tell them. They mostly donāt bite and are usually more than willing to help you catch up or give you extensions or pointers for assignments. And for the record, itās not weak to ask for help: itās one of the strongest things you can do!
Thank you for reading these tips, I really hope theyāve helped at least a little bit! Please feel free to drop me an ask or a message if you want to talk, and I would love to hear any of your tips!
Different locations for the same study session! Since my classes are in the middle of the day I have to plan carefully when Iām going to revise or do hwš These past ten weeks have definitively helped my organization skills! °ā”°
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haha just some mediocre lettering because i have no concept of pressure ( Ā“Š`) but itās also my first time ever using a brush pen so i gotta start somewhere kids ĘŖ(Ėā£Ė)Ź
ps tomorrow i WILL be posting pics from my OWN bujoā¦i know, i knowāsuper original idea ;)