#held accountable

Like men will literally pee standing up when they're all alone no matter how much they sprinkle the floor. How insecure and self concious do you have to be to perform even when there is no one to impress?

Like men will literally be compleatly disgusting in every single way throuout their lives rather than ever just behaving like a human being.

And the funny thing is we all know why. It's because they never left their teenage years. They try to act cool all their lives, desperatly searching for admiration and approval yet it increasingly makes the people around them uncomfortable, then they notice it and act out.

Like, I understand. I've been a teenager. I've spent years worrying what other people think of me and acted like a shithead because I thought it would make me popular. It didn't because I was held accountable for my actions, was forced to talk about it and worked out my issues.

Imagine not being held accountable from a young age. Imagine never leaving all that incecurity behind, start to consider other people and be yourself. Then imagine the paradigm shift when you suddenly were held accountable much later in life. Of course you feel attacked. We get it and honestly I feel kind of bad for you.