#mra

equating feminism, especially transfeminism as racist, transphobic or particularly anti transmasc or intersex is STUPID. YOU HAVE FALLEN FOR REACTIONARY PROPAGANDA SPREAD BY PEOPLE WHO DO NOT WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR OWN PRIVILEGE. implying feminism is anything BUT pro women is misogynistic. if you want to criticize white feminists yeah sure of COURSE. there is historical data to back up that white feminism weaponized racism towards women of color. however, if you aren’t fucking stupid you would be able to realize terfs and racists just use feminism for their own agenda and are not ACTUAL FEMINISTS. criticize white women, not marginalized communities of women who just want to point out the injustices in their own fucking communities.

i’m adding this second article to show that i properly vetted my sources because i do not want to accidentally use any sources from terfs.

also like seriously look at why the term misandrist even exists. why men even use it. its because feminism, wanting equality for women, was seen as ANTI MEN. WOMEN WANTING BASIC AUTONOMY WAS SEEN AS HATRED OF MEN. Please let that sink in. PLEASE.

EDITS so you guys stop bringing up irrelevant shit.

It's just making issues that are caused by modern misogyny having successfully killed men's desire to build genuine community and be vulnerable with each other somehow women's fault and responsibility to fix.

Some random dude posted a photo going on a date and dudes had nothing but venom and hatred towards him.

And as usual women were the ones who had to fix shit men started and got together clear up his mentions and tell him "hey you actually deserve to be treated like a human and not have to do something to earn basic kindness from others"

"male loneliness epidemic" is caused, worsen and exploitated BY OTHER MEN and it's not the obligation of women fix or alleviate this shit when they have absolutely nothing to do with it (specially when most of the world makes feminism and women's rights as close to illegal as they can and in the USA is a movement so undermined it can't even have success in defending a topic with 70+% popular support like Roe V Wade)

i have identified has a trans man, as transmasc, as a lesbian, as bisexual and as nonbinary at separate times in my life. at the end of the day, the way society treated me was stemmed from misogyny and prejudice because i was socially stunted, hispanic and queer. not because at some point i wanted to be a man, no in fact my desire to transition was ultimately respected. uneducated people simply did not understand my transness.

all of this is to say, i am transgender, nor masc or fem, simply androgynous in my expression. and when i am mistreated and disrespected worst, it is because i am seen as female. so yeah, i identify with that, because that pain is imbedded in me. imbedded in the women around me. you can convince me that misandry exists when women are truly and finally seen as people.

i really hate the fact that i could be seen as radfem or transphobe or whatever the fuck just because i am intelligent enough to understand that misogyny (alongside racism and religion) is at the root of all problems and believe we would be better fucking off in a matriarchal society. and yes, i believe women can be sexist, to OTHER women. not men. how do people not understand that the term misandry was created just to deflect responsibility, just as white people believe they are oppressed because people of color outwardly fucking hate them because they benefit from white PRIVILEGE. because WHITE women only got their fucking rights a little over a century ago and the cra of 1964 was only 62 fucking years ago. SLAVERY IS STILL A THING. THE WAGE GAP IS STILL A THING. I will not care about mens rights or white peoples fucking rights until women of color are seen as EQUALS.

i’m tired of people acting like trans black women aren’t the main reason we are here today.