One of the things that bothers me a lot in life is how people are often unaware of the ways in which other people are treated differently from them, in the same situations, when doing exactly the same thing, because of some aspect of who they are.
We all understand the world through the lens of our own experience, so it's understandable. But it's important to listen to others about their experiences.
a black person just living their life in a mostly-white suburban neighborhood might be treated with suspicion by police in ways that white people never would be
a neurodivergent person who says the same exact words in the same exact context as a neurotypical person might have it be interpreted wildly differently because of differences of tone, eye contact, or other nonverbals that they have little or no control over
people of different financial status and with different levels of family support may end up in wildly different circumstances in response to the same financially-stressful event, such as losing a job. like to one person it might be a minor blip that even improves their life if they have enough savings not to worry about money, and they end up getting another job they like even more. to another person it could make their life fall apart, leading to eviction, loss of health insurance and thus decline of health, divorce, and/or mental health issues, sometimes situations that someone might never recover from.
I think a lot of problems would solve themselves if people could somehow refrain from jumping to conclusions about other people having more-or-less similar experiences to our own. We need to recognize how big our blind spots are.