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i got an excellent high score in Shame according to the Devon Price Unlearning Shame workbook, which i am proud of and-
i'm a monster with the heart and demeanor of a deer, the violent predator drive of a vampire, just in the shape of a "girl"
We've got such bad fawning issues π at least all the frequent fronters do
A lot of our agression/agressive alters have pulled back over the years, since the aggressive never actually kept us safe
js fawning around
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Are you the person who always plans every event, cleans up the mess, and anticipates everyone else's needs...only to end up completely exhausted and resentful? In this episode, we expose the vicious cycle of over-functioning and uncover shocking clinical research proving that suppressing your needs does measurable damage to your physical health.
In this deep dive, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Kati Morton shifts to a single-topic podcast format to dissect "over-functioning" doing more in a relationship than the other person to feel safe or earn love. We discuss the psychological roots of extreme people-pleasing, toxic independence, and how fawning acts as a childhood trauma response. Kati reviews thirty years of data on "unmitigated communion" (focusing on others to the total exclusion of self), a 7-year study of 1,340 couples showing how over-giving traps people in unhappy relationships, and groundbreaking 2022 medical research linking self-silencing directly to carotid plaque. Finally, you'll get a 4-step actionable framework to break the loop using deliberate under-functioning and specific boundary setting.
"Healing from trauma is often less about solving a problem (although we might want to solve some things) and more about opening to new perspectives, narratives, resources. It's less of a prescription and more of an exploration."
- From Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--And How to Find Our Way Back by Dr. Ingrid Clayton