#eugender

Abinary , Aliagender , Third Gender

Nongender , Unaligned , Ungender

Antigender & Eugender

new terms: suprantigender and supreugender

[ID: an image of multiple coloured rectangles and names. There is a pillar of different colours, stripes are of varying thickness. There are 10 stripes, the first stripe is very thick and split into dark purple and dark gold, the second stripe is incredibly thin and is black, the third stripe is very thick and a light black, the fourth stripe is average and is a denim teal-blue, the fifth stripe is average and is red, the sixth stripe is very thick and is peach, the seventh stripe is very thick and a light grey, the eighth stripe is average and an off-white, the ninth stripe is average and sky blue, the tenth stripe is very thick and a lighter sky blue. The pillar has a thin black outline, to the right of the colours, are some vertical stripes, the first vertical stripe is black and only is as long as the first stripe, on top of that vertical stripe is a second one in light pink that climbs from the second stripe to the sixth stripe, the third vertical stripe climbs from the seventh stripe to the ninth stripe and is a sky blue. To the right of those vertical stripes are thin black lines, like diagram pointers. One points to the first vertical stripe with the word “suprantigender”, the second just above points at the second vertical stripe with the word “antigender”. On the right side is another diagram pointer going from the bottom to the eighth stripe saying “infra-“. Above the second vertical stripe of the right are more words stacked on top of eachother saying, “agender, eugender, supreugender,”. End ID]

supreugender or supereugender: superseding, overreaching, or exceeding the eugender experience; supragender eugenderedness or eugendered supragenderness

suprantigender or superantigender: superseding, overreaching, or exceeding the antigender experience; antigender supragenderedness or supragendered antigenderness. it's also a form of infragender.

while some may use their agender identity, genderlessness, lack of gender identity, or mutual or self-disidentification towards gender to describe a type of suprantigender life, that's not universal among agiaspec or glingender people. also, agender can be its own thing separated from all this analogy.

eugender may be seen as on surface, while supreugender may be seen as above the surface. however, there's also telluro- (terrestrial/terranean) form of eugender, or even subterranean, in which it feels blurry in-between eugender and agender.

below agender, the antigender spectrum. interpret the sandy color as a form of matter/solid, then red/blue microcosmic magma and lithospheral/underground water (aquifers/thalasso-). the dark grey represents the mix of them and the purple/violet an allegory of mystical/mythic portals and gold for nucleus/Earth's inner core. take note this is simply for an easier interpretation/understanding

edit: an idea for beyond infragender is ultrigender, including supranagender

dharmagender the niceness that motivates a desire to be socially harmonious in your gender

adharmagender the antisociality in your gender

ketugender your gender when you're alone and perfectly well that way

rahugender your gender when you have all the spotlights pointing at you and you want to live up to the hype (or the gender that makes you fantasize with that)

@arco-pluris asked if I wanted to define an antigender for dharmagender. Well, yes... But it's not something most people will want to aim at identifying themselves with. Dharma in Hinduism, Jainism and Buddhism is similar to our concepts of ethics and morality, so an adharmic being is one currently at a state characterized by immorality, wickedness, unrighteousness, disorder.

Personally, I'd rather define adharmagender as a gender that makes you seek or perpetuate conflict, injustice, oppression.

An obvious case is the association between toxic masculinity and a disregard for things that seem to most of us as completely unrelated to gender as recycling, healthier food or doing one's part for public health, but I'd consider the Lunarian agenderness a lot of TERFs claim to be another good example.

With that said, dharmagender is essentially about understanding how much you can do to be harmonious with others in the way that they are while not being disrespectful to yourself — like in the middle path advocated by Buddhism — and being grateful to how your life experiences shaped who you are now and made you grow.

Being fully honest, and this is a hot take, my personal opinion is that in Western cultures, and I am including urban Brazilians (like me and ap) in that, is that most feminist women, pro-feminist men and nonbinary people are quite close to zerodharmagender, due to the way people who profess leftism and liberalism here are often extreme individualists due to feeling a disconnect with their own communities, and I say that it's absolutely understandable to feel alienated from most people around you due to all sorts of reasons.

The zerodharmagenderness in this case is that many of us don't really strongly attempt to foster a middle ground with average people who you can assume a lack of malice from, due to being extremely concerned with our personal objectives and viewpoints. It is one thing to avoid one's stress from attrition, but we gotta concede that there's a lot of unnecessary infighting, toxicity or pettiness in all camps of our vague political coalition caused merely by people being unable to distance themselves from fleeting negative emotions or a lack of desire towards offering others good faith.

This is also an oversimplification, there are multiple ways one can be wise and bring about positive change without necessarily trying to be stereotypically chill, collected, stoic. The dharma is generally defined in a way that includes challenging its absence as you find it along the way.

I am also not trying to virtue-signal by saying this. I have the forumlord debatebro 'thick skin' typical of people deemed male at birth who come from impoverished backgrounds and who were always 'nerdy' but weren't victimized from an early age for coming across as feminine. (This is very distinct from fake dark humor and "both sides" people who are just reactionaries testing the waters on how much they can expose their true nature without others confronting them, and the conflation of the two annoys me.)

My behavior when around people who I need to walk on eggshells with is often that of subtle concern trolling and sealioning around where I believe they should show more flexibility, until they decide to completely cut contact, which has hurt me in the past as I have auDHD and to me being playful is different from being mean. I have tried to adjust to such people, but I keep failing because there's always a new layer of me people may not be prepared for, and unless people have fully embraced shitposter anarchy, they often decide it has crossed their limit. I am thus also far from dharmagender since I like to shock and to be a clown far more than I like to be deemed as unproblematic and thus to be a harmonious agent.

Another thing, I'd say Lady Gaga and Jo Calderone both fall under rahugender. Say, a ketugender is very non-performative. Like a babushka living in a cabin in the forest. She's a terrific grandmother and embodies womanhood very well, but she's far from an external consumerist culture perception of what is desirable about women — and she is completely detached from these standards anyway. Babushkas impose respect, it has nothing to do with accepting problematic conservative norms or hierarchies. It simply conveys the concept of "touching grass".

Meanwhile, rahugender would be an influencer whose identity is in constant flux with the hyperreal form they're building by their engagement with the public. An artsy persona is also a subset of that. I am not being judgmental here, I am very eternally online and have reflexes of both ketugender and rahugender in myself.

Euversian: eugender alignment (eu-aligned) in galactian terms; someone who is aligned; positive connections with/attachments to gender(s) [positrois-aligned]; positively aligned with a particular gender or group of genders (not necessarily aligned with a specific gender).

Could be an umbrella term for all alignments that are not antiversian or singularian (plus ringularian), so nonsingularian.

It could represent simply being “aligned”, as opposed to nonaligned, unaligned, analigned (a-aligned/agender-aligned) and antaligned (anti-aligned/antalignment). 

karmagender - a gender tied to awareness of your past actions together with your mission in the world

rahugender - a specific karmagender tied to who you want to become, perhaps with an unhealthy obsessiveness

ketugender - a specific karmagender tied to what you already are and that cannot be clouded by earthly delusion

zerogender - a clash between one gender and its opposite that condenses into a neutral spore that can germinate in either direction

eugender - a gender that is not an antigender; a gender not defined by being solely the polar opposite of another gender

achiralgender - a gender that cannot possess a polar opposite i.e. an eugender without an antigender or ungender, or the reverse

genderlake or gendertide - when much of your gender is stable but there is a crater always being filled up with (a) more ephemerous gender(s)

gendertinga or xerogender - when your gendercrate is often hollow, experiencing long genderlake "droughts"

poldergender or niedergender - when a genderlake or gendertide is "solidified" as a more permanent gender

Definition: a gender that cannot possess a polar opposite. An eugender without an antigender or an ungender, or vice-versa due to an impossibility of the reverse form.

Eugenderless/Euagender (eugender + agender): an absolute genderlessness, agenderness or gender nullity.

Absolute does not essentially mean complete or total, it’s synonymous to affirmative in this case, as not opposed to genders (as in ungender and panantigender).