‘Everything Everywhere All at Once’ is Secretly a Buddhist Masterclass on Life
I watched this film while coincidentally writing a superhero Buddhist book and was amazed to see it use Buddhist concepts. I’ve seen films that have a somewhat Buddhist lens; the main one for me is the Star Wars franchise, which I’ve written an article about its Buddhist references. But this film was different. Everywhere Everything All at Once uses a very deep, profound exploration of Buddhist philosophy that is still hard to wrap our minds around, but don’t worry; we’ll go through them together, and maybe when you rewatch the film, instead of seeing it as an action-sequenced, sci-fi fantasy, save-the-universe film, you can see it's really a guide to living a meaningful life.
One of the most confusing concepts in Buddhism is that there is no self, which sounds counterintuitive the more you think about it. In EEAAO, the movie straight up introduces us to a variety of versions of our main characters that are them and not them. Did I lose you yet? So, Evelyn (Michelle Yeoh) is a mother and wife who struggles to maintain her laundromat business and connect with her daughter, Joy. Throughout the film, Evelyn feels trapped in her reality, thinking that once she left her parents and China and got married, she missed out on opportunities for her life to be more successful. But when her mind is opened to all her counterparts’ lives- being a chef, famous singer, actress, and martial artist, does she harness those skills that were always a part of her, and she was never just one label. The film shows us that we aren’t fixed, permanent beings. Just as Evelyn comes to terms with the fact that she isn’t just one identity, we have to realize we aren’t just one version of ourselves. You weren’t the same person you were at 10 or even yesterday. You are ever-changing, which means you aren’t trapped by your past labels.
The Third Eye is Real… Sort of
When I say the third eye is real, I’m talking about ultimate wisdom. In Buddhism, almost all Buddhas have a third eye, hence the dot on their foreheads. It is said that when someone opens their third eye, not only do they see our reality as it truly is, but they can gain psychic powers—at least that’s the myth. We’ve seen Evelyn use her kung-fu powers harnessed from her counterpart that almost feels supernatural, but the film pivots. Near the end, Evelyn understands giving in to a void will not make her feel less miserable than she already felt, and dons her forehead with a googly eye she once disdained. She stops fighting her enemies by force and uses her compassion and transcendent wisdom that everyone is suffering and all it takes to live a happy life for herself and others is simply to be kind.
Emptiness is Actually a Superpower
What I love about this movie is Jobu Tupaki (Stephanie Hsu), Evelyn’s daughter’s counterpart, who has been causing chaos in the multiverse. No one knew why she wanted to destroy the multiverse or her search for Evelyn until it was revealed that Jobu, like all of us, is a suffering being. I like when Jobu takes Evelyn to The Everything Bagel, which is a spiraling, all-consuming black hole; she’s adorned with a circle at the top of her crown. For me, this is totally Sunyata (emptiness) that resembles an incomplete circle. Remember, we talked about not having a permanent self? Well, technically, in a cosmic ultimate truth way, the universe itself has no inherent meaning. Just as our identity is made of causes and conditions mostly done by us, we bring meaning to the universe. We’re the ones who said those bright things in the sky are stars, and we’re the ones who make up reality. Interestingly, when Jobu convinces her mom to join her in The Everything Bagel, she says nothing matters, that it's senseless. It sounds like she’s given up living in a universe she believes will never change, and because we don’t fully understand the universe anyway… what’s the point? This is a very common misunderstanding of the Buddha’s emptiness. Yes, we don’t know everything, and there’s a lot of things we can’t change, but there’s also a lot of things we can make. We are the creators of our own suffering, but we are also the creators of our joy—ironic. So whenever you hear emptiness or the phrase “nothing matters,” tell yourself that’s a really beautiful thing, because if our mind makes the world, and if we can generate positive thoughts for ourselves and for others, then the world can never be empty; that’s the real superpower.
Life is Suffering, But We Can Still Be Happy
No one likes hearing that life is suffering; it sounds as cynical as the world having no meaning, which we established doesn't have inherent meaning, not that it doesn’t. There are two types of suffering the Buddha spoke of. The first one is the inevitable suffering: physical pain, loss, and the nature of aging. We can’t do anything about this suffering because it's part of being alive; that’s not to say we are doomed to suffer from these things. The only way to not suffer from the inevitable is acceptance and gratitude. From the beginning of the film, we know Evelyn is drowning in the second suffering, self-inflicted. She can’t save her relationship with her daughter and husband because she’s too distracted by the lives she didn’t live. We all have “what ifs”, and while it may seem nice to fantasize a happier life or circumstance, these wishes will only cause us more suffering. I said before, we are the makers of our reality with our thoughts; unfortunately, those same thoughts are what make us feel unsatisfied. When Evelyn grasps the true nature of reality, that suffering is inevitable, but the suffering we do to ourselves doesn’t have to exist. Compassion is the true key to living a happy life, no matter the external forces. Evelyn’s love for her family and compassion for everyone is the true hero of this film. Coincidentally, in the end, when all seems good for Evelyn and her family, she starts hearing voices from her multiverse selves, which seem to disorient her until she grounds herself in the present moment. The ending serves to remind us that we will always suffer, something will always happen, and nothing lasts forever. Keeping all these things in mind, we have to stay in the present and be grateful for what we have because if all the things we cherish will eventually pass on, that’s exactly what makes life precious.