Let's do a list shall we????
1. "If you weren't so curvy, you would be fat"π
2. "If we were together I would have to have you in the gym every day [he laughs]...and nobody should have to change that much to be with someone. π€¨
3. Me: I want thigh high boots for my bday him: well you're going to have to lose weight because I dont think they make them in your size.
4. "You're not the same girl that I was crushing on"- ( because I gained weight)
5. "Well I started messing with [her] because you didnt lose weight like I asked.π²
6. "You done got fat. I'd still fuck you on my wedding day ( he's marrying someone else) because I know the pussy is good..." π
7. "I thought big girls could take lots of dick... I mean you got more cushion"
8. " I'm a visual person and I deserve a fine ass girlfriend..."
9. "The only place you're a settle is physically, you're otherwise everything I want."π€
10. "You mad cute for a big girl"...
11. dealt with a guy that was extremely vocal about him not being attracted to me but was equally vocal about the need for me to initiate sex with him so he knew that I wanted him...and just could not grasp that those requests in tandem is what made him look like a jerk.
12. "I never really set out to be with a big girl."
13. Pulls up IG and shows me a pic of a another girl that is like 100 lbs smaller than me and says, "If you were this size, you'd be perfect. You think I want skinny and you're really not that far from what I would like"...for some reason didnt anticipate me being upset by the gesture.π€¦ββοΈ
14. I've always imagined myself with a dime piece model and I'm not willing to settle. π
15. Him:"I mean I like Courtney...I just dont like the fat. You're the one that keeps conflating them. " When I pointed out how his words described something differently...he didnt apologize for hurting me. He accused me of misunderstanding him and apologized for being unclear instead...
16. The general history of niggas treating me shitty because they think nobody would want me at my size...
17. "Its not that you're too big for me...I'm just too small for you"
18. "I like me a big homely girl like you"...He wore thong sandals to a date in November with toes that hadn't been washed or lotioned since March and his teeth looked like they had be used as a can opener...BUT I was the homely one #TheBitchTriedIt
19. Met a guy offline at a resturant... tells me he left something in his car and to go ahead and get us a table...never came back. Texted me later "you were bigger than I thought"
20. Decided to start working out using C25K. Had trouble completing the 2nd week. told the boo thang...His response? "I personally find it DISGUSTING that you had such a hard time." Felt some type of way that I wasnt interested in his help because I didnt want the pressure of feeling judged every time I was in wkout mode.
21. "I dont see why you're mad at me for wanting the same thing that you want. You want me to walk around, holding your hand like I'm proud of you when you're not proud of you"...I'm not "not proud"...I'm self conscious and anxious because too many ppl have measured my worth by my weight... and my goofy ass has let them.
22. "I didnt mean you need to lose weight...I meant you just need to tone up." Said him after I told him to leave me alone and lose my number.
...between the "youre too dark" and "youre too big"...Dating can be promptly summed up as ass. π€·ββοΈπ€·ββοΈπ€·ββοΈπππ
