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☰ Darui

■ Is very sympathetic about your situation but he doesn’t baby you or pity you, he just wants to help you however he can. If there’s something he can do to make you feel better or comfort you he’ll be happy to, even if it’s just cuddling with you and watching movies

■ He doesn’t try to act like he understands what it’s like or like he knows how it feels, because he doesn’t but he is understanding of the fact that you are going through some thing painful and upsetting and will do what he can to ease your pain,

■ It can even push him to learn about what it’s like and read about phantom limb pain, for he can possibly understand better and do something to help or at least better understand what you’re going through.

■ He is very loving and caring if you need to yell, cry or all of the above he will be there to comfort you, and be a listening ear. He is also patient and understands if you get snippy with him, he will not get mad at you for it.

■ He also sticks by your side through your pain to try and comfort you and take your mind off what you’re going through. Doing one of your favorite things, watching one of your favorite movies ordering take out from your favorite places, playing one of your favorite games, whatever you want he’ll do.

☰ C

■ Doesn’t know how you feel or what you’re going through but he is there for you and tries to support you however he can, which makes him very loving and affectionate towards you, hugging or cuddling with you.

■ He tries his best to take your mind off your pain and what you are going through, and whatever you want to do. If you want to stay home and cuddle in bed or if you want to move around and go somewhere like the Zoo or out to eat, star gaze, swimming anything

■ Doesn’t know what to do to help you but will do anything he can and anything you ask of him, because he doesn’t want you to be hurting alone. So even if all he can do is sit with you and talk, listen and hold your hand or hug you.

■ Is very positive but understanding because he will try to be positive to cheer you up, but also won’t force it if you are upset or angry because he won’t want to accidentally make you mad at him.

■ How Darui proposes to his S/O can heavily depend on his s/o and what he thinks they want, such as if he knows his s/o would appreciate a more romantic proposal or a more subtle or laid back proposal. Though he himself would prefer to propose to you when the two of you are alone and in a more relaxed way, but he will go with what he thinks you want and would love.

■ Isn't very interested in planning the wedding with you because he doesn't care too much about the details of the wedding and he feels like the details will mean more to you so he would rather you plan it the way you want. However, that doesn't mean he won't tell you his opinion if you ask.

■ This means the wedding will be left mostly to you and what you want the wedding to be like, such as where, big or small, what kind of cake, indoor or outdoor, the color scheme, the types of flowers and any and all other details.

■ However his prefences would be to have a smaller wedding with only close friends and family, he will also like an outdoor wedding and during the spring or fall, He will like a simple yet bright color scheme White & yellow, Green & Gold, and will like roses or lilies.

■ Will act very calm and relaxed before and during the wedding and will never seem nervous or worried one bit, he seems to have no issues remembering his vows or what he's suppose to do or when. He will also be very supportive and comforting towards you if you have worries or if you are nervous.

☰ Darui

■ Immediately shows concern for you the first time he witnesses you punishing yourself in anyway, even if it’s just talking about yourself negatively because he won’t want you damaging your self esteem or blaming yourself for even the tiniest of set backs or failures. He’ll quickly step in and try to focus your attention on something else or talk about what happened and try to help you with advice or coping better.

■ Will be greatly concerned if you punish yourself physically whether it’s you intentionally hurting yourself physically or neglecting yourself such as skipping a meal he’ll be concerned and upset. But he won’t scold you or get upset with you for this behavior instead he is very understanding and calm about it but treats it seriously but he’s more concerned about helping you through it and helping you to handle mistakes and failures in a better and healthier way.

■ He can be a little forward and even a little aggressive about stopping you if he sees you hurting yourself physically, grabbing your hands or stopping you physically from hurting yourself in any way because he won’t be able to stand seeing or knowing that you hurt yourself like that and he will need to stop you immediately just from instinct but he will apologize for being aggressive with stopping you especially if he unintentionally scares or startles you by doing it.

■ Once he learns about this habit of beating yourself up over mistakes or failures he will keep a very close eye on you and do his best to help you find other means of expressing your disappointment or frustrations for failing at something. He will be very observant to make sure you do not continue to hurt yourself in any way and he will be very supportive and comforting over it the entire time.

☰ Karin

■ Can lose her temper a little too quickly because she will not like seeing or hearing you treating yourself badly or even talking about yourself negatively, and she will stop you immediately if she sees you hurting yourself in any way for any reason. She can get quite upset about it as well scolding you for it and complaining about how that’s no way to handle making a mistake especially when it’s a minor mistake.

■ Though she is quick to lose her temper over the matter she does calm down rather easily and may even apologize profusely for being too hard on you over it, not wanting you to be angry with her. she will come around and become more comforting and helpful, wanting to help you find a different method for dealing with mistakes that you make and wanting to talk things out thoroughly with you and learn more about why you think you should punish yourself for mistakes, feeling like the more she knows about your thought process and reasoning on the matter the better she can help you.

■ She is nothing but loving and supportive towards you when you do happen to fail and she watches you closely whenever you do make a mistake, wanting to jump in and talk with you and work things out without you hurting yourself in any way. Distracting you the best she can with other activities and topics to try and keep you from doing anything unsafe. She is also very positive and really compliments and praises you for successes and accomplishments.

■ Doesn’t mind and will treat you the same as anyone else, he doesn’t mind that you were raised by the akatsuki, and doesn’t even mind if you’ve lived the life of a criminal. But will want you to turn your life around when the two of you get together if you haven’t already, because he won’t want you hurting others or doing bad things.

■ Will only question you or become hesitant about the relationship if a situation arises involving the Akatsuki, such as if the two of you get together before fights with the Akatsuki or the war. Because he will want to know having been raised by the akatsuki if you are on his side or if it’s going to be hard for you to not stand up for the akatsuki.

■ Is very sympathetic, mellow and very calm with you he is not one to get angry or raise his voice anyways, but if he knows that you are sensitive to anger he will be a lot more aware of how he acts and talks to you because he won’t want to upset you.

■ He won’t want you to feel like you have to be submissive or timid around him or anything, because if you are really submissive towards him he will feel like it’s because you are afraid of him and he really won’t want that.

■ Is very gentle, kind and caring and will be extra sweet towards you, because he will want you to be comfortable with him and feel secure with him. He will go out of his way to spoil you and do kind gestures for you when he can to show you how much he cares about you.

■ Kakashi islikely the one to put the pieces together like he will have suspicions and willlikely confirm things through Darui or doing some snooping or research to findout if his suspicions are true and he’s rather neutral about the news and isn’tvery interested.

■ Darui reallydoesn’t care too much about who his parents are or if he has siblings, but hemay have found out when he was younger and if they share mothers or fathers,because he is likely to recognize the name if they share father, though if theyshare mothers it won’t mean as much.

■ Neither willforce a relationship with the other but also won’t hate each other or have anegative relationship, so it is a rather passive but a friendly relationship.

■ Can’t reallybe described as a close relationship but it will be a loyal one and the two canbe quite friendly and get along well when the two are around each other.

☰ C

■ It will be abit of a shock at first and he won’t know how to respond or how to react to thenews at first, he will even be a bit in denial about how serious the situationis and that there’s still a way out of it for you.

■ Once he doesrealize how serious it is and that there’s no simple way out of it, he’ll beangry about it, though not at you but angry about the circumstances and won’tsee it as fair and will want to fight marriage as much as possible.

■ He will beready and prepared to run away with you to get you out of the marriage, he willnot just let it be and accept things for how they are, especially if he knowsyou don’t want to go through with the marriage he will fight it whole heartedlyeven if he has to start a fight with you family or the family you are meant tomarry into.

■ Even if youtalk to him and accept the marriage not wanting to make things worse for him oryour family he will still not accept it as an answer and will practically go toany lengths to get you out of the marriage.

☰ Darui

■ Is surprisinglycalm and understanding about the marriage but that doesn’t mean he accepts it;he will want to know what you think about it and what your feelings are aboutthe marriage are you going to go along with it? Or are you going to fight it?

■ He won’t tryto push you one way or the other he wants to know your genuine feelings on thematter and whatever you feel and want to do is what he’ll support and go witheven if that means he has to let you go because he will not want to tear you awayfrom your family or what you want to do.

■ If you don’twant to go along with the marriage he will support that decision as well no matterwhat that means, if he has to fight to take you away from the marriage or ifthe two of you have to run away he will because he does want to be with you.

☰ Darui

■ Is veryunderstanding and sympathetic towards you and will ask a lot of questions aboutit for he knows what he can do to help you or to help comfort you. He’ll wantto know all the kinds of do’s or don’ts if you even want to talk about it inthat kind of detail, he’ll also read up about it because he will want to knowwhat you’re going through.

■ He won’tassume to know how you feel or what it’s like if it’s something he’s neverexperienced it so he won’t tell you how to deal with it, unless you are lookingfor help or suggestions that could help you handle it than he has no problemswith helping you research things that could help.

■ Darui is verycomforting and loving towards you and will never seem bothered by it and willabsolutely never judge you for it. He’ll try to understand what it’s like and bethere for you even if he can’t understand exactly what you are seeing or experiencinghe won’t ever make you feel bad or weird because of it.

■ He’s not overlyprotective or motherly over you because of it and really won’t even talk aboutit too much, unless you bring it up because he won’t want you to feel like yoursleep paralysis defines who you are or that it’s a major part of your life. Healso won’t want to be constantly asking about it and reminding you of it.

☰ Tsunade

■ She is verycaring and supportive towards you about the entire situation, she’ll comfortyou and try to help you the best she can. Suggesting ways or solutions thatcould help decrease the frequency that you experience sleep paralysis.

■ She doeshowever get frustrated because it’s something she can’t control and can’t justfix for you, though she never really let’s you see how frustrated she can getand she’s not upset with you, but just the fact that it’s not something she canjust make go away for you.

■ Is verycomforting and will hug and cuddle with you after you’ve experienced sleepparalysis, holding you, especially if you are really upset or scared. She willstay with you and help you feel better, no matter how long she has to or whatshe has to do to cheer you up.