Whenever folks use "Trans and Cis" when they mean those of us targeted by transmisia.
Constantly being told in a binary-splainy way I am "under the Trans umbrella term," even though I am Isogender (neither trans or cis), subtly implying I am invalid and being Trans is superior compared to the rest of us in the Gender-Expansive community who aren't that. It's basically an indirect way of telling me, "If you're not cis, you must be trans," "my framework is the correct one and yours is secondary," and "Trans is the default and you're a sub-category."
Hint: Trans/gender and Cis/gender are not the only gender modalities, just like how sex and gender are not just "female/male" and "woman/man."
This is rooted in exorsexism, varsexism, eurocentricism, pluralphobia.
Every time people drop one binary, they seem to grab onto another, and forget that gender cant easily be boiled into two categories.
A multitransitional, multigender, demigender, intersex, culturally-gendered, and/or plural person may have a complex gender experience. They might identify as both cis and trans, or as neither.
