#trisgender

The opposite of queer is conformant. We are so sick of people saying "cishet" when they mean conformant.

A person could be...

-Intersex and cishet.

-Transcis/Cistrans/Trisgender and hetero (ie; some intersex people, some multigender people, etc.)

-Cishet and genderqueer.

-A-spec (anae-spec, afam-spec, apl-spec, asen-spec, ace-spec, aro-spec, aroace-spec, etc) and cishet.

-Cis and heteroflexible.

-Cishet and objectum.

-Cishet and auto-spec.

-Cishet with nontraditional attraction (queerplatonic, alterous, waveric, etc.)

It’s so funny to hear it from people who start off by saying, "We support intersex people!", only to then turn around and claim that being intersex is a "mutation," that intersex people can be neatly divided into "men" and "women," that self-discovery is "invalid," or that if your variation doesn't cause you health issues, you're "not actually intersex"—and other such nonsense.

Last month, in a queer community, I shared my trans and cis experiences, which are tied to my intersex and neurodivergent lived experience. Someone reposted my message to an exclusionist queer channel that supposedly "supports" intersex people. They wrote that no intersex person would ever call themselves "cis+trans," calling it a "disgrace" to the community. They also claimed that unless a doctor has confirmed it, I can’t call myself intersex. On top of that, they called me a 12-year-old girl who's just "attention-seeking"—even though I’m almost 19, and my age was literally listed in my profile.

I just want to say that your "support" for intersex people vanishes the exact moment our actual lived experience becomes inconvenient for you or doesn't fit into your binary worldview.

Kagamine Len from Ego Renegade Boy by FLAVOR FOLEY is an intersex cistrans man! (link)

We love you intersex trans women

We love you intersex tris women

We love you intersex isogender women

We love you intersex cis men

We love you intersex trans men

We love you intersex tris men

We love you intersex isogender men

We love you intersex cis enben

We love you intersex trans enben

We love you intersex tris enben

We love you intersex isogender enben

if flags for this already exists, consider ours to be (an) alts. flag made by RLLR.

intersex PMOS trisgender

based on these (link) PCOS flags, and these (link) cistrans flags.

[image ID: three nearly-identical rectangular flags, all with 7 straight horizontal stripes. the colours of the stripes, from top to bottom, are: dark-ish navy blue, dull indigo, muted pastel indigo, very light grey-blue, cyan, dark-ish muted cerulean, dark navy blue. in the center of the first flag is a circle, reaching the top and bottom stripes, which is a gradient from dark-ish navy blue to dark navy blue. in the center of the second flag is a very light grey-blue circle with an outline which is a gradient from dark-ish navy blue to dark navy blue. the third flag is the same as the second, except for the center circle being purple. end image ID.]

Hydrahoney Trisfeminine flags(top row) and Lemoncoffee Trismasculine flags(bottom row)