#isogender

They absolutely adore your body type. They can't get over just how gorgeous you are. Even if you're not happy with the way you look, they still adore every inch of your body and are more than open to supporting you in your journey into becoming more comfortable with your body.

Even if it's "not canon", people change. They grow, and they learn new things about themselves as time goes on. What might not be "canon" then might change as they develop as a person.

They're so lucky to have you.

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you don’t know anyone’s identity better than they do. stop trying to tell me i’m something i’m not— you’re not being cool and “woke” by insisting i’m trans, you’re just repackaging harmful rhetoric.

We love you intersex trans women

We love you intersex tris women

We love you intersex isogender women

We love you intersex cis men

We love you intersex trans men

We love you intersex tris men

We love you intersex isogender men

We love you intersex cis enben

We love you intersex trans enben

We love you intersex tris enben

We love you intersex isogender enben

Being gender non conforming and trans doesn’t mean somebody is about to detransition AND they are not a traitor if they end up detransitioning.

Being a man and a woman or any other kind of multigender is not a contradictory state of being, likewise. Being isogender or cistrans is a fine thing to be and I love you.

Constantly being told in a binary-splainy way I am "under the Trans umbrella term," even though I am Isogender (neither trans or cis), subtly implying I am invalid and being Trans is superior compared to the rest of us in the Gender-Expansive community who aren't that. It's basically an indirect way of telling me, "If you're not cis, you must be trans," "my framework is the correct one and yours is secondary," and "Trans is the default and you're a sub-category."

Hint: Trans/gender and Cis/gender are not the only gender modalities, just like how sex and gender are not just "female/male" and "woman/man."

This is rooted in exorsexism, varsexism, eurocentricism, pluralphobia.

Every time people drop one binary, they seem to grab onto another, and forget that gender cant easily be boiled into two categories.

like.... so you have no problem w lesbian men and vincian women but me being nonbinary w/out transness is suddenly an "attack" to trans people. maybe you just need to accept the fact that not all nonbinary or agender people relate to being trans and just see cis/trans as another binary. i dont care! i love being isogender nonbinary!!! everyone get less bigoted against contradictory labels now!!!!!

no! actually! they are not opposites! you can be both! you can be neither! cis just means identifying with your agab! there’s no reason it has to mean “AND not identifying with any other gender”! don’t get it twisted!