Chronic complaining, for men n women
I hate unhappy bitter ppl. Don't get me wrong wen I'm on here I happen to voice a lot of my troubles but eventually I let go of it n move on. I jus hate wen ppl with simple or not so simple but not so bad situations try to make the worst out of everything. Between the life they live, the decisions they make n the ppl they center their life around with, it all comes down to the fact that they have a choice. At the same time they're drawing problems out of thin air rather than actually going thru them. Like why are u purposefully building a bridge of troubles so that u seem "important" like everyone else?
First subject - my long time friend from high school has completely decided to live his life out as a bum. He needlessly has taken the fall for others on multiple occasions at the risk of having him get kicked out or put in jail. To be clear I love my friends but only those that really care about me n especially I never love them over my mother. He is full of pride n too blinded by it to see how it's affecting himself n his family n is ready to be put out. He won't contribute n fights every ounce of positive reinforcement he gets to keep being this bad version of himself. Sadly he's had chances to be extremely amazing several times, he was a natural leader he could sing he could act, he can draw do tattoos n comedy the whole shebang n I've watched him lose all those gifts. Wen he got around his first ounce of bad friends he started smoking n lost his voice, he got around other under achievers and stopped participating in school plays n other extracurricular activities, his next batch of friends wanted everything free n so he never made profit, his exes leave him n then he turns to drugs n quits his jobs. Soon it jus progressed. I try to be fair n understand his pain as to the fact that he had an abusive and absent father in his life. I've seen its affects in myself and my cousins (brother n sister). Whether u lose a parent thru death or ur parent doesn't want anything to do with u then it plays a part to how u grow. But it can either make u or break u. U have a choice. My friends decides to go the latter however n really it puts a strain on his mother sister n lil brother because he's trying to be jus as absent but loyal to those that do not care about him. He's even disowned me n another close friend because we no longer fit his criteria. He complains to us that all of these troubles have befallen on him out of nowhere without looking at himself. His pride has completely blinded him to the truth but also has given some sort of acceptance within himself: that he will never be wat we want him to be.
Second subject is short. I have another friend who's actually rather gifted n has a precious soul n spirit. She puts her heart into wat she does n wat she loves. However wat she loves too much she feels as tho she needs to be apart of n sometimes too often. I run non stop so I don't get to hear or read every word every minute that someone is trying to convey to me. At the moment I have things going on that usually are of more urgency. This friend will convey every single accomplishment, thought, drama, and issue to me every so often. After a while I get tired of hearing of it not because I'm trying to be a dick but it's jus not important to me at the moment or frankly it's jus about u. As far as the drama goes she constantly tries to equate her experiences with her family to that of me n my old love interest whom she is also friends with. Wen she describes the situations it's some of the most soft core arguments I've ever heard n it's like ur not being physically threatened or actually yelled at tho. Yall really jus had a disagreement n turned noses up at each other. Or wen she does unnecessary amounts of community service in such a tiny town she relates every experience to me in absolute detail n who she had to work with n wat they act like n it's insane because she's never really worked with ppl in an actual job n I mean like at all. So she's creating a stressful experience because she thinks that's wat the rest of us go thru each day or here n there. Soon she will actually be in her first job so maybe then she'll REALLY understand why working ppl be so angry.
Last subject is kind of general but at the same time targeted. This ig model i follow constantly complains about her experience with men n it's fkn annoying. I hate most of this chicks posts these days. She has whole a vendetta to call out every man in the world for their flaws, either thru a post, a book that she's writing, a long winded video or ig sc story, or subliminal songs and messages. Like I've never seen someone so pressed about every man that come up n talk to them or hop in their dms. Like u officially make urself unbearable n undateable wen u gotta embarrass or harass all men because of ur 1 2 or 3 bad experiences. Men do this stupid, all in one box method too but not as much as women or should I say women like her. Ppl make mistakes, we are all never gonna be perfect till God makes us so. So stop expecting perfection n critiquing, we are all growing in the end it is our jobs alone to pick from the field of weeds n find our flowers. Ppl like her complain or claim that "I don't care if I don't find anyone right away I'm focusing on me n my soulmate". Clearly u do if u complain or box all men in one crate n then "can't find a good one". Like look jus do less bashing n complaining n maybe the right one will come along. All I kno is we are not all our predecessors. If u don't like wat u see choose someone else. Otherwise don't fall in love with every man that u fk. Stop making problems out of thin air.
To conclude tho that's jus some simple examples of chronic complainers. Either ppl give up on life n then shit on everyone else that hasn't. Either ppl so bored with their lives they have to make up things that aren't there. Or either ppl that create part of their problems then can't handle wat comes back so they take it out on everyone else.
