#bsd matchups

Kyujuro Rengoku! :)

Reasoning:

I just felt like Kyojuro would be the absolute perfect partner for you. He’s such a caring, loving guy, and while he has some differences to you (like his more extroverted nature) he’s not overbearing about it in your relationships and I feel like those differences would honestly enhance your relationship rather than hinder it <3

Headcanons About Your Relationship:

- First off, I think Kyojuro would absolutely adore your more shy, gentle, nurturing behavior. He’s definitely much more bold and outgoing than you are lol but he’s also someone who really enjoys caring for and nurturing his loved ones, so the two of you are able to give that to each other and are both able to lean on each other when things get hard and you feel like you can’t tell anyone else :) And because you both have similar attitudes, it keeps either of you from overexerting yourselves for someone else as he always stops you from pushing yourself too far to help others and vice versa

- And he knows you’re not good at confrontation, and he’s more than willing to do it for you if you’re upset with someone else! Of course he doesn’t go nuclear or anything (unless they deserve it, he gets furious if anyone tries to seriously harm you), he’s a kind person at heart so he handles the issue well, but he’s not afraid to address any issues for you if you’re uncomfortable doing it yourself. And while he’s not always the most perceptive, he can usually tell when you’re upset with him, and he’ll give you the space to share those feelings with him rather than bottling them up so the two of you can communicate and solve the issue, because he never wants to hurt you or make you upset in any way <3

- He love love loves cooking for you as well! You know how he is about food lol so he’s always cooking up tasty meals for you, and he has a habit of including random ingredients into onigiri to see how it tastes, but he usually likes everything and isn’t super picky so you have to tell him if something tastes bad to you lol (idk if you’ve seen the “Will it Onigiri” series on TikTok but that’s kinda what I’m picturing here!) And if you hate one of his creations he always makes you a nice, fresh batch of milk tea to wash down the taste hehe

- And he absolutely ADORES your baking, this man would have such a sweet tooth so whenever he comes home at night or wakes up in the morning to the smell of baked goods in the air he rushes towards the kitchen with a wide, eager grin on his face as he waits to be the first to taste whatever he made <3 And he’ll eat things straight out of the oven too, this man’s mouth has lost ANY heat senses so he’ll have a whole dessert in his mouth and be chattering on about how delicious it was the second you’ve set the tray down to cool </3

- He thinks you’re so so beautiful as well, he was drawn to you from the moment he saw you and is still constantly telling you (very loudly, might I add) that you look absolutely stunning <3 He loves your round face and button nose and he’s constantly cupping your cheeks in his hands as he kisses your nose when you first wake up in the mornings, and I think he’d definitely be a curly hair guy so he LOVES your hair as well :)

- He thinks your fantasy maps are so cool too! :D I don’t think he’d have a whole lot of time to get into fantasy literature or games or anything just because of how busy his line of work is, but he always supports your interests and finds the maps in particular to be so incredibly cool :> He likes watching you make them sometimes, the process can be so creative and intricate and he will proudly display them in the house when you’re done with them if you’ll allow him to

- And as for quality time, boy does he give you plenty of that. I feel like Kyojuro is one of those people that could happily be around his partner all the time if he were able to, and while he will absolutely give you alone time if you ask for it (and he’s unfortunately kept busy a lot of the time with his work) he spends pretty much all of his free time with you <3 And he’s always doing cute little things for you like making you lunch boxes and writing sweet notes in all caps or tidying up the house on the rare occasion that he’s home and you’re not, in order to make you smile and take some stress off your shoulders

- He’s such a sucker for your gifts too, he always cherishes them and will show them off to anyone who will listen (especially Mitsuri because she loves hearing about how romantic you can be) If it’s something he’s able to carry with him while out on missions, he absolutely will, as carrying something you gave him is a nice token of home for him and reminds him what he’s fighting for when he’s struggling to get through a mission

Second Choice:

I chose this match pretty quickly for you honestly, but ironically, I think if I were to choose another match for you it would probably be Akaza lol. He would be so respectful towards you and would also encourage you to share your feelings, and he would absolutely not be afraid to show his love to you at all lol he treats you like a queen <3 I just felt like Kyojuro fit with you a little better so he won out in the end :)

Song For Your Relationship:

I Do Adore by Mindy Gledhill <3

For Bungou Stray Dogs, I’d Match You With:

Doppo Kunikida! :)

Reasoning:

This one I struggled with a bit more since I don’t know as many BSD characters, but when I looked through all of the ones I did know, I felt that Kunikida would be the best suited to you and your needs in a relationship <3 He may seem a bit loud and harsh at first, but with your gentle, shy nature he’d always return the same gentleness and respect towards you, and as the two of you grow closer I know he’d be the absolute dream partner for you

Headcanons About Your Relationship:

- He knows you’re very much a nurturing person, and while he does appreciate the ways in which you take care of him and all of those around you and occasionally seeks out your comfort and support after a particularly rough week, he’s honestly not in need of comfort a lot of the time and can be pretty self-sufficient most of the time. But he knows how you often over-exert yourself in favor of helping others, so he takes this as an opportunity to show you that same love and care you give to others, and to let you be taken care of for a change as he pampers and looks after you and your emotional needs rather than you always being the one to care for everyone else <3

- He’s another one I feel would adore your dark, curly/wavy hair, and he especially finds the little accessories you like to put in your hair so endearing <3 It’s a small thing, but it’s just so characteristically you that whenever he finds one of your little hairclips accidentally left at his home, the sight brings a soft smile to his face as it reminds him of you and how precious you are to him

- And he probably wouldn’t admit this to anyone else, but he’s absolutely a sentimentalist when it comes to your relationship and cherishes every gift you give him <3 He makes a point to use any gifts you’ve given him whenever possible in order to show his appreciation, and he keeps a meticulous list of things you like and have mentioned wanting so that he can also get you the perfect gifts whenever celebrations and/or holidays come around :D

- Early on in the relationship, I do think he may feel a bit awkward about showing his love for you, just because he’s not super experienced in relationships and is also afraid of ovestepping boundaries or making you uncomfortable (and also getting teased by his colleagues lol)

- And while he never really becomes a big PDA guy or anything, he definitely shows his love in other ways as your relationship progresses. He’s big on holding hands wherever you go together so that he never loses sight of you, and he can wax poetic about his love for you and write such heartfelt notes on special occasions to make sure you know how grateful he is that you choose to spend your life with him

- He would also really enjoy reading your writing, if you’ll allo him. He’d love it if you were willing to share such an intimate creation of yours with him as he knows how personal writing can be, and he’s filled with praises for you once he’s finished, as he wants to encourage your passions and make you feel safe to share your writing with him more often :>

- He’s not a big video game guy, but I think he would try to get into some for you. I don’t think he’d really enjoy any combat-heavy games as they frustrate him and he gets enough combat action in his regular life, but games more focused on story and adventure can get him absolutely HOOKED if you catch him at the right time (I feel like he’d really enjoy the Zelda games for example, and if you introduced him to a game like Stardew Valley he’d work SO fast but would refuse to marry anyone since he wants to stay loyal to you <3)

- And he’s very big on acts of service, Kunikida loves to know that he’s able to make your life easier in whatever way he possibly can because he hates to see you feeling so stressed so often, so he does everything he can to take some of that burden off of you. He’ll cook for both of you when he gets home on time, and he wakes up every morning to make you a nice cup of tea and your favorite breakfast so you have a nice way to start your day :]

Second Choice:

I considered matching you with Dazai as well, as I thought that the two of you shared some similar qualities and that the ways in which you oppose each other could make an interesting, fun relationship dynamic. I just wasn’t sure as I felt it may be difficult for him to handle heavy conversations especially when you’re upset with him, so I figured Kunikida may be a bit of a better fit as he’d be quick to understand your emotions and sensitivities while Dazai just may take a bit longer to figure that stuff out :]

Song For Your Relationship:

Count on Me by Bruno Mars <3

For Haikyuu, I’d Match You With:

Koshi Sugawara! :)

Reasoning:

There were several different Haikyuu boys I had in mind when thinking of your match-up, but in the end, Suga stood out to me as unlike all these other match-ups, I feel like both of you have so many similarities but are also SO different in some ways and so you’d just perfectly match up and complement one another in the best way :D

Headcanons About Your Relationship:

- For starters, I TOTALLY see Suga as a major cat dad lol once the two of you end up moving in together he immediately starts asking about getting a cat. And he’d splurge on expensive, high-quality food for the cat and tons of toys and such even on his teacher’s salary, and his absolute favorite thing to do at the end of a long day is to cuddle up in bed with you with the cat laying on top of or between both of you :D

- He’s another one who loves you’re style, he’s a big fan of the comfy and stylish combo. He loves when you wear warm, fuzzy sweaters and hoodies too lol since it makes it feel extra cozy when he wraps his arms around you, and he likes to help you get ready in small ways in the morning like buttoning your button-up for you just to get that small extra bit of time with you hehe :>

- He also thinks you’re very pretty, he loves your glasses and your eyes in particular <3 He thinks your eyes are just so mesmerizing, he can sometimes stare into hem for ages before you snap him out of it, and your glasses just accentuate them more and he thinks the gold in the frames brings out the color of your eyes too 

- I think Suga would be super interested in all your creative hobbies, but drawing in particular would really catch his attention and intrigue him. Of course he loves to read anything you’ve written if you ask, but he’s especially fond of watching you draw, and if you ever draw anything for him he’ll definitely be dramatic and make a huge spectacle of it, and he’ll either hang it up in the house or in his classroom so he can show off what you made for him :)

- With your more shy and reserved nature when first getting to know people, Suga would be good at breaking the ice and making conversation with you at first when he can tell you’re still shy around him, but he’s just a little bit shy himself while also managing to come across as friendly and fun to be around, he’s the kind of person who feels easy to open up around because despite his jokes and teasing, you just know he’s got a heart of gold beneath it all and is never actually judging you

- And once your relationship is established and he knows just how much you’re always trying to be there for others, he makes it his personal goal to be that same person for you. He’s generally a pretty playful and energetic lover, but when he can tell you’re having a hard time he immediately drops all teasing and playfulness and switches into loving partner mode as he cradles you close and offers you all the reassurances you could ever dream of <3

- And with his job, even though he loves it, sometimes he comes home feeling completely exhausted or burnt out or even unappreciated. And usually on those days, all he asks of you is just to let him lay his head in your lap and comb your fingers through his hair as he rants about his crappy day and gets all those negative feelings out of his system

- And honestly I feel like he’d love playing video games with you, especially cozy games or building games :> If you two make a Minecraft world together he loves going onto it when you’re not home and picking a bunch of flowers to give to you when you join the game or joking about your Minecraft beds being next to each other <3

Second Choice:

I also really considered either Asahi or Kita when choosing your match-up. Both of them felt like they’d be amazing partners to you and would be able to fulfill a lot of your needs, but honestly, I just thought that the dynamic between you and Suga would be so perfect that he ended up winning over those two in the end despite how lovely all three of them are :>

Song For Your Relationship:

Would You Be So Kind by Dodie <3

For Attack on Titan, I’d Match You With:

Armin Arlert! :)

Reasoning:

I know this one seems totally obvious considering your profile picture lol but I promise I tried not to be biased with this and to come into it with an open mind, he just seemed to be the clear best option to me when reading about the kind of person you’d want to be with as well as the kind of person you are. He’s very different from a lot of the other AOT men and I think that he’s uiquely suited to you and your needs and wants in a relationship, and the two of you would truly be like two peas in a pod together

Headcanons About Your Relationship:

- He knows how you love the sky pretty much the same way he loves the sea, so he loves to combine those two loves and take you to the beach where he can stare at the ocean as he leans against you, while you can lay on the nice, comfy towel he brought and stare up at the sky <3 If you two go at night I think he’d enjoy stargazing with you too, as it helps bring him out of all the worries in his mind for a moment and lets him think about something far off into space and just enjoy the moment with you

- Armin would also be SUCH a cat person omg he’s the type of guy who would see some stray kittens hanging around scout headquarters and leave out food for them to make sure they don’t go hungry <3 And once the dust has settled on everything and the two of you are able to move in together he does the same thing, and you two would probably eventually end up adopting at least one of the strays as you both just completely fall in love with it

- This may seem like something simple, but I feel like Armin really enjoys your aesthetic and your color palette in general. He adores all the blues and pale shades, and though he’s always complimenting you because he wants to make sure you always feel loved and admired by him, he’s a little bit extra complimentary whenever he notices you wearing one of his favorite blue pieces of clothing hehe

- And he’s absolutely big on reading and literature, so when he finds out you enjoy writing in your free time, he would find it so admirable. He knows that writing can be an emotional outlet for some people and may be sensitive to share, so he never pushes you, but if you offer to let him read something of yours his eyes would literally sparkle with excitement lol he’d immediately jump at the opportunity and tell you everything he adores about what you’ve written

- I think after everything he’s been through, Armin has times where he really struggles with his mental health, and he often has nightmares in particular. He has some similar fears with you like the thought of losing everyone he loves, and the thought that he’s a horrible person and everyone will eventually grow to despise him also often haunts him in his sleep, and it’s those times in particular that he could not be more grateful for your nurturing aura <3 Being able to cry it out in your arms and listen to your reassurances after a particularly horrible nightmare is what keeps him going through each day sometimes, and he always makes sure to show his appreciation for all the emotional support you show him

- And of course he shows you that same support as well. Armin is an incredibly perceptive person, so even if you don’t tell him something’s wrong, he’s always quick to notice and address it so that he can comfort you in return. If someone’s causing you problems he’s more than happy to confront them, but if you’re just in need of some affection and a listening ear while you vent or some reassurance, he’s amazing at that as well as he always knows how to make you feel heard and loved

- He’d also be really big on quality time, given the things he’s experienced and the losses he’s suffered he knows how easily it is to lose the ones you love most without ever expecting it, so he’s careful to never take his time with you for granted. He often plans dates or occasions for you two to spend time together, and even if you’re just relaxing in bed together and each doing separate things, just being with you and knowing that you’re still there beside him warms his heart and puts his mind at ease

- He loves when you wear cozy clothes, especially sweaters and hoodies. They make hugs with you feel so warm and fuzzy, and he’s a big fan of just coming up to you and nuzzling into your chest or laying his head on your stomach when you have a nice, warm sweater on and he’s in need of a little extra affection

Second Choice:

Honestly this one was tougher, Armin felt like a pretty perfect match for you and not a lot of other AOT guys really stood out to me in comparison. I think either Reiner or Jean could also match with you well, as I believe they could be the type to be more observant and sensitive towards your feelings in a relationship in comparison to a lot of other AOT men and could be the kind of partner you would want, but Armin is just such a perfect pick that it felt hard to consider anyone else.

Song For Your Relationship:

Dazai!

-He also makes sure you eat at least enough - he understands what it is like to not be able to feel like eating and doesn't want you to have that habit.

-He already knows how naïve you could be.

-So he will help you by making sure you don't waste your breath on people who want to take advantage.

-Like even though he is suicidal himself, he doesn't want you to mentally suffer that badly, so he will comfort you by physical contact and gifts.

-He is protective of you, so he doesn't want you to end up in hospital for something he could have prevented, so he makes sure no light flashes near you

-In his opinion, suicide shouldn't be painful, and that is a toll. It should be enjoyable when you do it with him.