βIf you ask people in a toxic relationship, βWhy do you love this person?" And the answer isβ¦ βI donβt knowβ¦ I canβt describe it. Itβs just likeβ¦ magical. I canβt put it into words. We just have this connection. They just, feel meβ¦ you know?β They canβt articulate it. But when you ask a person in a healthy relationship, βWhy do you love this person?β, the answer is very clear. βBecause I respect them, and they respect me. We share the same values. We have incredible times together. I feel safe with this person.β They give you concrete evidence. But when someone's βlikeβ¦ magicalβ, and you canβt describe it, itβs because itβs a trauma bonded connection. A confusing space. This ainβt magical. Itβs dangerous to go exploring, to stick around and find out . And itβs a wake up call. And opportunity to choose differently. How do you know? Go with the energy. Energy doesnβt lie. Your gut knows. Does this relationship help you grow? Does it fill you up? Does it feel nurturing? Do you feel safe? Genuinely loved? Or does it shrink you? Cause you to to be unstable, unsafeβ¦? You donβt need words. You feel threatened, you donβt feel like yourself, you feel yourself reaching for old toxic behaviorsβ¦β ~ I wish I could remember who said this (it wasnβt me) Energy doesnβt lie. The energy says it all. (Run) #relationship101 #toxiclove #toxicrelationship #unhealthyrelationships #unhealthyrelationship #relationshipcoach #breakupcoach #cantdescribeit #dating101 #datingadvice #selflove #selfprotection #selfawareness #thingstoknow #thingstoknowinadvance #internationallifecoach #healthylove #healthyrelationships #relationshipgoals https://www.instagram.com/p/CkQkCdmunCW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
