#breakupadvice

Sometimes things fall apart so better things can fall together. ⚡️ The Tower tears down what was built on lies. Reblog to survive the storm.

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This has been the hardest day of my life. I left an abusive relationship that I’ve been in for a year and a few months. It may seem stupid to be sad to most of you because of the things that I was going through, but it’s more than just breaking up. Being so young and building and centering my every move around my relationship (under the impression, I wouldn’t give up on him) was a bold move. It isn’t even that  I gave up on him, I just came to the realization that once my life is gone, i won’t ever get it back and that resonated with me. It got tot the point where i was questioning if he wanted me to even be alive. The whole situation just became abusive in every aspect. I know that I have to do some deep healing because everything that’s happened is sickening and scary. I became embarrassed with what I allowed to become normal and that I was accepting that I was a victim. I had the mindset of a victim and to be honest I still do. This shit has been consecutive and didn’t just happen over night.I know that the healing won’t happen overnight. I am just frustrated trying to put my life back together. I had to move back in my mom’s place and while I know they love me and they’re happy for me to be home and safe , i still am longing to be in my own space. I know it will come in time. I decided to leave because I knew I would get lonely and let him come home or that he’d just come back like always. I didn’t want it to be like this but everything between us has been so hectic lately and It isn’t anything that I can be at fault for or anything that I deserve. I just need advice on how to get through this tough time. I really love him and miss him, but I know I can’t turn back now.

Let me explain!😅 ✨ If you were given a massive diamond and told it was really rare and it was the only one in existence you may feel really protective over it🤔 ✨ But let’s say you walk down the street one day and you see everyone around you walking around with similar precious stones - would you still feel like yours was as special?🧐 ✨ Every single one of us has something uniquely and divinely special about us individually, however this is not to say that we are the only ones that are special😅 ✨ If everyone is special it means that we’re all the same but in a general sense, whereas the things that make us special are unique to each person. For example one person’s sense of humour may make them unique and another’s may be their perspective on life🥳 ✨ This way of seeing ourselves and others can help us to check ourselves when we’re running away with thoughts that don’t serve us or when we attach ourselves to ideas about people or ourselves🤓 ✨ If everyone is special then no one is - this is something that has helped me to let go of a lot of pressure I was putting on myself to be special and to stand out but the reality is that I already do this naturally I don’t need to try🤠 ✨ What makes you uniquely special?🤔 ✨ #individuality #personaldevelopmentcoach #selfimprovement #selflovejourney #selflovetips #selflovequotes #recoveryispossible #recoveryjourney #recoverywarrior #recoveryquotes #recovering #selflovethreads #healingjourney #healingenergy #healingvibrations #healingtrauma #breakups #breakupquotes #breakupadvice #lovingmyself (at London, Unιted Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CEZ_W3pnUUx/?igshid=6s2zm1rs83wj

Heres the sitch. I was dating this guy for about a 2 months and everything was great but then yesterday he broke up with me because he scared that we’re both moving at the end of the summer and we both know we had to break up. But i still want to be with him for as long as I can and I have this text lined up to him to try and talk about it maybe but i cant bring myself to send it. I need someone to tell me to do it please...

The reason why a lot of us have difficulty moving on is because we’re attached to an idea of how we want things to be and this is increasing resistance to the way things are & what we resist will persist because resistance makes stronger🧐 ✨ Especially when it comes to unrequited love the important thing to keep in mind is that there are thousands of potential lovers out there who would be more than happy to reciprocate our love🥰 ✨ But we get hung up because we’re fixated on the idea of how things could be with this one person and all that does is create a sense of scarcity and desperation which is why we will continue to attract more scarcity to us in all areas of our lives😤 ✨ We’re here to live in abundance and have fun, indeed things won’t always work out the way we want them to but it’s important for us to create a story that serves us around these events instead of just turning negative straight away - for example the story that serves us might be that there’s someone better suited to us waiting for us to meet them🤷‍♀️ ✨ It’s important for us to check ourselves on the stories we create around the events that happen in our lives because this allows us to understand why we’re behaving the way we do and this will determine who, what & where we attract to us✅ ✨ What are you having difficulty accepting & what’s the story you created around it?🤔 DM me your answer if you don’t wanna share it publicly💚 ✨ #depressionhelp #unrequitedlove #relationshipmemes #relationshipadvice #emotionalhealing #emotionalhealth #selflovequotes #selfacceptance #selfimprovement #enlightened #spiritualhealing #depressionawareness #anxietyrecovery #mentalhealthblogger #relatablequotes #relationshipquotes #healingquotes #breakupquotes #breakups #breakupadvice (at Tokyo 東京, Japan) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4GFO7DnwQk/?igshid=5237o2lkobve