#bhalobashi

৩১ জ্যৈষ্ঠ ১৪২৬ | 14 june 2019

Bangla Word of the Day: ভালবাসা [bhalôbasa] | love, to love

To tell someone you love them you can say আমি তোমাকে ভালবাসি [ami tomake bhalôbasi] (“I love you”). Just keep in mind, তোমাকে is informal and is meant for someone closer to you.

i didn't know this is exactly what i want until i read it omg

Me either? I definitely had it in my head that the progression would be slower -- drawn out, slow burn, dating, etc. But something about skipping all that would be so unexpected and somehow still fitting. I don’t need to see them date, but I need them in a relationship? IDEK.

lisamichele17 replied to your post “Okay. Had a brain dump with firstofoctober, and I’ve decided what I...”

OH. DEAR.GOD. *spontaneous combust* ahem: Can we say mind. blowing. sex. Yes, I am crazy. To the song Closer by Kings of Leon. This is not unhealthy. At. All.

I’m not sure what is going to do me in first -- finally getting the more explicit romantic physicality of kissing and sex, or just the ridiculously simple physical closeness and contact that will happen when they’re in a romantic relationship. I’LL BE FINE.

cleverdistraction replied to your post “Okay. Had a brain dump with firstofoctober, and I’ve decided what I...”

idk about the course of one season, but over the course of a season and a half or so, YES. but more importantly: GIVE ME AN ENTIRE SEASON OF SECRETLY MARRIED I CRAVE IT SFM. I NEED IT. "NEED? NEED."

I know it doesn’t really make sense because Harvey’s so far from being near his revelation point (much less a marriage proposal) at the moment, but once he’s able to acknowledge his demons and his fears, that’s the big hurdle. Donna knows he has his faults, but she knew a relationship was out of the question because he “wasn’t ready” and couldn’t even see why. But if he’s able to admit to the faults, that is quite a swing for him and might be what Donna needs to dig into her own feelings and give him a chance.

And maybe it’s just secret engagement instead of secret marriage -- gives the show time to work up some more drama. But, I just. I don’t want them to draw it out? It’s not like Harvey doesn’t know how to love, or be a boyfriend, or treat Donna well for the most part, so I’m suddenly realizing I’m okay to skip the drawn out dating season. There’s no question they’ve been in love with each other for years and want to make a relationship work. So it’d be interesting to see Donna go with her heart instead of her head on this, and then we get to see the conflicts that bubble up.

Well not much was illuminated in the EW article but given their track record, it makes me nervous.

If they fuck up, well, I’m just going to say ‘i told you so’ because you should have just followed the existing storyline instead of trying to be too smart and making up your own. 

bhalobashi replied to your post: Cutting out Arianne, aging up (and pos...

i honestly still don’t understand the point of cutting her out?? like she’s a major player, and her storyline fits in so perfectly like what’s the point of any of this

Probably because, you know, it could encourage wild ideas in our heads that a women can be in a position in inherit or rule before her brother or just be equal to men LET ALONE A WOMAN OF COLOUR. 

dogisms replied to your post: Cutting out Arianne, aging up (and pos...

also they all look so white and i am just going ‘oh god no’

wow this is not something i needed right now. i cannot believe how off their timing is. they both miss each other by seconds during louis' speech and then again right when harvey was about to say something donna cut him off. oh my babes

YES. WE SHOULD TALK ABOUT THE TIMING.

Donna and Harvey missing eye contact during Louis’ eulogy for Norma. Donna trying to find Harvey when she gets to work so they can talk, and he’s not in his office. Harvey trying to find Donna: “where have you been all day?” Donna cutting off Harvey’s sentences before he can finish what he’s saying. Donna already deciding to work for Louis before she tells Harvey.

Now compare that to their flashbacks:

Donna finishing Harvey’s sentences because she knows what he’s going to say. Harvey: “So you’re stepping out on me already.” / Donna: ”Yes, but the important thing is I’m telling you about it in advance.” Donna already at the bar when Harvey comes looking for her. Donna already knowing what Harvey is going to do.

yeah so I’m gonna need you to finish this sooner rather than later cause WOW

Eee. <333 I love Harvey's psyche so much. He's got all of these amazing qualities, but he's so confused and emotionally unavailable to others (and himself). And I cannot get over the introduction of Marcus and the parallels between the flashback scene and the phone call scene in 4x16. And now I'm starting to think about Harvey's mom and her partner, and Harvey's feelings about him, and how that also plays a role in how Harvey can't recognize/admit/articulate his feelings about Donna. I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHTS.

bhalobashi replied to your post “Please are you writing Darvey fic? Please???? I...”

oh man i need this like now

YES! Did you notice quotes in this episode? Wow, just wow. 

 ”I don’t get involve with man i am work with”. 

She’s not working for him anymore. She told him about her feelings and what most important he told her. So, thats a start. They’re don’t hide anything from each other. They’re don’t work with each other anymore. If Harvey will do exactly what Donna wants him to do they eventually will be together. FACE, Harvey’s face! He was in deep shock. She’s leaving him. It’s kinda his worst nightmare and it is his nightmare. She’s gone. But things are going in right direction. I am glad, really glad that it ends like this.