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A quick note for you guys. You can really tell what someone is into if you look at the planets conjunct or simply aspecting darakaraka. Like if Venus is your darakaraka, then you love a spouse who has fine taste, dresses well and looks extremely good. And if it is conjunct Sun, then yep, you need a highly confident person, like a godly person. With conjunction it is very intense because it is not something you like but something you need in a partner.

I have found conjunctions are the strongest with this to see likeness. Oppositions will be something you hate about them but cannot help but also admire that trait. Like if Saturn is opposite Venus, then you love how they feel so secure and dependable and mature, but also hate the fact that they are too strict or aloof with you. With sextiles and trines, it would be complimenting traits that just makes them very desirable to your soul. And squares will be you simply hate those things about them. So it is a very basic, foolproof, sure and efficient way to recognize your future spouse as well. Also applicable to western astrology just take 7th lord in that case and also d9 chart. For Vedic I recommend to focus on darakarka for this method rather than 7th lord for both d1 and d9 charts.

Sun

Highly confident, authoritative, radiant, natural leader, proud, deeply focused on self expression and vitality. They have a main character energy. They are likely very ambitious, protective, and want to be admired.

Moon

Nurturing, deeply emotional, intuitive, empathetic, adaptable, heavily tied to family, home, or comfort. They are a caretaker. They wear their heart on their sleeve, tune into your emotional needs instinctively, and prioritize emotional security and coziness.

Mercury

Highly intellectual, communicative, witty, youthful, curious, restless, and analytical. They are a talker and a thinker. You will have endless conversations, lots of banter, and they likely have a very playful, almost mischievous sense of humor. They need mental stimulation.

Venus

Beautiful, diplomatic, artistic, romantic, pleasure seeking, and focused on aesthetics. They have fine taste, prioritize harmony, dress well, and know how to enjoy the finer things in life. They are natural charmers and peacemakers.

Mars

Energetic, athletic, passionate, assertive, protective, impulsive, and sometimes aggressive or highly competitive. They are a doer. They have a lot of physical energy, are likely very direct with their desires, and fiercely protect what is theirs. They bring heat and action to the relationship.

Jupiter

Wise, optimistic, philosophical, generous, expansive, spiritual, and sometimes dogmatic or preachy. They are the eternal student or teacher. They likely love traveling, learning, and discussing big picture concepts. They bring luck, abundance, and a very positive, everything will work out attitude.

Saturn

Mature, disciplined, secure, hardworking, traditional, serious, dependable, but can be aloof or overly strict. As you mentioned, they are the rock. They offer unparalleled stability, loyalty, and practical support, though they might struggle to be spontaneously affectionate or emotionally raw.

Rahu (North Node)

Unconventional, ambitious, obsessive, rule breaking, glamorous, deeply attached to material success or worldly experiences. They might be from a completely different cultural background or foreign land. They are likely magnetic, intense, and highly driven to achieve, sometimes breaking societal norms to get what they want. They bring an element of unpredictability and excitement.

Ketu (South Node)

Spiritual, detached, highly intuitive, mystical, private, introspective, and unbothered by material success. They are an old soul. They might be incredibly hard to read, preferring solitude or spiritual pursuits over climbing the corporate ladder or socializing. They offer a deep, almost psychic connection, but can also suddenly isolate themselves or seem entirely detached from the physical world.

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- for me, neptune ruled beauty ranks higher than venusian, neptune in the 1st/neptune aspecting asc people always have lethal face cards

- sagittarius suns and/or venus in cancer in a women’s chart makes you very male centred :/ every woman i know with these placements are always letting a man torment them to some degree so they don’t have to confront their own loneliness LOL

- saturn is an underrated and necessary aspect to having sex appeal

- virgos can dish but can not take lol!

- most aquarians are real lovers, their egos just can not handle someone knowing that they are important to them

- jupiter in the 8th/12th is not spoken about enough, the protection these people have in this lifetime is arcane and powerful. this may also point to people with this aspect doing bad things but not really feeling the brunt of the consequences

- mercury conjunct mars in synastry can indicate the mars person being turned on by arguments or the mercury person being able to easily get under someone’s skin

- mars square/opposite jupiter is often found in the charts of thieves, people with this placement can have a phase where they steal from others a lot (they usually learn to outgrow it)

- venus ruled people love to take other peoples partners

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Take advantage of Venus and Jupiter hours for love and matters of luck. Observe where transit Jupiter and Venus are in your chart and act accordingly.

Aries Moons have such a double-edged sword to their being. On one hand, they are vibrant, energetic people. On the other, they can ruthlessly explode on those around them. They seem to enjoy fighting with people.

People with Juno trine/sextile Venus are simply destined to marry well. I’ve seen this manifest as a trophy wife placement many times, yet, you marry for love. It’s a win-win placement unless Venus is severely restricted (i.e. Saturn squaring Venus). The peak expression of this is Taurus Venus sextile Pisces Juno — that’s marrying into royalty if you’re into that.

Your progression-to-natal planets matter more than day-to-day transits to natal planets. I like to think of progressions as the major bookends of our lives, while transits are more like chapters. Progressions can last longer and pack a much bigger punch.

I lived through progressed Venus square Saturn and transit Saturn square Venus. Progressed Venus square Saturn was absolutely brutal for self-esteem, relationships, and money. Truly one of the worst transits to live through.

8H Venus is a sugar baby placement. Depending on what else is aspecting Venus, you may easily attract money and provisions. This works especially well for women. 8H Jupiter attracts wealth easily. It’s only a matter of timing and transits. At some point, you will receive unexpected funds — inheritance, stocks, insurance payouts. I’ve even seen this manifest as lottery winnings.

The best combination for love, in my opinion, is Sun trine Sun with Venus trine Venus. This creates an ease and flow in the relationship that’s unmatched. Venus conjunct Mars in synastry is absolutely wild energy. By far the most intense chemistry and attraction you’ll ever experience — but it can make you feel uncomfortable and unable to fully relax.

For me, it felt like this person pulled me entirely into my feminine energy. As someone with heavy Mars energy, this felt alien to me. Like my voice and strength were completely muted. I would find myself near this person feeling like Ariel when her voice was taken — speaking in the most timid, giggly, girly voice while internally thinking “WTF is this? Speak up!”

The most successful year I’ve ever had financially was when Jupiter was transiting my 2H. Bonus points if Jupiter connects to Uranus or Venus — that’s when sudden windfalls happen.

Uranus in the 1H is the true trendsetter and visionary. Their life experience is entirely their own and because of that, they stand apart from the crowd 100% of the time — even when they want to fit in. Something about the way these people look, act, speak, or operate in the world is inimitable. Radically unique. Occasionally uncomfortable for the native. People who are ahead of their time.

The most intelligent Mercury sign, in my opinion, is Aquarius, which makes sense since Uranus is the higher octave of Mercury. This placement often shows extreme aptitude in math, science, and humanitarian causes. Very serious and structured mindset, but an impressive grasp of chosen subjects. Engineering and economics seem to be common fields of interest.

Sagittarius Mercury is so underrated and really depends on house placement. People forget that Sagittarius rules over higher learning. All the Sag Mercury folks I’ve ever known have been innately curious, intelligent, and wise — often with multiple degrees or at least the capacity to earn them. I highly suggest Sag Mercury natives pursue higher education or advanced studies.

The most notable placement for a writer is Venus conjunct Mercury. I’ve seen this time and again — Franz Kafka had that exact conjunction.

People with Jupiter–MC aspects will be successful in life, especially the conjunction. Trines and sextiles open the door of opportunity; conjunctions guarantee it.

Taurus IC people likely grew up in a comfortable home, with later degrees indicating substantial comfort or even nepotism. A strong foundation for life.

I’ve observed a trend that Juno retrograde can point to later marriage or none at all. These folks are hard to pin down for one reason or another. Outwardly, they may prefer to be in a committed marriage, yet something blocks them. I think the universe wants them to focus on becoming a truly good, selfless partner first.

Later degree Venus people seem to really grasp the concept of relationships. They inherently know how to make the most of any connection — platonic or romantic. Love comes easily for them, especially if the two respective Venus placements are in trine.

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-venus in aquarius has a harder time letting go of friendships than ex's

-if you have heavy Saturn in your chart, you tend to attract a lot of Capricorns. Even if it’s only with your personal placements having aspects to Saturn. There’s a possibility that you can have a very stoic personality which attracts Capricorns. The balance of seriousness and “unseriousness” is difficult to pull off. However, Saturn influenced people portray this balance with ease.

-ceres in aries people have rather aggressive experiences with their mother or motherly figures (grandmother, women caregiver) and are similer to people who have Lilith in aries

-7th house stelliums really need to separate their lust from love. they find someone they crush on and start planning their life with that person

-aries have impulsive rebranding moments all the time. they are always going MIA on social media and comeback out of nowhere. as if it's a way to retreat to themselves

-ceres in cancer seems to be extremely feminine, they enjoy things like flowers in their home and are close with their mom

-people with their sun at the 16 degree play victim alot. especially when someone is pointing out a character flaw, they will deflect and play victim

-people with their sun at the 20 degree strongly believe in revenge, very vindictive people, they have a hard time letting something go if someone did them wrong without having anything happen to that person

-taurus north node has to learn how to control their emotions and not take everything so personally, they need to embrace things for what they are

-mercury in sag tend to not think before they speak. they are actually not the biggest thinkers and are very outspoken

-with mercury at the 26 degree, it makes someone very stubborn in their belief and actually they have a hard time believing people and what they say

-mars in aries people are very hands on people, they tend to push people when they laugh or have no problem hugging people, they are very physical

-12 degree moon person is very emotionally unstable, of course if underdeveloped, they do silent treatments, they cry ALOT, and are prone to outburst

-sun at the 12 degree are prone to heavy usage of substance, which includes w33d, especially after a long day

-aries stellium people are prone to lying all the time, since everything is in the moment for them, they tend to be quick with decisions and response, even if its not believable

-when it comes to sister signs, you either get along with people that have your sister sign or have a very difficult time getting along with them. there is no in between. with that being said, geminis adore sagittarius but the feeling is not mutual lol

-ceres in capricorn are very distant and seem cold, also probably had a controlling mother and did everything to be on their mom's good side. even if that means agreeing with absolutely everything.

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Venus conjuct Lilith

Doomed? Hmm I will prefer the term difficult.

Lilith is the shadow and Venus the love and sensuality. Here, if the man is Lilith he will feel ashamed or scared what that Venus produces on him. Of course check other placements, to see your real dynamic. However, with my observations Lilith as the man is rigid and jugdy. If other placements don't help the connection, it can become like a "guilty pleasure" or "the other".

It's like they want you for their pleasure and their necessity not more.

The conjuction is easier, and it helps to form a bond. The man should become aware of their possessiveness.

Nonetheless, if he accept that and search beyond that sexual need, great! So, my advice with this placement, don't have sex during the first dates if you want a relationship. Test his limits and real intentions with you.

Today I want to talk a little bit about the collective astrology events going on in the sky. The topic is romance, but this message is about healing, so it will not apply for everyone.

As some of you might know, currently venus is on a healing journey for a moment and I want to talk about a few healing opportunities/lessons it's providing this time. So I'll try to explain, what they are and who it is for.

First one I want to mention is to let go of giving and not receiving. This time one of the topics is, when you keep chasing after someone, you keep giving chances, taking actions towards someone. Where you struggle to accept they've moved on or that they didn't choose you or you have to give 100% for 15 times just to get once breadcrumbed. Of course, you may get more, maybe it is a fling or a fwb situation. But the point is that you give but you are not receiving. For some this time might trigger you, it might make you want to start a scene, create drama, create conflict, just to get a reaction from them. In truth, you wish that would make them realize they love you and make them fight for you. During this cycle, you are asked to stop and let go of that behaviour. "Why?", you ask. Because love is all about equal give and take, give and receive. Sometimes if you are more of a fighter spirit, it can be difficult to accept that nothing is happening and you might feel like you always need to be the one doing, chasing, taking action towards them, etc. For some of you, this could have to do with self-interest. You like them, but it's more about winning, for example.

Another topic absolutely is forgiveness. To forgive yourself. No more guilt, regrets, second guessing and what ifs. Now is the time to work on forgiveness. First, forgiving yourself and your past and after that forgiveness in general. This is a great opportunity to release and let flow.

By the way, this cycle can make people crave for their ex. Just saying. But remember, if you overdid, overtried, always created opportunities for them and they just dusted it off or showed you they are with someone else, this is about releasing. Because in this case, it should be them swimming back to you, getting on the shore and coming for you, if you catch my drift. Very important to be honest with yourself. And this is really a time to let go of old baggage. Be mindful, you could be especially dealing with other people's baggage and you might not have even realized it.

I hope it helps and if you have any questions or stories you wish to share, etc, my askbox is open or you can leave a comment. ✉️🎲⭐

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It's really been angering me that whenever someone posts about this placement, all they say is "they're incredibly controlling" WITHOUT going into detail on what specifically this placement wants to control. And majority of the time, they're talking from their experience with like one person with this placement and just assumed that Pluto in their 1st house was what caused them to be controlling in the relationship. So ya, I'll be going into the SPECIFICS in this post

What is the 1st House? Physicality, others perception of you, your outlook on life, your appearance, early years of life

What is Pluto? Originality, creativity, passion, rash decisions, ambition, innovation, productivity, subconscious forces, transformation and renewal, destruction

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Control Over Perception: Those with this placement often want to control others' perceptions OF THEM. Often times how they go about this is they hide their true personality, in favor for a front personality in order to protect themselves. Of course, their front personality is NOT much different to their true personality, but they still exhibit traits to strangers that they never would to people close to them [ for example, to the general public they're seen as "shy, innocent, naive" but in reality, they're "outgoing, loud, and funny"]. People with this placement are often scared of judgement, and this fear isn't so baseless, in fact, they are often judged. This placement simply doesn't want to be perceived, lmao. If people with this placement feel judged, no matter how close they are to the person, they WILL withdraw, and that person will ONLY see their 'front' personality [for example, the person begins showing their "outgoing, loud, and funny" personality to a new friend, but it's like their new friend has already cemented that they are "shy, innocent, and naive". The person can't even curse without their new friend saying, "wow if never expected y/n would do that!!". The person begins to get exasperated with their new friend's endless judgement of them, so they only show them what they want to see now, their "innocent side"]. This placement views their true personality as a privilege to see. They're also able to use others' perceptions of them to their advantage too [for example, their family members think of them as a "shy, introverted, alone-time maniac" so after a few minutes at a party one of their aunts asks them if the party is boring. The person doesn't actually find the party boring, but they simply want to continue reading their book upstairs, so they agree with their aunt, and they're permitted to go upstairs without any consequences]. Lmao, I hope this made sense. Many believe Pluto in the 1st house simply want to control OTHERS but, no, if we get specific it's simply others perception OF THEM [1st house]. Unfortunately, because they feel as if they have two different personalities, people with this placement have a hard time differentiating between others' perceptions of them, and who they actually are. They get caught up in what others think of them, and often get offended easily when they hear other judgements of them, it's as if they can't help it. They often face rejection from others, especially at an early age, which contributes to their fear of perception.

Early Years of Life: Faced very painful and transformational experiences in their early life. This placement often manifests as survival issues and life and death cycles in an individuals life. You may have been outcasted from school mates, abused at home, had a hard family life, moved a lot, power struggles etc. [try looking at your Chiron placement]. Whatever it was, it had a strong impact on who you are. However, because of it, you've developed a strong sense of pride from coming out of it. It gave you unrivaled personal strength and power.

Appearance: People with this placement can't even go five months without changing their aesthetic. They derive so much pleasure from changing their style/appearance up. They often face periods of physical transformation as well, so how their body looked a year ago is completely different to the now. People from the past who they reunite with may even find them unrecognizable. They have amazing style and a magnetic personality. Their aura is very intense and often they may scare people away with their eyes. People can't keep eye contact with y'all, and you know it. people see you as powerful, intense, and mysterious, however people may also fear you. People either are obsessed with you or hate, it's very extreme. That's why people with this placement has a tendency to attract stalkers, so be careful.

Outlook on Life: You're either good at hiding your fear's and obsessions or they eventually come out. People with this placement may either fear or embrace change, but either way, they're incredibly good at adapting, no matter the situation. People with this placement often have a hard time trusting others however, but they still don't have a problem talking about their trauma [because as i said before, they take true pride in it]. Their incredibly observant, and often watch people reactions to everything.

I hope you liked this! I also have this placement and I truly hate the interpretations out there. It's as if people don't f*cking know house meanings or something. Lmao, I find his so hilarious but the scaring people with eye contact is so true, like I rarely ever find people who can hold eye contact with me TT. Anyways bye!

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