wizard boi

Reminder: i love you.

🍼 Crying is completely okay! It’s a normal response to stress.

🌊 Don’t bottle everything up! Talk to someone, love.

🍼 You matter more than you think! Trust me, that message is stuffie approved.

🌊 Your regression is 500% valid!

🍼 Your are so so loveable. You mean the world to lots of people!

🌊 You are your own worst critic. Sometimes, your brain can be against you. Don’t listen to it!

🍼 You are so beautiful. I know it doesn’t feel like it at times, but you are very very lovely.

🌊 Your stuffies love you so much. Hug them when you’re sad! They try to help as best as they can.

and after i was abused by my mom, i couldn’t read certain books because they were my go to books to distract me when she was having an episode. Every time I’d read them I’d think of that time.

certain things are going to stick with you and remind you of trauma besides the trauma itself because you didn’t experience that trauma in a soundless black void. there were things you probably focused on to get through that experience: something on the wall, a smell, a sound…and those will trigger memories.

I’m extremely disabled. I will probably never be able to transition in any capacity. I am dependent on my bigoted family and on a bigoted medical system to survive. HRT could hurt my body very badly and I cannot bind because of chronic chest pain. I cannot have top surgery for those same reasons.

There’s so much more to being a man, woman, non-binary than how you can present yourself. And a lot of us are trying desperately to come to terms with that. With the idea of being closeted forever or just straight up trying to navigate our own identies among other trans people more privileged than us.

👏 HUGE HUGE HUGE AGREE 👏