fit for pearls

Not to be dramatic or anything but as a lesbian what saved my life was realizing that attraction is supposed to feel good

If your attraction to men makes you viscerally uncomfortable, distressed, and feels like a fulfillment of a default obligation rather than something that produces good and exciting feelings, perhaps it isn’t attraction

This needs to be read by lesbians, bisexual and straight women. Attraction is supposed to be a good thing. Don’t ever force yourself to be with a man you don’t like and doesn’t respect you.

I tried to check whether OP was a terf, but their blog is deactivated, so make of this what you will.

biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship

Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all. 

^^^^^^^^^^^^ the fact that some people don’t get this is staggering.

on my way to steal your garden veggies 

Dylan just failed a morality test literally designed for 4-year-olds

“you’re so sweet!” thank you i have abandonment issues