Ok, going into option 1, I will also say not to count out option 2 & 3 anyway. These are the sort of pans that *actually* lasted people's parents and grandparents lifetimes.
When I say they need an amount of "work" and "skill", realistically it's closer to the amount of "work" it takes to take a trash bag out, and the amount of "skill" needed to make a coffee in the morning.
AND they tend to perform BETTER as the years go by as the surfaces get polished by cooking.
Don't worry about the coil electric thing, it's less about tuning the temperature and more about knowing *when* it's the right temp to put food on. I've done stainless on those plate electric ones which are even *worse* to dial temperatures on.
Option 1 is considered to be the most convenient... by people who use them up and shell out to just buy another when the non-stick fades😅
Truth is that to KEEP option 1 long term you have to be the sort of folks who will be strictly delicate with them, never using metal implements and NOT STACK THE DAMN THINGS. (This is why you can't have them in a communal kitchen.)
Keep them out of the dishwasher even if they say they can go in. Dishwasher powder is *hardcore* stuff that will eat down the polymers in all coatings.
They can't be used in the oven at full blast (if oven safe to begin with, with a metal handle) since most coatings are rated to ~430F, higher and they start to flake.
As soon as you see a scratch or flake on the surface, that means you're getting microscopic bits of the material in your food. No matter which coating you have that's... not ideal.
And no matter what, they ARE gonna degrade. It's truly unavoidable, your last one lasting 8 years is pretty typical for folks being careful with them.
Plus side is of course they're very non-sticking without any skill or setup required, which comes in handy for said clean up. I have one non-stick aluminium saucepan that ends up being used instead of the rice cooker most of the time. (Also a reminder to not wash raw rice in anything non-stick! Not even IN a rice cooker, it will scrape that coating off)
If aluminium, look for hard anodized. Despite how it's marketed, it does NOT mean it will be more scratch resistant, it just means the rough anodized layer holds the non-stick on better so less likely to flake. (Even more than the "ceramic")
Also I recommend get "induction ready" aluminium ones, even if you don't have induction. The steel plate they use to absorb the induction also has the benefit to reduce warping.
If steel, the "ceramic coated" ones (like the Gotham Steels you have) can be a bit better with regard to being in the oven. If rated for full 500F or high it can be used at your ovens max.
Note that "ceramic coated" is in quotes for a reason. It's actually closer to some ceramic & metal oxide powders baked onto a layer glued together with a binder. While they can say they avoid all the Chemicals that other non-stick use, the binders are proprietary and thus not disclosed what they are or what health effects they have 👀
Avoid "ceramic coated" aluminum ones, since the coating they use there are less temp resistant since the aluminium can't go hot enough for the coating on the steel ones without starting to melt. Basically regular non-stick in a trenchcoat. Steel ones not rated for 500F are probably also using this cheaper coating.
If getting something with a lid, if the lid has a metal rim it will degrade the rim of the pan where it rubs. This is out of the way of the cooking surface, so it's not a big deal. If you get a silicone rimmed lid however it won't damage that, but you can't really put that lid in the oven. Pick your preference.
Steel non-stick vs Aluminum non-stick pans: Steel holds heat better->Good for browning. Aluminium conducts heat better->Good for even cooking. Both will work though.
All in all, I don't *really* recommend a non-stick for anything other than a saucepan. They are a modern "consumable product" that are designed to eventually need replacement. But I can't deny they work well, if only for a while.
Let me know if you want info on other options.