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everyone eat more vegetables NOW!!! and mention the last vegetable you ate in the tags so we're all on the buddy system. I'll start: bok choy
anon hate asks are really funny in a passive aggressive way honestly like, oh i'm supposed to take your negativity seriously when you are too cowardly to even attach a pseudonym
calling for people to be assaulted in any way shape or form almost immediately puts you in the wrong, by the way. i’m willing to bet you’re around my age, but far more terminally online. The community THAT CAME BEFORE YOU built the terminology you use today. if you don’t like some of it, that’s fine, but don’t attack others for using what they’re comfortable with. queer isn’t a slur and hasn’t been for a long, long time.
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Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
You are who this post is about.
"We" are the queer community. If you're not part of us, then get off my post.
If someone "busts my lip" for saying "I'm queer", that person is a fucking bigot, and I want nothing to do with them.
you can call yourself whatever you want of course, but reclamation of a pejorative that refers to a group, by that group, isn't a clean process or sudden linguistic event and CERTAINLY not primarily driven by academic usage -- if someone busts *your* lip for saying "you're queer" then actually you would be the one out of line in that scenario
Gay and lesbian were also pejoratives. Every single word we have to describe ourselves was once a slur. So if you're fine with gay and lesbian but not queer, that is, in fact, a YOU problem.
Stop giving power back to the bigots by treating like "queer" is the fucking bogeyman.
And I wouldn't walk up to a random stranger and call them a queer any more than I would randomly call them a lesbian or gay. That's such a weird fucking thing to do.
I might ask "Are you queer too"? but to be frank, if I am in a crowd where someone might punch me for asking if they are queer, I'm in a crowd of bigots.
i wonder if language shifts and changes over time and the associations attached to specific words drift in an inconsistent fashion anyway all of that to say; hey have you considered if someone's not comfortable being called 'queer', insisting that you get to use it to refer to them anyway might mean you're the one that's out of touch?
The language shifted in the 1980's. That's when we (the queer community) reclaimed it.
We (queers) will NOT let you or anyone else "shift" it back into a slur. Because that's what you're trying to do here. You want to to be a slur. You want people to stop using it.
But we will not.
In the early 2010's TERFs online tried to convince a bunch of young folks than queer was actually a naughty bad word because it included icky people like trans folks. So it's possible you or people you were around were influenced by that anti-queer rhetoric.
But outside, everyone else says queer. If you try looking up "LGBT" history or academics or communities you're going to find the word queer everywhere. It is our word.
YOU are literally the out-of-touch one here.
If you're not comfortable being called queer you don't have to be part of the queer community. I'm not forcing you to join us. I AM asking you to stop treating queer as slur.
I am asking you to stop giving power to bigots.
You are causing harm. Stop it.
oh fantastic i've been excommunicated from the 'community' for linguistic heterodoxy (slur discourse where it seems i am somehow causing harm by NOT using a word)
You’re the one saying you don’t want to be called queer. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t be part of the queer community while simultaneously acting like our name is a bad word we’re not allowed to use.
And yes, refusing to use a word we specifically reclaimed to give ourselves power over our oppressors IS harm.
Again, you don’t have to use queer to describe yourself. But insisting that the ENTIRE queer community and all of queer academia is “out of touch” is ridiculous, and I hope you realize that.
lucky for me my notion of community is a little deeper than requiring a specific word to refer to it!
you keep saying "we" reclaimed it, how old were you in the 1980s? i wasn't even born until the latter half so i sure wasn't consulted, and by the 2010s i don't think i counted as a 'young queer' to be manipulated by some TERF online; where the fuck do you think i'm coming from here? *YOU* reclaimed a slur so *I* have to like it?
I was born in 1984. And it’s not about you, personally, being “consulted”, because you’re not the boss of the queers. It’s about what the community did as a whole to reclaim a word that was being used against folks like us as a slur, to take the power of that word away from bigots.
And you want to give them that power back.
And that is harmful.
"the community" is not a monolith and you aren't as much of an authority as you act like you are, good luck with all that tho
Ok, so you’re not queer. And you’re not part of the queer community. Got it. Because again, you can’t have it both ways. You can’t be part of us AND hate the name we call ourselves.
The next time you see a post by a queer person talking about taking pride in the word queer, and belonging to the queer community, my recommendation is to scroll on by. No one wants to hear you whining about how much you hate us.
And for the record, it’s pretty fucking gross how you basically said I deserve to be assaulted for being openly queer in public. So fuck you.
not only are you condescending and argumentative, you're illiterate; i actually said you deserve to be assaulted for using slurs against people who disagree with you that they've been reclaimed
There's no age limit on being manipulated, falling prey to bigotry, or holding onto harmful and exclusionary beliefs.
gee i wonder if i was unconsciously indoctrinated somehow or if i've developed my own personal thoughts and opinions through a lifetime of experiences
Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
You are who this post is about.
"We" are the queer community. If you're not part of us, then get off my post.
If someone "busts my lip" for saying "I'm queer", that person is a fucking bigot, and I want nothing to do with them.
you can call yourself whatever you want of course, but reclamation of a pejorative that refers to a group, by that group, isn't a clean process or sudden linguistic event and CERTAINLY not primarily driven by academic usage -- if someone busts *your* lip for saying "you're queer" then actually you would be the one out of line in that scenario
Gay and lesbian were also pejoratives. Every single word we have to describe ourselves was once a slur. So if you're fine with gay and lesbian but not queer, that is, in fact, a YOU problem.
Stop giving power back to the bigots by treating like "queer" is the fucking bogeyman.
And I wouldn't walk up to a random stranger and call them a queer any more than I would randomly call them a lesbian or gay. That's such a weird fucking thing to do.
I might ask "Are you queer too"? but to be frank, if I am in a crowd where someone might punch me for asking if they are queer, I'm in a crowd of bigots.
i wonder if language shifts and changes over time and the associations attached to specific words drift in an inconsistent fashion anyway all of that to say; hey have you considered if someone's not comfortable being called 'queer', insisting that you get to use it to refer to them anyway might mean you're the one that's out of touch?
The language shifted in the 1980's. That's when we (the queer community) reclaimed it.
We (queers) will NOT let you or anyone else "shift" it back into a slur. Because that's what you're trying to do here. You want to to be a slur. You want people to stop using it.
But we will not.
In the early 2010's TERFs online tried to convince a bunch of young folks than queer was actually a naughty bad word because it included icky people like trans folks. So it's possible you or people you were around were influenced by that anti-queer rhetoric.
But outside, everyone else says queer. If you try looking up "LGBT" history or academics or communities you're going to find the word queer everywhere. It is our word.
YOU are literally the out-of-touch one here.
If you're not comfortable being called queer you don't have to be part of the queer community. I'm not forcing you to join us. I AM asking you to stop treating queer as slur.
I am asking you to stop giving power to bigots.
You are causing harm. Stop it.
oh fantastic i've been excommunicated from the 'community' for linguistic heterodoxy (slur discourse where it seems i am somehow causing harm by NOT using a word)
You’re the one saying you don’t want to be called queer. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t be part of the queer community while simultaneously acting like our name is a bad word we’re not allowed to use.
And yes, refusing to use a word we specifically reclaimed to give ourselves power over our oppressors IS harm.
Again, you don’t have to use queer to describe yourself. But insisting that the ENTIRE queer community and all of queer academia is “out of touch” is ridiculous, and I hope you realize that.
lucky for me my notion of community is a little deeper than requiring a specific word to refer to it!
you keep saying "we" reclaimed it, how old were you in the 1980s? i wasn't even born until the latter half so i sure wasn't consulted, and by the 2010s i don't think i counted as a 'young queer' to be manipulated by some TERF online; where the fuck do you think i'm coming from here? *YOU* reclaimed a slur so *I* have to like it?
I was born in 1984. And it’s not about you, personally, being “consulted”, because you’re not the boss of the queers. It’s about what the community did as a whole to reclaim a word that was being used against folks like us as a slur, to take the power of that word away from bigots.
And you want to give them that power back.
And that is harmful.
"the community" is not a monolith and you aren't as much of an authority as you act like you are, good luck with all that tho

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I am queer and you’re denying my identity. Reported and blocked.
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Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
You are who this post is about.
"We" are the queer community. If you're not part of us, then get off my post.
If someone "busts my lip" for saying "I'm queer", that person is a fucking bigot, and I want nothing to do with them.
you can call yourself whatever you want of course, but reclamation of a pejorative that refers to a group, by that group, isn't a clean process or sudden linguistic event and CERTAINLY not primarily driven by academic usage -- if someone busts *your* lip for saying "you're queer" then actually you would be the one out of line in that scenario
Gay and lesbian were also pejoratives. Every single word we have to describe ourselves was once a slur. So if you're fine with gay and lesbian but not queer, that is, in fact, a YOU problem.
Stop giving power back to the bigots by treating like "queer" is the fucking bogeyman.
And I wouldn't walk up to a random stranger and call them a queer any more than I would randomly call them a lesbian or gay. That's such a weird fucking thing to do.
I might ask "Are you queer too"? but to be frank, if I am in a crowd where someone might punch me for asking if they are queer, I'm in a crowd of bigots.
i wonder if language shifts and changes over time and the associations attached to specific words drift in an inconsistent fashion anyway all of that to say; hey have you considered if someone's not comfortable being called 'queer', insisting that you get to use it to refer to them anyway might mean you're the one that's out of touch?
The language shifted in the 1980's. That's when we (the queer community) reclaimed it.
We (queers) will NOT let you or anyone else "shift" it back into a slur. Because that's what you're trying to do here. You want to to be a slur. You want people to stop using it.
But we will not.
In the early 2010's TERFs online tried to convince a bunch of young folks than queer was actually a naughty bad word because it included icky people like trans folks. So it's possible you or people you were around were influenced by that anti-queer rhetoric.
But outside, everyone else says queer. If you try looking up "LGBT" history or academics or communities you're going to find the word queer everywhere. It is our word.
YOU are literally the out-of-touch one here.
If you're not comfortable being called queer you don't have to be part of the queer community. I'm not forcing you to join us. I AM asking you to stop treating queer as slur.
I am asking you to stop giving power to bigots.
You are causing harm. Stop it.
oh fantastic i've been excommunicated from the 'community' for linguistic heterodoxy (slur discourse where it seems i am somehow causing harm by NOT using a word)
You’re the one saying you don’t want to be called queer. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t be part of the queer community while simultaneously acting like our name is a bad word we’re not allowed to use.
And yes, refusing to use a word we specifically reclaimed to give ourselves power over our oppressors IS harm.
Again, you don’t have to use queer to describe yourself. But insisting that the ENTIRE queer community and all of queer academia is “out of touch” is ridiculous, and I hope you realize that.
lucky for me my notion of community is a little deeper than requiring a specific word to refer to it!
you keep saying "we" reclaimed it, how old were you in the 1980s? i wasn't even born until the latter half so i sure wasn't consulted, and by the 2010s i don't think i counted as a 'young queer' to be manipulated by some TERF online; where the fuck do you think i'm coming from here? *YOU* reclaimed a slur so *I* have to like it?
Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
You are who this post is about.
"We" are the queer community. If you're not part of us, then get off my post.
If someone "busts my lip" for saying "I'm queer", that person is a fucking bigot, and I want nothing to do with them.
you can call yourself whatever you want of course, but reclamation of a pejorative that refers to a group, by that group, isn't a clean process or sudden linguistic event and CERTAINLY not primarily driven by academic usage -- if someone busts *your* lip for saying "you're queer" then actually you would be the one out of line in that scenario
Gay and lesbian were also pejoratives. Every single word we have to describe ourselves was once a slur. So if you're fine with gay and lesbian but not queer, that is, in fact, a YOU problem.
Stop giving power back to the bigots by treating like "queer" is the fucking bogeyman.
And I wouldn't walk up to a random stranger and call them a queer any more than I would randomly call them a lesbian or gay. That's such a weird fucking thing to do.
I might ask "Are you queer too"? but to be frank, if I am in a crowd where someone might punch me for asking if they are queer, I'm in a crowd of bigots.
i wonder if language shifts and changes over time and the associations attached to specific words drift in an inconsistent fashion anyway all of that to say; hey have you considered if someone's not comfortable being called 'queer', insisting that you get to use it to refer to them anyway might mean you're the one that's out of touch?
The language shifted in the 1980's. That's when we (the queer community) reclaimed it.
We (queers) will NOT let you or anyone else "shift" it back into a slur. Because that's what you're trying to do here. You want to to be a slur. You want people to stop using it.
But we will not.
In the early 2010's TERFs online tried to convince a bunch of young folks than queer was actually a naughty bad word because it included icky people like trans folks. So it's possible you or people you were around were influenced by that anti-queer rhetoric.
But outside, everyone else says queer. If you try looking up "LGBT" history or academics or communities you're going to find the word queer everywhere. It is our word.
YOU are literally the out-of-touch one here.
If you're not comfortable being called queer you don't have to be part of the queer community. I'm not forcing you to join us. I AM asking you to stop treating queer as slur.
I am asking you to stop giving power to bigots.
You are causing harm. Stop it.
oh fantastic i've been excommunicated from the 'community' for linguistic heterodoxy (slur discourse where it seems i am somehow causing harm by NOT using a word)
Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
You are who this post is about.
"We" are the queer community. If you're not part of us, then get off my post.
If someone "busts my lip" for saying "I'm queer", that person is a fucking bigot, and I want nothing to do with them.
you can call yourself whatever you want of course, but reclamation of a pejorative that refers to a group, by that group, isn't a clean process or sudden linguistic event and CERTAINLY not primarily driven by academic usage -- if someone busts *your* lip for saying "you're queer" then actually you would be the one out of line in that scenario
Gay and lesbian were also pejoratives. Every single word we have to describe ourselves was once a slur. So if you're fine with gay and lesbian but not queer, that is, in fact, a YOU problem.
Stop giving power back to the bigots by treating like "queer" is the fucking bogeyman.
And I wouldn't walk up to a random stranger and call them a queer any more than I would randomly call them a lesbian or gay. That's such a weird fucking thing to do.
I might ask "Are you queer too"? but to be frank, if I am in a crowd where someone might punch me for asking if they are queer, I'm in a crowd of bigots.
i wonder if language shifts and changes over time and the associations attached to specific words drift in an inconsistent fashion anyway all of that to say; hey have you considered if someone's not comfortable being called 'queer', insisting that you get to use it to refer to them anyway might mean you're the one that's out of touch?
Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
You are who this post is about.
"We" are the queer community. If you're not part of us, then get off my post.
If someone "busts my lip" for saying "I'm queer", that person is a fucking bigot, and I want nothing to do with them.
you can call yourself whatever you want of course, but reclamation of a pejorative that refers to a group, by that group, isn't a clean process or sudden linguistic event and CERTAINLY not primarily driven by academic usage -- if someone busts *your* lip for saying "you're queer" then actually you would be the one out of line in that scenario

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Rent-lowering gunshots:
QUEER IS NOT A SLUR
We reclaimed it way back in the 1980's. It is the accepted term used in academia, in colleges and universities ALL OVER THE PLACE.
I can't believe we have to have this discussion AGAIN. During PRIDE month.
who's 'we'? if you use the word queer as an academic in an academic setting that's one thing, yes it's the most appropriate word much of the time but if you start slinging it around in casual conversation in the wrong company you're liable to get a busted lip or worse; whatever consensus was reached at colleges and universities didn't stop it still getting used as, and taken as, a pejorative out in the real world
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