Stormy

I'm pretty sure the only reason there is a community of transfems who are on this hate train against trans men is because they're insecure that every single trans man is probably going to have more experience with misogyny than they do.

I'm not trying to be rude with this one, I genuinely think that may be part of it. They spit and hiss at us like we're oppressors, which always gets a violent reaction because WE HAVE ALWAYS been oppressed. Every single one of us since birth, INHERENTLY, regardless of class or race or culture of whatever.

And somehow they feel like that invalidates their oppression??? Even though no one said it did.

Black men and black women are both oppressed for being black.

But black women have a different experience from black men when it comes to the type of oppression they face, although there are consistent similarities.

Black women are oppressed for being black WOMEN, as well as BLACK women.

But black men are also oppressed for being black MEN, as well as BLACK men.

You with me? You keeping up? 👋🏽

Now

Trans men and trans women are both oppressed for being TRANS.

But TRANS women have a different experience from TRANS men when it comes to the type of oppression they face, although there are consistent similarities.

trans women are oppressed for being trans WOMEN, as well as TRANS women.

But trans men are also oppressed for being trans MEN, as well as TRANS men.

There is no "debate" whether transandrophobia exists. It does. Because that word is assigned to a real phenomenon with concrete evidence. This was never a discussion.

Because denying it not only makes you factually incorrect, but also reveals you're just a straight up fucking hater imo.

None of you ever come at this, again, "debate" with ANY real argument, because all you're here to do is erase a part of your community in order to feel like YOUR oppression is the MOST MOST oppressing. And only YOU can have your own SPECIAL type of oppression.

Like this is a god damn game.

Instead of getting pissed at trans masculine people for putting a word to a phenomenon with sufficient evidence and absolutely no reason for any doubt if you have the most miniscule knowledge of how gender plays a part in society,

maybe you should turn your phone off and think for a second about why you feel so threatened by someone else speaking about their own experiences, where there is objectively a problem. Experiences, very similar to yours, both as a trans person and, likely, as a femme person.

Why can't they express it? Why can't they have a label for it to make it easier to find community? Why is that a problem for you?

Because... "it's a man"? And YOU feel like men can't be oppressed (privileged ass take lmao), therefore, they're stepping out of line.

Right.

Well, before you go online and decide to hurl death threats at your closest community because of the crime they committed of being masculine, maybe check your fucking ego and realize you are perpetuating the same harmful behavior that you have likely benefited from your whole life, and they have likely been victimized by their whole lives.

But no, you've reskinned it. Now you're the epic girlboss taking down the oppressive evil men by telling trans people to kill themselves.