Oh look there goes my sanity

Hey guys! Hope everyone has had a good Christmas/Holidays so far and that things are looking good going into New year’s!

I got a new tablet for Christmas so thought now would be a good time to do an icon giveaway!

The winner will get an icon of their choice similar to the examples shown. To enter you just have to like and reblog this post, a follow would be appreciated and means you’ll see more of my art in the future if you like it, and you’ll see any more giveaways I do in the future!

The giveaway ends Jan 1st 9PM GMT so enter now if you want a chance to win a new icon for the New year!

And if you can’t wait that long or don’t want to leave things up to chances, my commissions are currently open, so if you wanted to get an icon for yourself or a friend, or something else entirely, check out my commission info or send me a message here or on twitter!

Here it is: Best stuff first

Extremely handy if you follow a lot of people and hate missing anything good. 

Best Stuff First moves the best stuff on your dashboard—mhm!—right up to the top. 

It’s rolling out this week on iOS and Android, and comes with this Help Center article.  

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You know how to stop being scared of relationships? Remember that it’s got a goddamn buddy system *built in*. That’s all a relationship IS: “Let’s approach life with the buddy system.”

Check on your buddy. Make sure your buddy doesn’t forget their lunch box on the schoolbus. Hold hands with your buddy so you don’t get lost. If your buddy wants to look at the monkey cage, look at the goddamn monkey cage with them. If you are the one looking at the monkey cage, ask your buddy what they want to do next, and when they want to feed the giraffe, help them find a quarter for the little food dispenser. Be a good buddy, and if your buddy isn’t a good one too, tell the teacher and ask for a new one.

Since I’m pre-t I still have my period but since I’m socially out as trans I use men’s bathrooms. One time at the college the family bathroom was taken and so I went into the men’s room to do my business. I tried opening the little pad as quietly as I could manage, but the rustling and ripping sound still happened. I froze in silence because I didn’t know if the other guy in the men’s room heard it or not.

Then after a little bit of silence I hear…

“Who has a bag of chips?”

And in a panic I just whisper back to him “I’m not sharing.”

they are not. suicidal thoughts arent normal. violent impulses arent normal. delusions and hallucinations arent normal.