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So due to the setback near the start of the year with our van breaking down we have been playing catch up since, especially as we had a lot of health scares at the same time, but we now after a lot of emotionally & mentally draining conversations have come up with our summer plan, aka our next big attempt to try to get settled somewhere & housed again (so we can have better work & school opportunities & fix our health up, physical & mental).
We have identified a very good location for the steps we feel are the best to take, and while we have no guarantees, it feels like our best bet! Especially as spaces we could live in have been getting more and more hostile.
And to get this plan rolling, we need some help, as I mentioned we have been falling behind a lot, so a lot of needz have stacked up, but if we can clear them we can focus on fixing the underlying issues we have, so our needs are as follows:
Internet Bill: 445$
Remaining Storage Bill: 25$
Van Maintenance: 110$
Gas to the New Location: 60$
Living Requirements (I.E food, water, gas for day to day, etc necessites): On-Going, roughly 60 - 100 due to inflation, especially on gas & single serve food since we don't have room to store large packs of things, usually in donation posts I include this as a part of them, since we can't put bills above our lives, so we have to have enough for a few days before my mom is willing to use the money for things other than preserving our lives, in this case I am adding a base 310$ (to also help the total be a round number) which should cover roughly 3 to 6 days depending on needs, but remember that this is a need that's on-going
Literally anything helps, including shares! A lot of my immediate friends have already given what they can, so I need this to reach far, to compassionate people who are in a place to help!
ahhh so you're shown to be capable of recognising that people's trauma can make them act irrationally and unpleasantly! you recognised it in the white man! can you also recognise it in the brown woman? no? she's mean and bitchy and uncaring? i see
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repeat after me. humans are not inherently evil humans are not like a virus on this earth humans do not “deserve” to go extinct or anything like that. we are living breathing animals that deserve space just like every other creature on this planet. there’s just a tiny amount of us that have a fuck ton of money and power and they really suck
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the longer answer: multiple readings are of course possible blah blah but there's reasons that a CSA reading is very straightforward for most sidekicks. the genre conventions around sidekicks are such that this reading is necessarily there almost all of the time, even when the text isn't leaning into the relationship being dysfunctional (and they so often are at least a little dysfunctional - that's just good drama and an almost inevitable storytelling beat). mostly I'm talking about sidekicks of heroes here, but villain sidekicks are all very molested too obviously.
firstly: you have an adult with power over the child - typically one who is literally hero worshipped by the child - with a significant amount of unsupervised one-on-one access to them. this is simply one of the biggest risk factors for CSA. all adults hold power over children, but in the case of the sidekick this differential is exarcerbated by the fact that heroes are, definitionally, powerful people. in addition to their abilities and generally being highly regarded by their communities, heroes also tend to be either deputised and therefore law enforcement (typical of the silver age), acting outside the law/as a law unto themselves (typical of the modern era), or like, literally royalty of some kind (e.g. aquaman, wonder woman). there is no accountability mechanism for how they treat their sidekicks! if a sidekick wanted to speak out or seek help for a problem with their mentor, who do they have to go to? typically, no one. certainly no one who would take their side over the hero or have any way to enforce such a thing. this is a dynamic where abuse is almost inevitable.
secondly: again by necessity of the genre conventions, the hero is encouraging or at least allowing the sidekick to sacrifice having a normal childhood. particularly as comics head into the modern era, this is not just missing school activities for vigilante reasons, impacts to relationships with peers, or having poor sleep, but also a bodily sacrifice - the sidekick is at significant risk of physical harm by nature of being a sidekick fighting crimes.
this is of course necessary for them to have agency and be a figure that real life children can see as empowering, which is the point of a sidekick. but you end up with either the hero being blase and ignorant of this danger (which comes off as them not considering the child's safety to be important), or the text trying to acknowledge the danger and have the hero justify it. often this is written as the hero knowing there is significant risk, but that it's okay because the child wants it, or because they would just do it without the hero's help, or simply that the hero selfishly wants the company. the sidekick is mature and adult-like when convenient, and childlike and in need of guidance when that's convenient, and the story bends around the adult to justify all this. the needs of the story render the needs of the child unimportant. you don't have to work hard to translate these into justifications a perpetrator might have for CSA.
thirdly, sidekicks can fill similar narrative roles to love interests for the hero. direct parallels are often made in text between these characters. both love interests and sidekicks are, in many stories, ultimately props for the hero character. sidekicks are liable to be held hostage and threatened to get to the hero, prone to jealousy when the hero has a new love interest, and enmeshment is almost certainly present. again, these parallels make it easy to read the hero as having a romantic or sexual interest in the sidekick, too.
then there's the secret identity. not all sidekicks have one! but the ones who don't tend to be the ones where the hero has political power of some sort in a fantastical culture (e.g. Garth, Donna). again this is because of how the genre works - if the sidekick lives within mainstream US culture, it would obviously be a huge risk for their identity to be known. but, well, you then end up with an intense secret being kept between an adult and a child, typically with the adult convincing the child to keep it by telling them it would be dangerous for anyone else to know. and this secret shapes the child's identity and it concerns something illegal and no one else would understand... sounds very molested to me idk about you....
it can look slightly different depending on the hero/sidekick pair. if the sidekick lives with the hero then the secret may be shared with other household members (e.g. Alfred knowing about Batman and Robin) - this ends up looking like household incestuous abuse, where household members not directly involved nevertheless look the other way, or voice vague disapproval but never interfere. when they live seperately, this instead looks like the child lying to their parents and trusted adults in their life to maintain the secret. i am forever thinking about the time Wally, at behest of his aunt's boyfriend Barry, lies to his parents about going to see his friends so that he can instead go to a motel outside town to see Ralph Dibny, a man he has never met before, for vigilantism purposes. like!!! it is usually a very straightforward swap of 'vigilantism is a metaphor for sexual abuse' and then no further reading into it needs to be done to make it work. and the sidekick will typically be hiding their secret from their school peers, perhaps dwelling on how seperate and alienated from them it makes them feel, too.
none of this is even really getting deep into the way the hero and sidekick actually feel about each other, either! the sidekick is almost always very very intensely attached to the hero. the metatextual reason for this is that the hero is their literal reason to exist - few sidekicks can go off on their own and hold up a comic line on their lonesome. whether the hero feels equally intensely can vary, but the end result tends to be something that resembles either mutual codependency or trauma bonding.
in conclusion: the nature of the sidekick makes them eminently molestable. but you must not stop there! think about the specific hero/sidekick dynamic and the truths of how this sidekick is getting molested will be revealed to you. does the sidekick feel negatively about missing out on normal life? how do other people see them? does the hero feel any guilt over them, or not? dig into the relationship and they are all a little bit different. i like to hold them up to each other to compare and contrast. that's where the fun is! 🥰
final more serious note but i do not think it is a bad thing at all that the child empowerment fantasy genre can be so easily read with this lens. children who experience CSA are some of the children in most need of empowerment! and deserve to have characters to identify with who are nonetheless given agency and narrative weight. attempts to remove sidekicks from the genre or stressing over the optics is kind of missing the point to me. more sidekicks forever please and thank youu
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