my gender is "it feels radical and personal to love women as someone who has the same experiences and struggles in being attracted to women and dealing with societal and systematic oppression," and "but because of the way society is and how i exist outside of social expectations and norms, i feel fully removed from womanhood."

So in Minnesota there’s this cultural taboo about taking the last piece. If there’s a group and everyone orders pizza, typically one slice will not be eaten. At the office if someone brings donuts, the last donut will be left alone. Possibly cut in half. Then that half cut in half, but always leaving at least a little on the plate. The reason is it’s considered impolite because someone else might want it. To take the last piece is a desperate thing to do. There’s even an expression: “I wasn’t raised by wolves.” Anyway, here’s the best local facebook post going around right now.