You can call me Sleeps, I use Ze/Zhir/Zem pronouns.
My tumblr name is a lil joke with myself because Ive had issues with Chronic Fatigue my whole life and sleep between 14-17 hours on a good day.
Profile pic is a crochet tiger orb, pattern is by eniyee on youtube. I like making lots of crochet things and i post the pictures sometimes :)
I’m Queer, Polyamourous, and Genderfluid
I’m dating two very wonderful folk irl, a nonbinary he/they buddy bf, and a she/it puppygirl gf
I am disabled, a mobility aid user, with hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Fibromyalgia, tourrettes, Migraines, cptsd, anxiety, and adhd and autism.
I self-diagnosed as autistic since 2018 and only decided to get an official dx in 2021 as i finally found a place that diagnoses adults on a payment plan. Feel free to ask me more about that process if you’re interested :)
I also had a PFO (hole in my heart) that i had surgery for in 2020.
I am interested in psychology (studying it at uni), Magical Boy!, Boyfriends (comic), flowers, acnh, solitaire, puzzles, stardew valley, our life:forever and always, arcane, psy-changeling series, guild hunter series, the owl house, Welcome to Demon school, fantasy manga, pokemon, legend of zelda, writing, drawing, crocheting and some other random hyperfixation of the month (this month: DnD! Specifically the campaign my partner/housemate is running for me! And even more specifically, the ships between my character and the npcs they made haha)
I am a big supporter of Self Advocacy, Self-dx and self-care! I am also a spoonie <3
I tag my posts with either long post, various triggers where relevant, and im going to try to tag my posts as well “sleeps says stuff” and “sleeps shows stuff”
If there is anything you would like me to tag just flick me a message :D
Though fair warning, I will sometimes reblog nsfw in a reblogging brainfog. I'll try to tag anything very explicit but if you don't wanna see anything even vaguely nsfw probs dont follow.
Anyway! If you have any questions feel free to pm me or send me an ask! Even if you just want to vent or infodump I am happy to chat :D
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women keep trying to do evil mindbreak hypnosis on me by being nice to me and telling me i'm doing a good job and offering me treats and saying i'm a really good girl and that i should try to be kinder to myself and maybe just take this moment to enjoy, just the two of us, no pressure, no mask, nothing more to be afraid of or to constrict or constrain, just be present and feel the warmth and comfort that comes from being cared for. theyre doing this because they want to hurt me sexually
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I’m certainly not the first transfem to bring this up but there really is something to be said about how tmes arguing with trans women will suddenly and irrelevantly bring up their own personal trauma as a way to shut down any disagreement. I.e. once the trauma has been laid out any further disagreement with their initial argument can be framed as diminishing or even celebrating their trauma. I’ve seen this happen too many times not to notice a pattern
true + this also happens a lot in discussions regarding child abuse. people treat "I am a CSA survivor" as a thought-terminating cliche, as though "I am too" isn't a possible response. what's truly maddening is that it's often paired with some variation of "you're just trying to shut down the conversation/ignore inconvenient truths/etc".
there's just no way to get it through to them that no, I'm not doing that, you are
people will be completely serious when they tell you a character isn’t a transgender woman. they’ll say “he’s not a transgender woman he just only ever feels happy when he’s living as a woman and is terrified by the idea of abandoning that and he doesn’t actually feel any worse when he does the thing he used to as a man except certain things he’s afraid of due to worries of how he’d be treated if people discovered he was a man. also he isn’t 100% certain he’s a woman 100% of the time so it’s really just up in the air. no I will never ever identify him as a woman.”
Something the #transfem-voices-project has shown me, is how many trans women are used to being erased and minimized through language policing.
I'm sure Mousidy can confirm, but the amount of posts that start/end with "I'm sorry if this doesn't quite fit" or "I'm sorry if this is too long"/"not formatted correctly".
I think it's important to say how many trans women are used to getting language politic-ed out of spaces and how many times our phrases are co-opted and then weaponized against us.
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something about Toy Story toys is so strange to me. versions of animated characters based on real world toys, turned back into toys that are slightly different than the actual toys. slinky dog with a rubber spiral instead of a classic metal slinky. the porcelain bo peep and cloth woody turned into jointed plastic action figures. when toy story 4 came out and i saw a $30 talking action figure of forky, a character made out of a spork and a pipe cleaner, i stood in the walmart toy aisle staring at it like cameron from ferris bueller's day off staring at that painting in the art museum
Impudence is like the perfect princess word. you're impudent. my maid is impudent. Cease this impudence! the princess tongue was made to say words such as this.
This study is being done by Dr. Lisa Littman, Dr. Kenneth Zucker, and J. Michael Bailey. The same people behind the “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” and other Transphobic pseudoscience. Do NOT give information to them via ayagdos, they have a long history of retractions and reported misconduct.
Report this ad wherever you see it. The fact that staff allows this kind of shit yet still turning a blind eye to everything else is just pure hatred.
Burden of Proof:
The project is called AYAGDOS—brought to you by the same names behind “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” pseudoscience.
If you see this, don't participate. It's a rigged study by Lisa Littman and unethical researcher J. Michael Bailey meant to undermine access
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