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I am bisexual and a radical feminist/MERF I also mainly reblog but I make my own posts from time to time. This blog is mainly focused on Radical Feminism and Gender Criticism, but sometimes I reblog stuff related to my interests.

I am very much a gender abolitionist. I despise, i detest gender. The only time i see fit is describing the oppression of women/females and how gendered language and ideology carries that. For why I am so much of a gender abolitionist, see here.

I say I peaked near the end of May, but in reality after being in trans spaces for 6+ years I had many little peakings all throughout my journey and always just pushed them down until recently when I couldn’t ignore TRA’s misogyny anymore after having a good look at trans ‘feminist’ spaces for myself.

I identified as Nonbinary/Unlabeled/Transneutral for many years. I am still working through letting go of these labels I have used for myself for many years after having to acknowledge the harm in this gender ideology. I will sometimes refer to myself as ‘transneu’ jokingly.

I am very much questioning (and very much sure) that I have ADHD. (I’m just waiting for my screening).

I also having processing issues related to written text. I often will have to reread things to clarify and add on to my original statement in response to things, so please be patient with me!

I call myself a ‘MERF’ (male exclusionary radical feminist), not TERF (trans exclusionary radical feminist) because feminism is for all female people, trans or not. For why/how I went from TRA to MERF see here

I do not hate trans people, nor do I wish them death or rape. I do however, disagree with their stance on gender and sex. And do not think their ideology should be changing laws protecting women’s rights.

I identified as lesbian for many many years and through my journey post-peaking I have realized I am bisexual.

I remember having such a hard time trying to understand my sexuality because when you frame gender as this mystical and undefinable thing and also define sexuality as gender based attraction operating on that same incongruous definition of gender, there becomes holes in that logic.

It has been so much easier frameing bisexuality as “being attracted to/having the capacity to be attracted to both vagina and penis” as opposed to the insanity of the former.

That being said, just because I am bisexual doesn’t mean I’m going to suddenly forget all the lesbophobia I saw while identifying as a lesbian.

While that lesbophobia was ultimately misdirected as I am not lesbian, I will always stand for lesbians.

I fully support lesbian separatists and lesbians rejection of the ‘sapphic’ term replacing the word lesbian. (especially since gay men are not equally as pressured to replace their word ‘gay’ with achillean/vincian)

Also, les4les relationships are not biphobic or ‘lesbian supremacist’ (although lesbian supremacy sounds amazing). and to deny lesbians, women who experience an intersection of oppression for being homosexual females, the ability to prioritize themselves in their relationships is lesbophobic.

I also want to emphasize that while I understand why many lesbians can be hostile to OSA women, (mainly bisexuals) because of the cultural genocide happening to lesbian culture,

I will say it is insane to hate on OSA for being OSA. I see many lesbians hating on Bisexual Women for being OSA, and dragging them through the mud. It just reeks of misogyny,

Talking about your frustration from OSA women’s homophobia? Yes! That’s important to speak on and bring awareness of. Lesbians are SSA females!! Not a shelter for OSA individuals who have a ‘connection to lesbianism’.

Insulting OSA women for being OSA and saying they’re ruined being OSA and deserve the misogyny they face? Literal Misogyny. Fuck you.

This being said !!OSA women are NOT oppressed for being OSA, SSA woman do NOT and CANNOT oppress OSA women, because SSA women don’t have the privilege to do so!! I’m just mentioning issues within radblr specifically that I see/ have seen.

While on that topic I am also in full support of FTM separatism, a movement I am glad is gaining traction. FTMs are welcomed!

As for my dni, it’s the basics. I’ll also add scrotum-owners/males dni!

I’ll update this post as I see fit in the future but for now this is my new intro post!

Blinkies I made on blinkiescafe!

if you follow @/female-uncle then you’ve probably seen me venting to her in her askbox about a personal situation. this is apart of that. for context i tried to tell my TRA friends that I had become a GC/MERF and it was not well received. i made these big ol posts that didn’t really matter because I was shadowbanned so i ended up putting both on my strawpage. the strawpage is cropped because that account is no longer active! and the strawpage will be abandoned soon aswell. anyway, i’m trying to be more offline but i was mentioning to my little sister the whole situation and checked my strawpage and saw this. im so confused??? i don’t have an account anymore to answer these questions but im just so???

1.) then what the hell does it mean to be trans? for context i said,

“For a long time, to me, gender was just a social construct someone identified as. If someone born male identifies/relates to women/womanhood then that person is a woman. If someone born female identifies with men/manhood then that person is a man.”

that was my perspective from when I was a TRA.

like pro-neopronouns xenogender mogai radinclus (some words im sure most of you gyns have no clue the meaning.) Like I was a TRA TRA!!! if thats not what being trans is. THEN WHAT IS IT!!!!

2.) did you.. not listen to what I said at all?

Trans men = Woman/Female who transitioned to be a Man/Male (note you cannot change your sex).

(also no where did I ever state that gender doesn’t exist, but that gender is not a person experience and that ‘gender identity’ is a different branch of gender.)

So no.. gender abolition wouldn’t go with the idea that “Trans Men are Men” because one.

gender ***abolition***.

and two.

this is functionig off of sex = gender.

You cannot change your biological sex, you can change your sex to appear as the opposite and you can still have sex and piss.

But thats not changing your sex. Thats just cosmetically changing it..

So no. It would not. Because it would mean Trans Men (female) = Women (female). But again.

gender *********ABOLITION********

i know this isn’t a proper radfem post and more gendie insanity but like. I am missing something???? Anything???

omg my first anon!

[my friend showed me a different picture and you have NO IDEA the HELL i went through trying to find it. I deadass was wondering if I accidentally fell into the wrong universe where ‘doe bisexual’ was never a thing or that i had hallucinated the whole thing. This isn’t the picture i was shown but it’s close enough]

the term was introduced to me recently through a friend and i thought it sounded cute. all the nonbinary and boy terms sound so boring but luckily the bisexual girl terms are all cute.

but I recently found out it means ‘trans women excluding radical feminists’ and honestly that just makes me smile.