magistra

I love this because it applies to both gay men and gay women for completely opposite reasons.

Remember that not even 5 years ago tumblr in general understood what homosexuality is, and now it’s widely homophobic. Check the notes on this for an experience

You're reclaiming queer? Wow, thats crazy. I'm not. Do not call me that.

how happy do you think men were when they discovered they could destroy any pro-woman argument (anti-kink, anti-prostitution, anti-pornography, et cetera) with “that’s terf/radfem rhetoric” and people would listen? how happy do you think men were when they realized they could switch from ‘misandrist’ (too heavily associated with MRAs, not taken seriously by feminists) to ‘terf’ (scary prospect to be called, grounds for being cancelled, easy to guilt feminists with)? must have been a really good day for them.

the tumblr obsession with marsha p johnson is entirely performative. despite the pedestal, none of these people could tell you a single accurate detail of marshas life.

i agree that "dumbass useless husband hypercompetent wife" is a bad trope but also I think non-disabled people are really weird about the concept of caring for someone as a way of showing love

Then make media and fanfiction about men caring for their disabled wives, or yaoi where one husband is disabled and the other is the carer or something. Y’all have gotten way too comfortable telling feminists “this other axis of oppression exists, therefore you can’t talk about your oppression without making a million caveats” but never returning the favour by saying “i agree that non-disabled people erasing home care for disabled people is bad but also I think middle class men are still clinging to the days where they got to purchase a tradwife even though their wives now spend 40+ hours a week at outside jobs too, and that working class men have always treated their wives like tradwives despite the fact that their wives always spent 40+ hours a week at outside jobs too.”