So, You Wanna Stop Using AAVE?
What is AAVE?
AAVE is an acronym for African American Vernacular English. It is also known as Black English or Ebonics as well. It is a legitimate English dialect with functioning rules.Â
It is not âStan Langaugeâ, stan langauge and internet speak in general is derived from AAVE. You may be able to speak like this for fun or for clout, but we are forced to code-switch based on who weâre talking to or the environment weâre in as AAVE is commonly regarded as inappropriate, unprofessional, and âbroken englishâ.Â
Why Should Non-Black People Avoid Using AAVE?
When you overuse AAVE i (using it flippantly or without credit to its actual meaning), youâre contributing to the devaluing of the black experience. And, to be honest, when a lot of you use it it sounds very awkward or is often misused and just performative. Black people who speak AAVE have been made to feel lesser for speaking like this, so to see people use it flippantly is insulting and damaging to the black community.
The best way to ensure it isnât misused is to avoid using it at all. But knowing the actual meanings of these words and when to use them is a step in the right direction to avoid the words getting misconstrued. We need to keep in mind that the mainstream population gets to control the meanings of these words, so using them in an incorrect manor is damaging to AAVE and black people as a whole. IT IS NOT A MEANS OF MAKING YOU SOUND COOL, FUNNY, OR TO EMPHASIZE YOUR ANGER.Â
Some questions to ask yourself before using AAVE:Â
Is it being commercialized for financial gain?
Is the usage performative or tokenizing?
Are you in proximity to the culture that originated the terms?
Are you using the language to âlevel upâ or earn yourself âstreet cred
âPeople should be mindful of appropriating the rhythm of AAVE. It has a rhythm that differs significantly from that of other Englishes, and people tend to use the rhythm as a punchline or to seem more street savvy. Everyone knows the rhythm because everyone associates it with Blackness.â -JR Littlejohn
Hereâs a good list of words and phrases to stay away from. I gathered most of these from this google doc (i will reblog with links to avoid tumblr hiding this post in tags), if you check it out, it has explanations, alternatives, and everything you need to know about these words. I did add a couple of recent ones. Feel free to reblog and add more!
đ clapping đemojis đ between đ words đ
___ game on point, on point, on fleek, fleek
100, keepinâ it 100, one hunnit, one hunned, đŻ emoji (depending on the intended meaning), etc., 10s
-ass (at the end of an adjective
Ainât (depends on the context and the persona trying to be portrayed â are you imitating a Black woman/person?)
About that, here for this/that
AF, af, as fuck
Bae, boo
Basic
Bawdy
Be (habitual use, e.g. âThey be killinâ it!â)
Been (âI been knew that!â)
Beat, beat your face, beat for the gods
Bet
Biiiiiitch
Bless up
Bomb
Boss (When emphasizing something is great)
Bruh
Catch these hands
Chill (E.g., âGot no chill!â)
Chile (As in âchildâ, not the country)
Coins
Come for (someone)
Cop (E.g., âLet me cop that!â)
Crack/Crackhead
Cray cray
Crib
Cuffing
Cunty
Def
Dig, dig it, ya dig, you dig, you feel, you feel me
Dip
Dope
Drag, dragging, get dragged, etc.
Extra
Fam
Feeling some type of way
Fierce
Finna
Fo sho, fo real
Fuckboy, fuckboi, fuccboi, etc.
Gag, gagged (to mean amazed or taken aback)
Giving me life, giving me all, giving you (a look/mood/aesthetic)
Go off, but go off
The gawds, beat for the gods/gawds
Have several seats
Hella
Homies, squad
-the house, the house down boots, etc
Hunty
Hype, get hyped
I feel you
Killinâ it
Laid, laying your edges
Lit
Lowkey, and other -key terms (Variant one: How you really feel about something) (Variant two: Subtle, small, quiet)
Mad (Mad annoying, mad awkward, etc.)
Mean (e.g., Thatâs a mean beat!â)
Nigga (Do not use this or any variations if you arenât black.)
Period/Periot
Petty
Playa/Player (Or Stunna/Starboy for that matter, Starboy is Jamaican AAVE)
Po-Po (as in referring to the police)
Pressed
Ratchet
Read (someone), reading
Real (E.g., âThe struggle is real.â)
School, schooling
Secure a bag
Serve, serving, serving up looks/aesthetics
Shade (see âthrowing shadeâ)
Shook
Sickening (As in amazing, beautiful)
Side-eye (E.g., âI was side-eying them when they said that.â)
Sis
Slay
Snatch,looking snatched,snatch someoneâs wig/weave
Spillinâ tea
Stan
Stank face
Stay woke, woke
Stay, steady (habitual use, e.g., âShe stay working,â and âThey steady working.â)
Straight up
Swag
Take an L
Tea, T
The struggle
Thirst, Thirsty
Thot
Throwing shade
Tried it
Trip, be trippinâ
Turn up, turnt
Weak (âIâm weakâ)
Werk
Wypipo, whypipo, YT(s), etc.
Wig
Yâall* (depends on how it is performedâused in  way that seems like âacting Blackâ)
Yas, Yaaaaaas, etc.
Other Things to Avoid
double negation: âI ainât never seen that boy in my life.â
absence of 3rd-person singular forms:
âHe ainât got no choice but to.â
omission of the copula(to be):
âHe choosing!â
omission of the auxiliary:
âYou playing ball, bruh?â
past participle of strong verb denotes past tense:
âMan, I been done known that!â
Sources:
(Where most of the words and came from, this has definitions and alternatives!)
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Ioy3CDX_iR75DNJwvz7ftq51EXAvZ99C51HP1V_zPOY/mobilebasic
Alternatives and Substitutes for Appropriative or Problematic Language
https://waltdisneyconfessionsrage.tumblr.com/post/116538346824/mod-post-some-basic-things-about-aave
Mod Post: Some basic things about AAVEâŚ
https://crocyoota.tumblr.com/post/622750270149050368/a-message-to-non-black-authors-do-you-find
âA Message To Non-Black Authors â Do you find yourself using slang in your fics? Or using the BLM movement as plots in your writing or art?
A very serious question: I grew up in an area where this language is prominent and used a lot due to the community having a black majority. I have members of my family who married black spouses, and have mixed children who are my blood cousins. Because of this, I grew up around this type of language and use it very frequently in my own life - in my normal way of speaking - despite not being a POC. Is this something I should avoid?
I have spent a lot of time around black folks and picked up some of it myself. AAVE is derived from southern US dialects as it is, a lot of these are NOT exclusive to AAVE. As long as youâre not dropping N bombs you should be fine using whatever language is natural to you.
Iâd never dream of dropping that word, but a lot of these are words and phrases I use almost daily so I was concerned about whether or not it was insensitive or rude.
If your relatives and friends donât have a problem with the way you speak, itâs fine. They would be the first to tell you it was offensive. A lot of white southern people speak similarly to AAVE and always have. Dialects and language are not exclusive to any race because of the way languages blend locally and because of our global society necessitating learning other languages for commerce. Iâd bet my bottom dollar OP is one of those neo segregationists. The same kind of person who would say learning other languages is appropriation.
I live in the Southern US. A LOT of AAVE vocabulary, and to a lesser extent grammar and syntax, is shared by southern white people (especialy less educated/poorer Southern white people), and NOT saying âyâallâ or âfixing toâ will get you dirty looks as youâre basically letting everyone else around you know youâre either a Northerner or from the West Coast.Â
Also the âdouble negationâ thing is also comon in Latinos whose first language in Spanish, since itâs a carryover from correct Spanish grammar in which a double negative is required for most negative sentences. (Youâll also hear stuff like âI goâ for âI am goingâ because the present progressive tense in Spanish is relatively uncommon compared to English.) But apparently English language learners are racist now because their linguistic carryover from their first language happens to match up with AAVE.
âHellaâ is Northern California slang and âStanâ was popularized by a fucking white guy"s song!
every time I see a list of supposed AAVE itâs just likeÂ
A few of the more egregious entries on this list:
Bawdy â in common use since literally the 14th century
Come For (Someone) â no idea where it comes from but common in documents older than the US
Yâall â first recorded use was in the 1600s, a fundamental part of conversational english throughout the south and appalachia
Iâm Weak â pretty sure this one featured in the bible
Hype â origins unclear but a common part of speech across america since the 1920s
Read (someone) â definitely included in Shakespeare, not sure if he made it up or if it was in use before that
Hunty â if I didnât know better Iâd give you this one but I looked it up a few months ago because I had no idea what it meant and it comes from the drag queen community specifically; everybody else who uses it is appropriating transvestite culture
Just because you use a word a lot doesnât mean youâre allowed to forbid other people from using the word. You canât just declare half the english language to be exclusive to a specific skin color.










































