A massive grouper (toilet on the left for scale) 

so like, i am very used to girls standing next to me in public places. i end up acquiring a pack of ladies. just because women are like, that lady is a lady men stay away from. i am jerk kryptonite (usually, i get my fair share of creeps, such is life) but most men have self preservation that this 6′1 ox will break them. and i will

so usually i am in my own phone and look up to another lady standing next to me. and i will immediately look up and make eye contact and nod. like, you know, that nod. i see you and you can talk if there is something wrong. i end up on a reg basis being a defacto bodyguard to these young ladies and small women while waiting for buses and in the metro. 

i am a large oak tree. i protect the other birds. 

ladies, we all got roles. find tree in the wild. we’re always happy to provide shelter from the creeps.

LIL SIS WENT OFF, FOLKS. This tiny woman literally moved me out of the way, jumped up, and head butted Bro™️ in the face with such a fury. I thought she was going to kill him, it was truly a beautiful moment in my life.

“Men are afraid that the woman becomes strong. Because the strength of a woman can destroy his rule.”

This is amazing 😍

There’s nothing wrong with the term “gold star.” I think it IS something that should be celebrated. And we need to be working towards a world where ALL lesbians are goldstars. But the fact of the matter is, in the world we’re living in right now- that’s not the case. Telling women that they’re not “real” lesbians because they felt pressured to kiss a boy once at age 11 is flat out ridiculous. Telling a woman that she’s not a “real” lesbian because in high school she ended up “consenting” to having sex with a boy one time because that’s what she felt she had to do to be cool, or to be “normal”, or because he pressured her, is disgusting. Telling a woman she’s not a “real” lesbian because she’s forced to partner with man because she’s genuinely scared for her life due to homosexuality being illegal and/or punishable by death where she lives or the oppressive religious beliefs of her family, is fucking cruel. Telling women like me who were abused, groomed, raped, and forcibly impregnated as teenagers by an adult man and still have to take burning hot showers just to get the feeling of his hands off us, that we’re not “real lesbians” because if we were, we wouldn’t have “let ourselves” be groomed and raped (yep, that’s something I was actually fucking told last time this ~discourse happened!), makes you flat out fucking evil.

Last time this all went down, I watched them tell a 60-something year old lesbian who kissed ONE boy when she was a teenager (maybe even younger than that) and hated it and has since been exclusively with women, that she’s not a real lesbian. ONE boy. The implication that dick is just so goddamn powerful that so much as breathing in its direction one time before you’ve barely even hit puberty is enough to define you as a person for the rest of your life makes me fucking sick.

You think bi women work for years to be straight? No, if they don’t wanna have same sex relationships for any reason, they just live their lives with men. It doesn’t take effort.

Compulsive Heterosexuality is the act of engaging in heterosexual activity while being homosexual, that’s why it’s “compulsive,” by it’s very definition it cannot apply to bisexuals as bisexuals are attracted to the opposite sex naturally. 

Compulsive Heterosexuality is compulsive and takes root in gay people’s behavior because of conservative societies, upbringings, and social pressures leading gay people to feel self loathing and denial at their own sexuality. 

They will try to “cure” themselves, try to make themselves “normal,” and punish themselves for their own homosexual urges with it. They may also grow up completely unaware of what their attraction to the same sex has meant, and will have misinterpreted it as admiration or platonic love- and continue down the path that everyone they know goes down- Heterosexuality. 

The scars left behind can be extremely traumatic.

It is 100% pure homophobia for a bisexual- who has NO understanding of what it’s like to be gay- to be lecturing real gay people on a gay issue. 

I have seen gay users on this site claim Compulsive Heterosexuality isn’t real because of how threatened the gay community has been by bisexuals claiming to be gay. They will claim that someone who has experienced this is actually a bisexual trying to call themselves gay to be appropriative. 

Those gay people will engage in debates with other gay people who disagree, and so on, as it’s been for years- but it’s not the place of a bisexual to butt in. 

A lot of this discourse is just so unsympathetic to lesbians who live in 3rd world countries or under the Bible Belt, where christian cults thrive and literally beat the fear of god into their gay children. Sometimes with a belt, sometimes with a bible, sometimes with a 2 by 4. A lot of yall show that you dont know what it’s like to have your anatomy and sense of self completely ripped away from you by a christ cult, only for them to fill you up with self hatred and demand you perform the role they laid out for you like a monkey.

Lesbians: you’re not and that’s offensive